Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

Im still a virgin and i think i have this problem for 3 reasons 1.My mom is one of them hardcore religious people and made me feel like I was gonna go to hell if I have sex 2. I hate being around germs/nasty/dirty things and that’s how I feel about sex (most of the time) 3.i’m scared that I will regret lose it …. i need some help with this problem what should I do? Or do yall know about any website I could go to?...my girl friendz keep leavening me cuz I wont do it….im 18/male

2006-11-06 02:35:21 · 11 answers · asked by Hore M 1 in Singles & Dating

k, there's this girl and we're good friends. i donno if she feels something 4 me and i don't let her just rarely that i could feel something 4 her. k, then she tries to control me and i refuse that. never mind that... we got to a point were we can tell each other some things and as she reached to get some candys from me that i wouldn't give her ... bleah she stinks like sweat, and i gave her the candys just to let her go away from me. lol. is it proper if i suggest her that she buys herself a rollon? (to avoid telling her to actually WASH!!)

2006-11-06 02:35:00 · 14 answers · asked by James Blond 4 in Singles & Dating

My husband of 4 months thinks if i have a baby with him i will feel better and more secure/fill emotional void?I am 18 and attend NYU taking 16 credits and he is 24 a promoter for a record company that does rap and hopes to be a producer he travels also travels alot and goes to a lot of clubs.He was offered a job in houston so even though i dont want to go we are going i have no say because i dont work and parents pay for college.He says we can afford one but i dont think its a great idea plus i saw a tape of labor and threw up.My parents cant stand him and i dont want a problem with them.Ho do i explain that the idea scares me?

2006-11-06 02:34:48 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

my male cousin who is 17 just got back from traning in georgia. He acts different than what he use to. We didnt get a long like we use to and one day he asked me if i got my hair cut i was like yeah so did leilo(Bestest friend i the hole wides world nickname) and hes like i dont like leilo. and i didntt really know what to say i was very upset he said other stuff to but i wont mention it. and now he wants to be buddy buddy with me again but whenever he calls to do something leilo is always with me(were like sisters iv known here my hole life no exageration) and i feel like he feels shes taking me over but its mys choice to hang out with her to. and weve always have been reeally close. i dont know why hes taking addvatage of it know and just starting to realise it. what should i say to him???Thanx!!!

2006-11-06 02:34:32 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I have two weeks to go for my wedding. I have everything done, but in my head I keep thinking I need something else. Does anyone have good ideas of a check list?

2006-11-06 02:33:56 · 11 answers · asked by Chica. 2 in Weddings

I am planning on making changes in my personal life. If you read tarot, or have a better sixth sense than I have, please help and give me your advice in these matters. I have fear that needs to be overcome in order to move forward. Are there any dates I should avoid ? Do you see anything bad happening to me? Serious answers only, please. I like to joke too, but right now, I'm serious.

2006-11-06 02:33:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

i have a cousin who went out the other night and she wanted me to go with her. i decided to stay home. she called me the next day, and told me what happened. she said she met a guy at the club and he took her home. and they did you know what. well me personally knows she is not that kind of person. she hasnt been in a relationship for a long time. she doesnt even go out that much. well. i think she feel bad about what happened but at the same time she was telling me she was tired of not having a man. well i dont know what to tell her. i understand that it gets lonely sometimes. i really love my cousin. she isnt a easy girl. i just think she was tired of being alone. what do you think?

2006-11-06 02:33:44 · 16 answers · asked by eaglestraces123 4 in Singles & Dating

*GUYS* Someone wrote me on Yahoo personals and we talked on the phone and hit it off. We are planning to meet in about 2 weeks. Should I stay in touch between then - if so, how often? I want to stay "top-of-mind" and show interest - but don't want to appear needy or psycho. I'm not good at the "dating game" Thanks.

2006-11-06 02:32:43 · 1 answers · asked by Esmeralda 4 in Singles & Dating

ok...over the weekend I had sex with my bf of 4 months and it was our first time together but we both had partners be4...

my sister never said anything be4 and the times for me be4 were not with me when we did stuff....


well now that me and my bf had sex she is constantly calling me a whore and she is so mad at me...


what did i do? what do you think could be wrong with her? what should i do now?

2006-11-06 02:32:42 · 20 answers · asked by KaKes 2 in Singles & Dating

HI IM 17 AND I HAVE A BABY GIRL.I HAVE NO RIGHTS WITH MY BABY,MY MOTHER DONT LET ME TAKE HER OUT,DONT LET ME TAKE HER TO MY BOYF HOUSE FOR HE AND HIS PARENTS CAN SPEND TIME WITH HER.THIS IS DRIVING ME CRAZY BECAUSE ITS LIKE I CARRIED THIS BABY FOR 9 MONTHS AND HAD HER FOR MY PARENTS.BUT NO SHES MY BABY AND WHAT I SAY GOES.LAST NIGHT THE BABY WAS CRYING FOR 2 SECONDS AND MY SISTER PICKED HER UP AND I TOLD HER TO PUT MY BABY DOWN AND SHE SAID THAT SHE CAN GRAB THE BABY WHEN SHE WANTS THAT SHE DONT CARE SHES MY BABY CAUSE I DONT HAVE RIGHTS CAUSE IM UNDER MY PARENTS ROOF.THEN SHE SAID THAT SHE WISHES THEY CALL CHILD SERVICES ON ME FOR THEY CAN TAKE HER AWAY FROM ME.SHE DIDNT EVEN WANTED MY BABY IN THIS WORLD SHE WANTED ME TO HAVE A MISSCARAGE.BUT I REALLY NEED HELP! I FEEL LIKE PACKING MY THING AND LEAVING AND NEVER LOOK BACK!

CAN MY PARENTS TELL ME WHAT TO DO?

CAN THEY PREVENT ME FROM TAKING HER TO HER FATHER HOUSE?

DO I HAVE ANY RIGHT AT ALL?

2006-11-06 02:31:07 · 30 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

we had an arguement bout lil silly fings nxt fing i knew it woz all serious he jus ended up calling me a hoe n i walked out of hez house

2006-11-06 02:30:48 · 14 answers · asked by lady sly 1 in Friends

I have asked guys to be honest with me before. It oesn't always work out that way. I no not all guys are the same, and I know some women do this too. But I just have a really hard time understanding why some guys won't or can not simply be honest, even if its not the easiest thing to be honest about...like wanting to date other people etc. But I would rather know the truth eventhough it might be hard to deal with, then be lied to and/or cheated on. Why is it so hard??

2006-11-06 02:30:07 · 8 answers · asked by stressed out 1 in Singles & Dating

from long distance hasnt emailed me in 2 weeks, cant get her on her cell no explanation, have i been dumped, she was having financial troubles, i am very worried

2006-11-06 02:30:07 · 35 answers · asked by mikealedmonds 1 in Singles & Dating

Plese notify me if you or anyone else knows this woman. I am her birth daughter Frances Ann Colvin..... (228) 282-5695

2006-11-06 02:29:57 · 1 answers · asked by frances Colvin 1 in Family

Be honest

2006-11-06 02:29:57 · 5 answers · asked by Snorty 1 in Singles & Dating

I started with this guy about 3 months ago and he always told me he was a year younger than me and i didnt find that too bad and then I found out his real age which is 15 and I asked him why he would ever lie to me about something dumb like that and he told me it was because he only wanted to be with me and assumed i would not want to be with him if he was 2 years younger than me.

2006-11-06 02:29:28 · 31 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Hi i am 44 years old i have been married twice and divorced twice i have been divorced now for 7 years i know the reason my past marriages failure was because God was not in these marriages i have been feeling fery alone in life even tho i know Jesus loves me and he will never leave me i have Godly morals and i am seeking my soulmate who is also a Godly woman when i was young my Grandma always told me to go to church to meet a good woman, i do go to church but do not feel this is a place to go to look for a date.
So to you single Christian women were do you go to find a date and what do you look for in a man?
Do any of you have this same problem i do believe there is a woman for every man and a man for every woman.
I don't go to bars because i know i wont find them there i have put a prifile on these dating sites but i think the word Christian turns them off i am even willing to move anywhere in this country to be with the right woman because i don't feel like i belong were i am at

2006-11-06 02:29:00 · 4 answers · asked by jamnjims 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 02:28:09 · 25 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Since i got pregnant my friends just seem to be slowly trying to get rid of me.. like all of a sudden not asking me whether i want to go out for meals and stuff.. and when i fone them they always make up exuses not to talk to me. None of my friends like my boyfriend niether and am thinking maybe that has something to do with it, but they need to realise that this is the time i need them most! what should i do????

2006-11-06 02:27:45 · 12 answers · asked by kisskiss78098 1 in Friends

We were together for 6 months, I was starting to doubt whether we had anything in common and if we should stay together--only because I am afraid to get close to ppl. He said the best things in life included the most risk and, if I could let my guard down and commit, the benefits from it would be endless. He went to a party and girl came onto him and they ended up kissing, but then he pushed her off. He said he afraid of losing me and thought this was going to be our final fight. He said he loved me and knew he didn’t deserve me/ took me for granted, he regretted kissing her. I said I could forgive him because I loved him but I kept bringing it up and it hurt our relationship. We spent too much time with each other and, when we weren’t together, I always worried where he was and who he was with. He dumped me saying he didn't see it as long term anymore and he didnt think he loved me as much. A month went by,he says he has realized he still does love me.

2006-11-06 02:27:44 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 02:26:25 · 12 answers · asked by flignar 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a friend, she is in the same age with me. She is sweet, nice, honest, and funny. But that was before i knew her deeply. Inside, she is a childish person, and she has hurt my friends' feeling because of her attitude.
I've tried to tell her how she's now, and she has to change before she lost her friends, but she seems to ignore me. Can anyone tell me how to convince that kind of person? I really love her like my own sister and i want her to change.

2006-11-06 02:26:06 · 8 answers · asked by Shevina 2 in Friends

well it is more than just me and him.i have a girlfrind too.im bi.he knows we are goin out and stuff so it is like a triangle.we are all going out with eachother.she has had sex with him already and im woried if i dont have sex with hiim soon he will leve me for her.she is 15.i like him alot and im still a virgine.what should i do????

2006-11-06 02:25:39 · 15 answers · asked by ? 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok, this guy I have liked for ages FINALLY asked for my number on Saturday night, and walked me home :-) I have kissed him a lot of times before but nothing else has happened and we have kind of been playing games with each other I guess. (which we both apologised for and admitted that we don't really like, whoops!) I actually got to speak to him properly Saturday night and made it clear I like him and I am fairly sure he likes me too.

When he said goodnight to me on Saturday he said to text him so I did just to say thanks for walking me home. He replied and said it was cool and good night etc. I just sent one back saying good night and left it at that.

I know its only been a day so I know he might be playing it cool. Should I do the same or just go for it?! Now that something has happened between us I want to pursue it but I don't want to come on too strongly. Why are these things so complicated :-p!

2006-11-06 02:25:00 · 15 answers · asked by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 02:24:53 · 7 answers · asked by rosy 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Ok serious question here. I was one of those guys brainwashed into being classy towards a woman. I know the mistakes in the past by bringing flowers to the girl on the first date anda ll and takeing her to very nice places right away, but let me ask what is doing too much or going overboard too soon?

2006-11-06 02:24:07 · 10 answers · asked by Arthur D 3 in Singles & Dating

For the women in the forum. Would you be less attracted to a man who shaved his head because he was balding? Assume that the man has a relatively nice face and eyes.

2006-11-06 02:24:01 · 11 answers · asked by Tom W 1 in Singles & Dating

My father passed away several years ago and was receiving socil security but his name does not come up in their index. I call the court house in the county where he died and his estate has never been in probate. Could this be another trick on my stepmothers part to keep me from finding out what was in the will? I live in the midwest and they lived in AZ so I have no info as to what they had other than I know that there were several business ventures.

2006-11-06 02:23:26 · 2 answers · asked by arlene c 1 in Family

2006-11-06 02:22:59 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I have almost been together for two years so our anniversary is coming up but I'm totally stuck on what to get him?
We're both 16, hes kindof the jockish type but doesnt play football because of an injury. Last year I got him a picture frame with our names and stuff engraved but this year I'm kindof puzzled on what to get him

2006-11-06 02:22:38 · 4 answers · asked by SoInLove 1 in Other - Family & Relationships