Im still a virgin and i think i have this problem for 3 reasons 1.My mom is one of them hardcore religious people and made me feel like I was gonna go to hell if I have sex 2. I hate being around germs/nasty/dirty things and that’s how I feel about sex (most of the time) 3.i’m scared that I will regret lose it …. i need some help with this problem what should I do? Or do yall know about any website I could go to?...my girl friendz keep leavening me cuz I wont do it….im 18/male
2006-11-06 02:35:21 · 11 answers · asked by Hore M 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Ok, my suggestion is to stay a virgin until you are comfortable with your own body......you have this view on sex because of your childhood and what your mom has institute in your head about the act. Religious parents often refer to sex as a nasty thing to prevent their children from engaging in it. please do not view sex as being nasty and a dirty act....in fact sex is a beautiful thing if done with the right person at the right time. Not for nothing, God created it so that it can be a intimate moment between a man and woman. First, I do commend you for saving yourself... However like all actions sex comes with responsibility.....you have to shed your negative mental notations on sex period. Second, you should talk to your dad, brother, friend or someone that you can trust regarding this situation (maybe their previous experience can be an example of how to or not to handle sexual encounters). Be sure when you are ready physically and mentally for sex, that you engage in it with the right girl. Dont do "IT" just because! You will have regrets......and if your girlfriends keeping leaving you just for that fact then you dont need to be with them.....there are plenty of girls out there that share your views and wouldnt have a problem waiting for you no matter how much time you need......know your self worth!....
2006-11-06 02:49:37 · answer #1 · answered by teaspoon520 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm also from a very religious back round, don't let anybody that says their religious stop you from making choices they are supposed to be understanding not judge mental. 2ND, sex ain't dirty as long as your not humpin a nasty chick. so try taking a shower together before you do it, and if you think you'll regret losing it, then don't, and stop dating sluts, go find a virgin girl, I'm sure there are still some out there somewhere.
2006-11-06 02:44:31 · answer #2 · answered by brent0331 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
What you need to do is listen to your mom. Your so called girlfriends you looking at the wrong girls, find you a girl in church (who really takes her religion seriously). If those girls you are dating do not want to wait until you are ready then all they want is sex. Women go through the same thing.
2006-11-06 02:44:43 · answer #3 · answered by Ziya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey you should never feel less about yourself because your a virgin! be a proud virgin do what is best for you and honey if your girlfriends leave you because you won't have sex with them then thats all they wanted chill out honey when it's the right time it will happen for you
2006-11-06 02:41:46 · answer #4 · answered by blood_shadow_walks 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The solution to scale down your intercourse force is to come to be interested by some thing else. Exercise is a well diversion. You can absorb a interest or volunteer someplace. Just your awareness to different matters might spark his curiosity.
2016-09-01 08:04:14 · answer #5 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow. you shouldn't give it away. IF you friends leave you because you are a virgin then something is wrong in their brains and you are better off without them. Don't give yourself up to anyone. Keep it as long as you want, until you find the right guy. Please..
2006-11-06 02:41:36 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
1. Forget your mom, your life is only yours
2. Sex is not nasty, is natural thing. Use always condom
3.Don´t do anything you don´t want to do; do it only if you really want it, you have time enough
4. Enjoy it, sex is great ( when is great...)
2006-11-06 02:43:50 · answer #7 · answered by northener70 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
YOU MY DEAR ARE ONE OF A KIND F@!K YOUR FRIENDS. STAY THE WAY YOU ARE ITS COOL NOT TO BE HAVING SEX CAUSE IF YOU DONT LIKE GERMS AND AND DIRT THATS WHAT YOU GET WITH SEX.TO MANY STD"S OUT THERE WAIT YOU WILL KNOW WHEN ITS TIME DONT RUSH IT AND DONT LET YOUR FRIENDS RUSH YOU. TAKE IT SLOW IT WILL COME TO YOU ON WHAT TO DO AND WHEN TO DO IT. FROM FEMALE 28
2006-11-06 02:42:54 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so young and it is normal to be virgin at your age.... The whole life is ahead... Bear up!
2006-11-06 03:26:46 · answer #9 · answered by simplegirl 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait for the right person... Then it wont be dirty!!! :)))
2006-11-06 02:52:55 · answer #10 · answered by sassy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋