Why do guys play stupid mind games with girls? Either they like you or they don't; they can be very misleading and blame it on you in the end. They start out wanting to help you in some way then they flirt with you getting them to like you and then run and act immature if you ask them out as a friend or just want to get to know them. So immature!
2006-11-08 03:53:58 · 19 answers · asked by Sweet Pea 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
i totally agree....i have this guy friend...that when i first met him...started flirting with me...we got a little closer....made out a couple times and i really like him...then he goes and says that he doesnt want a relationship and that he is just cuddly with his friends....it kind of pissed me off...especially because i liked him....we are still good friends tho.
2006-11-08 03:57:27 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Men speak a different language then woman. While it would be wonderful if men were blunt with us the way they are with each other, they feel they can't come out and say whats on their mind, hence the mind games come into play. This is how is begins.
First he looks at you constantly
Second he makes little flirtatious jokes
Then he touches you in subtle ways
Finally he makes bigger moves or pulls back totally.
Men are really confusing, but believe me we would not like them so much if they weren't. I wish a guy would come out and say, hey you are hot lets just do it. Guys....we want you to be more direct!!!!!!
2006-11-08 12:01:30 · answer #2 · answered by Danielle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to be more specific. Most guys take flirting as a romantic or sexual interest. If you dont want this, then dont flirt. I have lots of female friends who flirt with me constantly, but none seem to want to persue anything beyond friendship. And here is a clue, If a isnt constantly trying to be with you, he probably isnt really into you in the first place. If he makes up excuses to not be with you, he really is not into you.
2006-11-08 11:59:22 · answer #3 · answered by Brad 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh, and all the women out there are straight-forward, honest and sweet, right? Have you been reading the questions posed on this forum?? Man, the male-bashing thing is soooo old. Why don't you come up with a viable solution instead of just stating the same disgust at the problem?
2006-11-08 11:58:01 · answer #4 · answered by wetdreamdiver 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
THe lack of Maturity falls upon both, it's not a male or a female thing it's a personality thing. Guys are stupid and Girls are idiots(In General) weed them out over the course fo time and you find the right one. If Great Guys were everwhere you wouldn't care. So Idiots flood the Market and Guys like me love it, when you cross my path it's appreciated.
Thanks for coming out God Bless you Goodnight.....
2006-11-08 11:58:10 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
Men bashing, that's so much more mature! Don't you find it exhausting blaming other people for your problems?
People are people, they do stupid things sometimes. Just gotta know what's right for you.
You don't have to like it, but don't suffer over it either. Just say NEXT!
2006-11-08 12:00:04 · answer #6 · answered by adrian_biccum 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A guy who's really into you and ready to date will not play games. If he's playing games just realize he's not mature enough to make a good boyfriend.
2006-11-08 11:56:52 · answer #7 · answered by Ms. G 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Im a guy and guys just want 1 thing, to get into ur pants! They dont care how and I learned U have to be respectful and U get further .
2006-11-08 11:58:01 · answer #8 · answered by C-Dawg 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I totally agree.. But not all guys are like that the ones that's not are hard to find, but eventually one day you will meet a guy that is serious and knows what he want
2006-11-08 11:56:52 · answer #9 · answered by Kiwi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ya perfect way to say it. but some guys are damn idiotic. i have a friend that does the same fak**g thing every single day in school. he flirts like fak but then say that he does not like the girl just freind. but all the girls seem to like him. i wonder y??
2006-11-08 11:58:52 · answer #10 · answered by bramarock 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋