from long distance hasnt emailed me in 2 weeks, cant get her on her cell no explanation, have i been dumped, she was having financial troubles, i am very worried
2006-11-06 02:30:07 · 35 answers · asked by mikealedmonds 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
some intelligent answers please
2006-11-06 02:32:42 · update #1
She is going through her period.
2006-11-06 02:31:37 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Unfortunately long distance relationships are very hard to maintain. It would be hard for both people to fully understand and support the other in their choices, circumstances etc. Have you actually met her? have you seen a pic of her? how often was communication before? was she trustworthy? Do you know her address? has she done anything like this before? All I can suggest is that you keep trying, if you are really concerned over her well being then you may have to take it to a higher authority, yes I know some of you will gasp in horror, but it is obvious this guy cares for her alot, and will worry till she knows she is safe. On the other hand maybe shes keeping quiet and is trying not to worry you with her burdens. Or she wants to be left alone? I would say that you havent necesarily been dumped yet, though it may be on the horrizon. I'd wait to get a response of some kind saying so, but only give it 2/3 weeks longer till you decide what to do. Accept its over and try to move on, or make sure is ok, one way or another. Tricky one, we can all give you advice but only you can decide I'm afraid.
2006-11-06 02:49:47 · answer #2 · answered by Need_to_know 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Time seems longer with long distance relationships. Although you should be patient with each other, two weeks without contact is a long time. It sounds like she's got another guy on the go. If you can't contact her, and you don't love her, move on. If you do love her, keep trying , and after a month give up and find another sexy lady. There are lots out there and you deserve to have an eager gf.
2006-11-06 02:33:57 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
If you have the time you should go visit her. She may just be having a hard time dealing w/ the long distance thing or the financial troubles.
2006-11-06 02:40:21 · answer #4 · answered by Kim 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say that she is either ill, or just can't face talking to you. She may also be on holiday and has just forgot to let you know. Bit of a tricky one this. If it was me, I'd email her, asking her to get in touch in when she can and that you will speak to her soon. If you turn up at her door, you might find out something that you don't want to know. Give it another week and if you haven't heard from her from the email, think you may have knock that one on the head.
2006-11-06 02:47:46 · answer #5 · answered by Laracroft81 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She was having financial troubles, well she may not have money in her phone. She may not be well. She may have traveled to some place looking for a job. So many possibilities are there. You have not been dumped. Unless she tells you so. She is just too busy
2006-11-06 02:36:45 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Write a few more emails, but if hse doesn't respond at all, I think you have been dumped...forget about her...
Now the financial problems does make me think she just couldn't get in contact with you but hell there are public libraries and such for her to be able to email you at least!!! I don't know give it time!!!
2006-11-06 02:33:09 · answer #7 · answered by lasugarfree 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Could be she needs to back off and reevaluate how she feels. Respect that. Does not necessarily mean you have been dumped. If she loves you she will come back.She may be afraid and not ready for you or anyone else in a serious relationship. Afraid to commit? Good Luck.
2006-11-06 02:41:15 · answer #8 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
there may be a very simple explaination and you getting yourself all worked up, she has proberly met this new group of male friends and she is working her way round there big buff bods while each of them give her the best possible sex ever, she is proberly way to busy to even talk on the phone, but hey once her nanny cant take anymore am sure she will call you with her *** sitting on an ice pack, so just chill out and go get a "bag to shag"
2006-11-06 02:42:18 · answer #9 · answered by azmondo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you said she was having some financial trouble and that might very well be the reason that she hasn't contacted you. if i were you i would expect the worst and hope for the best. just so you don't get that feeling of getting caught with your pants down when you find out what happened
2006-11-06 02:35:35 · answer #10 · answered by D R 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If she seemed like a trustworthy girl, and seemed to be interested in you! Then she probably wouldn't just dump you like that, so maybe there is something really wrong. So my advice would be to go see her, make sure everything is ok. Even if she break up with you, by going to see her-she will know that you really cared for her, and she will love that! It may make her start to love you even more!!!
2006-11-06 02:33:13 · answer #11 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋