I find it really hard to be sweet and nice to guys when I´m dating them. I have been seeing this guy for 2 months and I find it really hard to be nice and sweet I´m afraid of him knowing that I like him and I send the wrong signals. So propably he thinks I´m not into him when the thruth is I am, what can I do to act another way? It´s hard for me please help!
2006-11-08 03:51:17 · 12 answers · asked by crisy m 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
So, what is wrong with truth?
2006-11-08 03:55:28 · answer #1 · answered by Chubbs 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just be yourself. Taking dating to it's conclusion assuming all works out, would be marriage. If you're always acting when you're dating a person, they'll assume the character you're playing is who you really are. Now if it's hard enough to put on an act while on a date, imagine putting on an act 24 hours a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year until your death.
If after it has gone on too long you drop the act, it will seem to him that you have changed, since the person he fell in love with was just a character, and not actually you, he wasn't actually in love with you. This could undoubtedly cause great friction, leading to breakups/divorce, and more unhappiness.
So again, the logical course of action is to be yourself from the beginning. If the person falls in love with the person who is really you, then you can happily be you for the rest of your life. If the person does not, then you were incompatible to begin with, and you should move on.
2006-11-08 12:04:39 · answer #2 · answered by koncur 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, get a drink smile and try to have fun. He can since that your are somewhat uncomfortable around him, if you are shy with him after 2 months!! Just relax and try to engage in a conversation about something he like to do. By that, he can talk about what he likes and ask questions to you, and he can also ask you some questions, which hopefully will spark an interest from you to talk!
2006-11-08 12:01:05 · answer #3 · answered by heatedphunk 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just relax...tell him that you know you might be being a little rude but you really do like him. Hug him, flirth with him, hang out with him and he'll know that ur in to him. Maybe give him sweet kisses on the cheek or something.
2006-11-08 11:54:52 · answer #4 · answered by iluvashtonkutcher676 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u hv 2 do is b urself and if u really like him dont b shy of sayin so. and just know that u deserve bein happy and if he is ur happiness go 4 it and leave ur fears beyond.
2006-11-08 12:00:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i can see what you mean but you need to stop over thinking the way you act around this guy! hes going out with you because he likes you! theres nothing wrong wot soever showing him that you like him back! hes expecting you to show your feelings for him but when you dont show then back then he may be feeling like you dont like him! realx and stop thinking so much about how to act around him! just be yourself and dont think so much about how to act! show him how you truley feel he'll really aprriciate it :)
2006-11-08 11:57:09 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just be yourself. Be honest. Be fearless. This is the 21st century. It's ok for a guy to know you like him, and it's ok if you change your mind and don't like him anymore. You deserve to be happy and he deserves your honesty.
2006-11-08 11:53:40 · answer #7 · answered by Minuet 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just take it easy, and be yourself. If you have been seeing him for that long then maybe he feels something too, gotta risk it and find out.
2006-11-08 11:54:25 · answer #8 · answered by Smoke Eater 512 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have walls in your boundary, if you want successful relationships it's time to get them fixed.
2006-11-08 11:53:58 · answer #9 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax, all your doing is pushing him away, do you want that?
2006-11-08 11:52:31 · answer #10 · answered by Fruitful1 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋