Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

My Gf..said me many times that,
1] if........I should leave her
2] If i am interested in someone else rather than her {when actually i was busy with my work]...i should leave her,
[3} if i dont im her.[when i am busy with something more important]. i should leave her,
and she would show she is super angry,and as if i have killed everyone on earth...I use to think ,if that is part of her nature I should accept her, be her punching bag, always be round her, so that her hands wont hurt if she punches someone{who dont care for her]
But....
1} it was her one mistake after 8 months ,
i just Shouted to check what she says .
2} I said her GET OUT OF MY LIFE..
3} She said she will follow my words..
and left has never shown yet....


WHY IT HAPPENED, like that
1}It took her -3-4 times to say me ...break our relationship...
STILL I always tried and kept saving our relationship,.
2} I JUST SAID ONCE..
and she has gone forever ?

whats wrong ? can anyone guess ?

2006-11-06 02:21:12 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-06 02:20:29 · 6 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

they once broke up and i thought that maybe we would get together then he went back with her. i claims to be so much in love with me buts he is not making any effort for us to be together. he has been my bestfriend for years and i always knew that i loved him but never really told him until now. and it seems that now that i told him i regret it because i put my feeling out there only for him to take advantage of them. i really feels like he is the one i would love to spend the rest of my life with.

2006-11-06 02:20:21 · 7 answers · asked by jordan 1 in Singles & Dating

How long do you think a girl should wait be4 sex if she doesnt want to be considered fast or easy or even a whore....

2006-11-06 02:19:26 · 21 answers · asked by KaKes 2 in Singles & Dating

I am , a recently single mother of 4. I just started a new job that pays 11.00 hour I also pay childcare for before and after school and fulltime childcare for my 2 1/2 now I need a night time sitter. The childrens ages are 10, 9, 4 and 2 1/2

2006-11-06 02:19:11 · 10 answers · asked by muffiesdemos 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

I have heard that you can judge a man's character by how he treats his mother? Is this saying true?
My current boyfriend of four years is really horrible to his mother cursing at her, pushing, stealing, and not being grateful for everything she does.

2006-11-06 02:18:56 · 22 answers · asked by *Amanda* 5 in Singles & Dating

ok this is kinda long: I went out with one of my friends sat. night and her boyfriend and we were sleeping at his house because we both lived so far away. so we go out and he was saying that he was going to put something in my drink so we can all have a sex together when we got home that night well i didn't beleave him i just thought he was joking cause i trusted him..so anyway he kept buying us drink after drink and i don't remember anything and i find that weird cause i always remeber what happens even if i am drunk so did he put something in my drink? so the next morning i was on the couch my shorts were on backwards and my shirt was in side out. i went pee and it was burning and i had blood down there and was hurting..i asked my friend what happen and she said we all had sex together..i left right then and there i am so mad and upset and scared..what do i do, is it my faught how do i act around both of them now..is it my faught..i don't understand how this happen..please help!

2006-11-06 02:18:34 · 24 answers · asked by Krystle 2 in Friends

2006-11-06 02:17:33 · 12 answers · asked by ◙Blue-Eyed♥Red-Headed♥Bella◙ 4 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 02:15:40 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

If a guy uses the word "darn" because he has plans and cant meet up with you. And says that you look "fab", is he abit of a dork or a proper gentleman?

2006-11-06 02:15:15 · 27 answers · asked by XCuteX 1 in Singles & Dating

Its simple... yes or no

2006-11-06 02:14:13 · 19 answers · asked by weeso1982 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hey out there.....i am on the bridge in finding a boyfriend.....but eveytime i think its mr. right i am wrong!!!

2006-11-06 02:14:02 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

We have been dating for a little over a year & have been really good friends for maybe a year before that. I have always been head over heels for him & Im crazy about him. But whenever we get into an argument, its always about the same thing & I just dont know if I should continue trying to fix things b/c it doesnt seem like its getting fixed. He never really tells me how he feels unless I ask him (if Im having a bad day or something, its just nice to hear, ya know?). He doesnt have a job right now, & I have been working full time for 3 years (Im 21, hes 24), he still lives at home, which Im 95% okay with, but I feel terrible for his mom b/c she is always doing the cooking, cleaning, mowing the lawn, etc! I just feel like if he is that way not, what if we end up getting serious or getting married? Is he going to grow out of the habit of letting the woman take care of everything? He had a job for a couple months out of the year & a half hes been out of school. (Graduated)

2006-11-06 02:13:51 · 3 answers · asked by hisbebe821 1 in Singles & Dating

I have two girls (2yrs 8 mo apart) and it seems they spend most of their time annoying the crap out of each other. If one of them is content playing a game etc, the other is compelled to meddle and completely upset their sister. Even when we settle down to read a story or something, they have to fight about sitting in the same square foot of space. I've been losing my patience with this more and more and even though I know it is not helping the situation, I'm at a loss as to what to do. (aside from banishing them to there rooms all the time) Does anyone have any suggestions on how to get them to get along better?? Maybe some games/projects where they need to work together?? They are 3 an 6 yrs old

2006-11-06 02:13:48 · 7 answers · asked by CHRYSTAL I 3 in Family

ive been going out with my boyfriend for 3 years, 1st relationship over one month, have been living together for 1.5 yrs, feel im asking myself the question, is this it a lot lately, i love him but i dont know if im in love with him, we spend all our time together and maybe thats half the problem. sometimes i wish iwas single, and feel maybe im missing out on something, but then again i dont know what id do without him, im afraid that il do something il always regret, either way. can anyone help?!

2006-11-06 02:12:58 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Cause i know when i get intamant with my lover i don't want her down stairs to look like a gorrila,hair yes but to much no.

2006-11-06 02:11:47 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

i have a good friend who has everything but no one cares and his not happy about it and the other one got lots of friends but dont have much money?

2006-11-06 02:11:40 · 38 answers · asked by weng 2 in Singles & Dating

Have you ever had that happen to you? Did you get rid of the man or the pet?

2006-11-06 02:10:49 · 18 answers · asked by Optimistic 6 in Singles & Dating

THIS GIRL WHO IS DATING MY HUSBANDS FRIEND IS MAD AT ME BECAUSE I DID NOT GIVE HER THE TELEPHONE NUMBER OF A DOR GROOMER WHO ALSO HANGS OUT IN OUR GROUP OF FRIENDS. THE THING IS THAT SHE WOULD ONLY CALL ME WHEN SHE WANTED SOMETHING AND NEVER TO SAY HELLO. WE WOULD MAKE PLANS TO GO SHOPPING AND WHEN IT CAME TIME SHE WOULD ANSWER THE PHONE. NOW I'M THE SOB FOR NOT GIVING IN TO HER WHEN SHE CALLS WANTING SOMETHING. I WILL NOT BE USED BY PEOPLE WHO SAY THEY ARE MY FRIENDS AND ARE NOT AT ALL THE FRIEND HEY CLAIM TO BE. MY PERSONNALITY TENDS TO LET PEOPLE DO THIS HAPPEN TO ME ALOT. THEN EVERYONE WALKS AROUND TALKING S**T LIKE I'M THE A**h**E! I CAN'T STAND IT ANY MORE! EITHER YOU ARE MY FRIEND OR NOT AND IF YOU WANT TO ACT LIKE YOU ARE IN HIGH SCHOOL GO AHEAD AND LEAVE ME OUT OF IT. ! ( SORRY I'M REALLY PISSED ) HOW COME WHEN THEY TREAT ME LIKE THIS IT'S NOT A BAD THING, BUT WHEN I STOP ALLOWING THEM TO TREAT ME LIKE THIS I'M SOME KIND OF CRAZY PERSON!! PLEASE TELL ME HOW COME PEOPLE DO THIS

2006-11-06 02:09:30 · 15 answers · asked by littlegoober75 4 in Friends

He is quite older than me and just got divorced.He said that he loved me but i don't understand why he just wants to live with me instead of getting married.Should i quit from him?

2006-11-06 02:09:10 · 22 answers · asked by sweetie 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-06 02:09:02 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Some friends of my parents are having a 50th anniversary celebration that I won't be able to attend, but I'd like to send a gift with my parents. What's a good gift for married people who are 70+?

2006-11-06 02:08:49 · 4 answers · asked by Coreydan 2 in Friends

i was dating this guy who i really cared about and was pretty sure he reallly cared about me. then i got worried b cuz he was going back to Chicago for part of the summer and i thought he would hook up with all his old girlfriends. so i broke up with him. i've tried to move on to other guys but i can't get him out of my head. i really regret breaking up with him and want to try it over again. but how should i tell him?

2006-11-06 02:08:21 · 8 answers · asked by mugglebornordermember 1 in Singles & Dating

Okay, my boyfriend of 4 years got arrested two months ago for selling drugs in my house (I obviously was not aware of anything) and I've told him that I'm done with him and will never get back together with him. He's since told me that he's cheated on me like 8 times while we were together...yuck right? Anyway, I've stuck by his side to help him out with his lawyer and such because his family won't but he keeps writing me these letters and telling me how much he loves me and we are going to be together forever. Well, I've started hanging out with this guy and I REALLY like him. The draw back is he was friends with my boyfriend. Neither of us care what everyone is saying about us but what should I do? Should I stick by my ex until he goes to prison or just break it off completely right now? I am torn because I am a very compassionate person and don't want my ex to be totally alone but I also don't want him to think he has a chance with me. Please help and what do I say to the ex?

2006-11-06 02:08:20 · 14 answers · asked by gbsunshine 2 in Singles & Dating

mine includes: the plumber who ripped me off recently, my boyfriend, my neighbour who plays the drums on a sunday morning and the kids on the asda adverts, although not necessarily in that order

2006-11-06 02:07:51 · 17 answers · asked by monkeynuts 5 in Other - Family & Relationships

2006-11-06 02:06:35 · 7 answers · asked by Prince C 1 in Singles & Dating

The worst of alI have left my husband once to she if things would change but they have'nt the best of all she go a lawyer and she was tring to take my son away from me. I leave next door to her what do I do?

2006-11-06 02:06:07 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

What does it mean when you raise your eyebrows while looking at a girl?

2006-11-06 02:05:51 · 12 answers · asked by S. 4 in Singles & Dating

Can you tell a most romantic and a creative idea of proposing a girl on her birthday?

2006-11-06 02:04:44 · 20 answers · asked by ithunderhyderabad 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 02:04:28 · 18 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating