Since i got pregnant my friends just seem to be slowly trying to get rid of me.. like all of a sudden not asking me whether i want to go out for meals and stuff.. and when i fone them they always make up exuses not to talk to me. None of my friends like my boyfriend niether and am thinking maybe that has something to do with it, but they need to realise that this is the time i need them most! what should i do????
2006-11-06 02:27:45 · 12 answers · asked by kisskiss78098 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Make friends with pregnant ladies. Then your children can be friends. Just let your friends know that you are missing them, and invite them out with you. It may seem like they're making excuses not to talk to you, but they may be genuine excuses. See your family lots as well, they are good for support.
2006-11-06 02:37:06 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself why they don't like your boyfriend and if they might have a point.
Ask yourself, too, whether you really want them as friends? If so, challenge them. You can always blame pregnancy hormones if they take offence, but do get your point across.
Also ask yourself if you might be doing something to annoy them - acting too smugly, being awkward about activities, etc?
2006-11-06 10:34:21 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well they clearly aren't your friends if they won't even talk to you! Move on, find new friends, do something new (something that won't put a potential strain on your baby, like boxing or whatever, lol). There are loads of things to do other than hang out with fair-weather friends!
2006-11-06 10:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by Lady_Rachelina 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I understand (I've never been pregnant or anything but I do understand). Friends are horrible sometimes. It's their loss and they're not true friends. At least you've got your boyfriend and your baby tho. You don't need disloyal friends.
2006-11-06 11:51:35 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
get new friends cause your "friends" if they were real would be there for you no matter what. their friendship would be unconditional...so they're not real friends. i would be your friend if i knew you.
but you need to talk to them and tell them how it makes you feel when they do that stuff...and your boyfriend too...is he the father? well if he is he should be beside you all the time even when your "friends" arent.
2006-11-06 10:49:23 · answer #5 · answered by J-Lynn 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How long have they been your friends? Maybe you need new ones, tell them how you feel if you feel comfortable with talking to them about your feelings.
2006-11-06 10:37:06 · answer #6 · answered by shellbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its a sad fact that our lives get put on hold when we have children, and the true friends are always there, but remember the ones who dont were really friends you could do without anyway!!
friends are like stars...you dont always see them but they are always there.
2006-11-06 10:31:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find some new Friends.. they obviously aren't good mates now are they?
2006-11-06 10:30:51 · answer #8 · answered by weeso1982 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
maybe you didnt care for them when you were seeing this guy-anyways now try to invite them over often-and then hopefully they will too.
2006-11-06 10:31:44 · answer #9 · answered by IKNOWNO 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is the right moment for you to see your true friends!if they are avoiding you then they are not the one for you !move on .good luck!
2006-11-06 10:53:49 · answer #10 · answered by weng 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋