Ok, this guy I have liked for ages FINALLY asked for my number on Saturday night, and walked me home :-) I have kissed him a lot of times before but nothing else has happened and we have kind of been playing games with each other I guess. (which we both apologised for and admitted that we don't really like, whoops!) I actually got to speak to him properly Saturday night and made it clear I like him and I am fairly sure he likes me too.
When he said goodnight to me on Saturday he said to text him so I did just to say thanks for walking me home. He replied and said it was cool and good night etc. I just sent one back saying good night and left it at that.
I know its only been a day so I know he might be playing it cool. Should I do the same or just go for it?! Now that something has happened between us I want to pursue it but I don't want to come on too strongly. Why are these things so complicated :-p!
2006-11-06 02:25:00 · 15 answers · asked by guylian_chocolate_seashell 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I'm not desperate - just EXTREMELY interested in this guy! lol. Haven't been this interested in any one in a while and don't want to miss out!! lol. I can understand why my question sounds desperate though, hahahaha!
2006-11-06 02:31:44 · update #1
Girl just wait to see if he will call you. Good things come to those who wait. Be patient, if he does not call you with in 2-3 days then call him and ask him whats up. If you are ready to be with him and he is not then leave him alone and you both just be friends.
2006-11-06 02:30:32 · answer #1 · answered by Ziya 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just sit back and let him do some of the work. A relationship should be like tennis-after you serve, you need to wait for the ball to be sent back. If you start doing all the work now, he might become depandant on it and it could get tiresome and possibly even depressing for you.
If you want your relationship to have some longevity to it, you want to try to take it easy at first. Coming on too strong can burn out both of your flames and then there will be none of the passion left.
Relationships are essentially a game. You may think that they serve absolutely no purpose, but they are made to keep the attraction between the two of you.
2006-11-06 10:30:46 · answer #2 · answered by b-rad 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think a lot of girls make this mistake, they call the guy as soon as they don't call them. And what this causes-is lack of respect for the girl. I have been dating my boyfriend for seven months. I have only called him twice in that whole seven months. He calls me and respects me. He opens the door for me everywhere we go-he fills me with compliments daily, and he is a wonderful guy. But he has told me that if I would have given in and called him after the first date or even call him all the time and make my plans around him that he would lose interest in me and just think I was some other girl. So from experience. . .wAiT!!! If he likes you enough he will call, and make him respect YOU! You will not regret it later!!!!
2006-11-06 10:30:00 · answer #3 · answered by hick_chick017 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Ahhhhh yay!!! I love it when things work out like that!!
Just txt him!! What have you got to loose! Just txt something quite casual like ' So did you have a sore head yesterday?' obviously only if you had been drinking on saturday nite!! Or if you hadnt just txt something like 'Saturday nite was really good,maybe i will let you walk me home again soon Hehe' Good luck hope it works out for you x
2006-11-06 10:39:05 · answer #4 · answered by jo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No hurry let some time pass and feel how things are going before you really commit to love this guy
2006-11-06 10:30:25 · answer #5 · answered by R C 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait awhile! act casual, maybe til mid week anyways!.. see if he text u first maybe he is thinkin the same! ... if he dosnt bite the bullet text him! whats there to lose! its only a msg! youl soon find out iff he is interested or not
2006-11-06 10:29:09 · answer #6 · answered by cheese 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why not text him?
Just tell him that you hope he has a great day and you look forward to hearing from him soon.
2006-11-06 10:28:29 · answer #7 · answered by Yo LO! 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Wait a little
2006-11-06 10:31:19 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'd better wait because you have already been teasing, and so far all he knows is that you could be desperate or a flirt.
2006-11-06 10:27:28 · answer #9 · answered by Kacky 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
No wait for him to call you,no matter what.This way it won't make you look desperate.Have him chase you.
2006-11-06 10:35:38 · answer #10 · answered by rhoda c 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋