Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

I LOVE THIS GUY, I ALWAYS THINK ABOUT HIM!!!
WE'RE FRIENDS, HE LIVES LIKE 4 HOUSES AWAY FROM ME, WELL, ACTUALLY HE LIVES IN MEXICO BUT HE GOES TO SCHOOL HERE. SO WE WERE HANGING OUT THE OTHER DAY AND WE WERE TALKING AND GETTING ALONG. HE KEPT STARING AT ME BECAUSE I WEAR PREPPY CLOTHES AND HE LIKED HOW I WAS DRESSED (AMERICAN EAGLE) , AND WHERE I LIVE, AMERICAN EAGLE, THE SHOP, IS FULL OF GAY OR BI PEOPLE!!!! ANYWAY, HE WAS SHOWING ME HOW HE SKATES, BUT THEN I THAUGHT, THAT THE GUYS IN MY SCHOOL THAT SKATE ARE, IN MY OPINION, GAY OR BI. SO IM THINKING, THIS IS MY CHANCE!!!
I COULD HAVE SEX WITH HIM NOW!!! BESIDES, I WONT SEE HIM FOR LONG. SO, MY PLAN IS TO TAKE HIM TO MY HOUSE SO WE CAN PLAY SOME TONY HAWK(BECAUSE HE LIKES TO SKATE) AND TELL HIM " HEY, ARE YOU A VIRGIN?" THEN "DO U WANT TO HAVE SEX WITH ME?" OR JUST PULL DOWN HIS PANTS QUICKLY, BUT I DONT THINK HE'LL GET PISSED OFF, BECAUSE, WELL HE DOSENT ACTUALLY HAVE A GIRLFRIEND! SO, SHOULD I HAVE SEX WITH HIM???

2006-11-06 02:48:54 · 27 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

im seeing a guy casually at the mo. im a bit worried as i dont know what his intentions are. ive just come out of a serious relationship and am unfamiliar with the signs. ive asked him if he sees me as another knotch and he said i was being ridiculous and talking nonsense. should i believe him?i have only kissed this guy and hes not pressuring me for anything more.

2006-11-06 02:48:47 · 24 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Singles & Dating

i was in a relationship for 6 years to a guy who beat me raped me and controled me i was terrified of him, but pretended that everything was ok when we had visitors as i thought no one would believe me or they would blame with. any way my now hubby saw the bruises and took me away from it what i cant understand is why the hell did i stay with him and put up with it, i have seen him recently and i think you are not as scary as i thought you were he was pathetic actually, why couldnt i see him for what he was why did i let him control my life with fear, am i so bloody stupid most women would walk wouldnt they, im still not over it but my new hubby loves me and i feel safe and happy and loved now so i supose i came out of it ok.

2006-11-06 02:48:01 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my coworker goes on and on about how she doesnt like the supervisor and how bad she treats her and im like ok enough is enough so i stay quiet most of the time when she comes in. i dont want to hear negative stuff all day. she feels that the boss wants to be her so bad that she will fake being polite, blah, blah, blah. then she talks about her failing marriage and beats that to the bone. im tired of talking about negative stuff, alot of times i feel like she likes to keep stuff going. now she seems to think she is better than some people. when im quiet she thinks i have an attitude. i just want to come to work and do my job. i dont care about what everyone else is doing.

2006-11-06 02:46:33 · 5 answers · asked by MiaDiva28 6 in Other - Family & Relationships

The only thing that my stepkids (aged 16-21) could hold against us is that their dad married me. He is happy with me but they have almost nothing to do with us, barely giving us the time of day anymore. (i.e. returning 1 phone call for about every 4 made and message left for them)

2006-11-06 02:44:43 · 10 answers · asked by OOO! I know! I know! 5 in Family

2006-11-06 02:44:32 · 26 answers · asked by hajira khanum 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i love my boy friend but i love him even more but he said he likes my friend only because my boy friend told him to say yes but he keeps staring at me what should i do?

2006-11-06 02:44:30 · 10 answers · asked by christena 2 in Singles & Dating

Right, My ex's boss has asked me out. I'm 23 and my ex is 21. We have been on and off for 3 years. We decided to give it another go and all was wonderful - or so i thought - until 3 days after my birthday he tells me that he doesn't love me and has been using me! Lovely! So as i have been through all the cr*p before with him - i seem to be alot better (although lets face it, anybody telling you they no longer love you is always a kick in the teeth!).
His boss is 30 - owns a very succesful business but of cos he is my ex's boss. Before I meet my ex - people were trying to set me and his boss up.
Now the 'boss' has asked me on a date - half of me wants to go and the other half doesn't. I've been hurt so bad by my ex that i want to get him back - or maybe this 'boss' is the man of my dreams??? Arrrrrr - please help x

2006-11-06 02:44:15 · 23 answers · asked by Lost??Please Help 1 in Singles & Dating

I like this boy~and i really want to go out with him-cuz' i think he likes me too, but on the 18th is homecomming and he has a date, should i wait??? or forget about it???

2006-11-06 02:43:20 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I know there should be a shared responsibility, but shouldn't it be more of a mom to teach the girl, and a dad to teach the boys. What about single moms raising boys or single dad raising girls, how does the "Talk" happen, what can they explain?

2006-11-06 02:43:10 · 6 answers · asked by Abused Tampon 1 in Family

I've been with my husband since we were 15. We've been married now for 4 years. Recently he's asked me to call someone elses name in bed. He doesn't tell me whose name to use, he leaves that up to me. When we talked about it he said he wants me to fantasize about being with someone else. At first I played along thinking we were keeping things exciting and fun. But now, right in the middle of (you know) he says, "You know what to do". I call someone elses name and he's done in no time! This makes me feel akward. I'm very atracted to my husband and don't desire to be with anyone else. I talked to him about it and he said that he doesn't know why this turns him on so much.
Does anyone know why he's turned on by this???

2006-11-06 02:42:41 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-06 02:42:28 · 14 answers · asked by bob 1 in Singles & Dating

I was married at 16 and am still married to the same man at 42. My oldest daughter married at 16 and had her first child at 16 making me a 36 year old grandmother. Everyone said my marriage wouldn't work because he was 8 years older than me. But we made it through the good times and bad. Anyone else out there committed forever?

2006-11-06 02:42:02 · 24 answers · asked by moose on the loose 3 in Marriage & Divorce

I'm getting married in December..and looking at the dresses online..i absolutely loved an ivory colored dress. I wanted to be different instead of wearing white..since you can't reallly see the details in the dress when it's all w hite.
I chose an Ivory dress w/ rum detailings. It's really pretty...it's just that my moms wants it white. I told her if I chose white then you wouldn't be able to see the details. But she's kinds worried about the whole traditional thing. What will people think when they don't see you in a white dress? That's what she kept saying. I said...well...I don't care...i love this dress. But the problem is...the majority of people coming to my wedding are hispanics...and that's a big thing w/ the hispanic. I hope i made the right decision b/c I don't want to stress about that on the day of my wedding. I mean..I'm hispanic myself...but I wasn't feeling the white dresses I tried on. I guess I"m just worried of what people will say.

2006-11-06 02:41:57 · 24 answers · asked by rosalba1101 2 in Weddings

About 4 months ago my sister snogged my guy mate and for about a month they would see each other on a friday night and have a snog and thats all that ever happened. Then he said to her that she was to young for him and that it would never go any further. But then it turned out the real reason why he finished it was because he had feelings for me and I won't deny it I had feelings for him but this was even before my sister kissed him. Now those feeling have turned into more and I love him and he says he feels the same. But my sister doesn't want it to happen but i seriously do not know wot to do about it though?

2006-11-06 02:41:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

i have thise friend in my school. and im there for her. she is actually a very pretty girl, it is just that she is overweight. and now she likes this guy. and her confidence jsut sinks lower and lower.
i always tell her that she is beautiful, and that its good that she is trying to loose wait. cause she goes to do sports. is it right wat im doing? are there some tips that can make wat i say more effective? cause i dont want her to listen to these other mean girls, that tell her that she doesnt have a chance...

2006-11-06 02:41:37 · 6 answers · asked by sabinaauchi 2 in Friends

I'm depress cause I like my best friend Girlfriend , My Mother keep me form being happy , I'm always getting rejected from jobs ;and i don't have a bad background , I try to write music,Focus in school ,And other problems . What should i do to aovid and concertate on these type of things casue I feel different about my life, School wise & Others . Please be plotie

2006-11-06 02:41:03 · 1 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

heey ..HOW ON EARTH DO PPL FRENCH KISS hehe...i mean..i know how it is but i suck at it....help me develp my "kissin skills" n wuts a perfect kisser is for u?

2006-11-06 02:40:19 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

okay 3 of us are friends, and one is hanging out with another woman who is fake and not liking us two. So, which means our first friend is being distant to me and my other friend. so I tell my friend that our other friend is distancing herself from me and it hurts my feelings.. I told her not to tell our friend who is acting all weird.

Yesterday I got a card saying how she doesnt want to seem like she is distancing herself from me.. Now I am thinking that my other friend told her what I said and that the only reason I got a card is because my so called friend told her about what I said! If that is the case, I dont want the card. Its as if she was made to do it. friggin A. I hate drama. help please.

2006-11-06 02:40:00 · 3 answers · asked by sshhmmee2000 6 in Friends

I have been seeing a guy for the past 2 mths. He was going out with a girl for 3 yrs and was going to ask her to marry him but he caught her with another fella. He is finished with her since June. He says he wants to take things slow and that he is beginning to fall for me. Do you think it is worth while pursuing this, even though he says he doesnt want a relationship at the minute?

2006-11-06 02:39:37 · 9 answers · asked by Smiley 1 in Singles & Dating

I am a 35 year old woman and I have been in some very bad realtionships in the past, right now I feel like my biological clock is ticking, I have never been married and I have no children. I just lost my boyfriend who I was with for 6 years he passed away April 11, 2004. It took a while for me to get over his death and I am still not really over it. I tried dating and the person I tried to date turned out to be a real jackass. Years ago when I was a young girl I met a guy and he was my first boyfriend, and my first kiss he was really a sweet boy. We met later in life as adults and became friends and we lost eachother, I run into his sister once a blue blue moon, but his sister said he was in jail for child support, his sister said his x wife was a gold digger she always wanted money he never had any for his self he has never been in trouble but he kept getting behind on his support. I always remembered him to be so sweet. I want to hear from him without soundiing desperate.

2006-11-06 02:39:25 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

actually i left my friends n family,and i m too alone and new in this country [England]
i have no friends no relatives here,i can not concentrate on my studies and job,
i have a very short ruten in ma life,office,college and home,just

in december i hav got exams,but i hav 20% preparation for it only.
i m very sad,i dono wat kind of these tentions and dipration are???????????
so my friends tell me wat can i do??????????

2006-11-06 02:39:24 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

what does a girl really like her bf to be or to look ?!?
pls support ur answer with details...

2006-11-06 02:39:14 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My stupid immature friends, who are always on the hunt to make fun tease me with a girl i don't really give a damn. They tease that I love her, when I don't have an iota of feeling for her. She is a stupid ***** and I know she doesn't care and enjoys everything. How do I reply to this? Everything I say is reciprocated with more insulting comments. Any tips on how to handle such situations and what/how to reply. In general, how do I become a sharp backanswer machine.

2006-11-06 02:39:06 · 1 answers · asked by truth 3 in Friends

she shows me as she loves me very much but her body language says someting else and facial expressions something else sometimes she cries for me at next time she smiles away like nothing happens a varied person in mood the more i think about her the more i get confused about her
(1) how could i know that she is cheating on me and faithfull to me
(2)how could i know that she really loves and she wont ditch me and remain faithfull to me

2006-11-06 02:39:01 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Serious though...?
What would you do if you were in a bad marriage & wanted out..But in the process, your mother is totally against it & is all for your hubby who has lied to her about everything....said ugly things to you last night? She made the remark that "poor kids, they have a sorry mom" she said this just because I want a divorce. So, I asked her what she said just to see if she would take it back but she looked at me & said.."I didn't say anything" , so I proceeded to tell my hubby it was time to go and then she made another comment and I turned around & told her that she could say things to my face instead of under her breath. She then just outright lied & I told her so. Then I proceeded to rebuke her in Jesus's name & she got all bothered & my father go involved and told me to leave from our rental house that happens to be theirs. So, I calmy looked at them & said that I forgave them of what they said and God Bless them. What would you do? (I am going to look for a place this week)

2006-11-06 02:38:00 · 19 answers · asked by T&E 2 in Marriage & Divorce

because alot of guys your age are immature and sex crazy? I'm 21 and guys ages 18-23 seems very immature. I dated those my age and all they wanted was sex. So is it ok to wait a few more years?

Suggestions on how long? What maturity age for guys where sex isn't the first priority on their minds?

2006-11-06 02:37:45 · 9 answers · asked by Out of the Blue 1 in Singles & Dating

I have a buddy whos girlfriend absolutely loves to boast that she gets him off whenever she "blows the whistle". Is it common for a woman to brag about it???

2006-11-06 02:37:18 · 16 answers · asked by Falling to pieces 2 in Singles & Dating

my bf and his mate have known eachother since they was little. ive been with my bf for five years but hes been best mates with this lad since they were tiny. ive nevr came between them. but in the last year his best friend has been coming on to me cfeventhough he knows im with his friend. nothings happened but im sick of it. they both joined the royal navy together and both serve on the hms liverpool. when they come home and we all go out at every oppurtunity he tries to rub up against me and told me countless times he loves me. when we were at the navy ball i was with my bf and his best mate got drunk and tried to kiss me . i pushed him away but he started grabbing me. i was soo upset i told my bf everything he had said and done. my bf went absolutely crazy and they both had a fight. when they are both serving on the ship my bf cant help himself and has found himself in trouble several times for figting with his ex best friend. i feel disgraced with myself for splitting them up

2006-11-06 02:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by dianeleech06 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 02:35:55 · 19 answers · asked by hend 1 in Marriage & Divorce