Let me explain a little bit. He's been my bestfriend for a very long time and he's gay. I only bring up that he is gay because he normally likes to go shopping. But, anyway, he didn't go wedding dress shopping with me. He has missed both of my showers saying that he just couldn't get off of work. Which I know is a lie because he knew a month in advance of both dates. Now I don't even know if he's going to come to the wedding because he has planned his annual thanksgiving dinner with his other friends the same day as my wedding. He started acting funny the night I got engaged. What should I do? Should I talk to him about it? Should I just leave it be? Need some advice. Thanks in advance for all of your answers.
2006-11-08 03:51:07 · 7 answers · asked by Kellybug 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
Yes talk to HIM... if he is your BF than you two should be able to talk about every and anything. Let him know that it hurt your feelings that he couldn't make it to the showers and stuff and that you really want him at the wedding. Thanksgiving dinners come every year, but your wedding will only happen once. If he doesn't seem to care..... then let it be.... your getting married and you don't need negative engergy around you. You shouldn't put so much effort into a relationship when you get nothing in return. I am sure he will NOT miss your wedding.
2006-11-08 04:54:17 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 09:14:34 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like, for whatever reason, he doesn't want to support your decision to get married. I think that after all this time has gone by, I would bring it up to him. Maybe he doesn't think the groom is good enough for you, or, heaven forbid, he has some kinda crush on one of you.
Someone who is your 'best friend' wouldn't just up and leave you at a great time like this unless there was a reason.
Good luck, and congratulations on your upcoming wedding!
2006-11-08 03:57:30 · answer #3 · answered by Queen Queso 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
It sounds that he is in love with you and finding it hard to accept your change in your life, He might be finding hard and thinking that he will loose you friendship when you get married. Yes sit down and talk to him, explain the situation and that he will not loose your friendship, and that he will always be a part of your life.
2006-11-08 08:48:10 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
He's not really gay. He wants you and always has. Now he can't bare to see you marry someone other than him, so he won't be there. You have to decide do you want to get married or do you want to have this "best friend" in your life?
He's being totally selfish, and as the bride that's your job.
2006-11-08 04:50:03 · answer #5 · answered by ee 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋
Please talk to him. He has been your friend for a long time and you and he need to resolve this. I hope you can figure it out.
2006-11-08 04:00:33 · answer #6 · answered by jen 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
are you sure he's gay?
2006-11-08 03:59:33 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋