I have a friend, she is in the same age with me. She is sweet, nice, honest, and funny. But that was before i knew her deeply. Inside, she is a childish person, and she has hurt my friends' feeling because of her attitude.
I've tried to tell her how she's now, and she has to change before she lost her friends, but she seems to ignore me. Can anyone tell me how to convince that kind of person? I really love her like my own sister and i want her to change.
2006-11-06 02:26:06 · 8 answers · asked by Shevina 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why is your friendship based on what you want her to be, and not on who she is?
2006-11-06 02:28:10 · answer #1 · answered by janicajayne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone and desire for them to change all you want. But for them to actually change they have to acknowledge that there's a problem. If she thinks she's fine she won't think there's a need to change how she treats people. All you can do is talk to her kindly about the affect she's having on others. If she won't listen to you then I'd say pushing the subject will only mess with your friendship with her.
2006-11-06 02:31:17 · answer #2 · answered by Angela G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Be patient with her, she will mature in her own time. We are all different people and we all grow up at different rates. How boring would it be if the population of this world was all alike.
Find things to do with your girlfriend that done require alot of maturity and are lots of fun. You sound like a special person yourself.
Take care-
Cat
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2006-11-06 02:34:18 · answer #3 · answered by CatLambe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what u should do is show her examples in your daily life dont tell her ,if she embarass or tells someone something just tell her that was not nice in a very nice way if for instance u and a next friend and she is going out and she tells the next friend something show her and example in a certain way so that she would relize how she is getting on
2006-11-06 02:32:39 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
People like this have to break have you tried getting her together with all your freinds and have like a therapy session let her hear from everyone at once how they are being treated by her and let her know i much better things can be if you work together as freinds
2006-11-06 02:32:28 · answer #5 · answered by shellbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i'd advise slowly ending the friendship via being unavailable whilst she needs to occasion. replace your password and don't provide it to her, plus, if she has your B-acquaintances email, tell him to alter that. i does no longer advise yelling at her with the aid of fact might in basic terms reason issues. If she starts to threaten to beat you up, tell adults! that's no longer allowed in school and that i'm particular your mom won't submit with it the two. ending a friendship is complicated yet now and lower back, its the proper subject to do. you desire acquaintances who raise you up, no longer knock you down.
2016-10-03 08:24:32 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i have a few friends like that. but i tell them how i feel. that they need to grow up and get out of the 5th grade thing...all i can tell you is to just talk to her.
2006-11-06 02:59:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep tellin her, or just scare her by telling her u dont want to be her friend anymore show her u mean business
2006-11-06 02:29:52 · answer #8 · answered by susu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋