About 4 months ago my sister snogged my guy mate and for about a month they would see each other on a friday night and have a snog and thats all that ever happened. Then he said to her that she was to young for him and that it would never go any further. But then it turned out the real reason why he finished it was because he had feelings for me and I won't deny it I had feelings for him but this was even before my sister kissed him. Now those feeling have turned into more and I love him and he says he feels the same. But my sister doesn't want it to happen but i seriously do not know wot to do about it though?
2006-11-06 02:41:39 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
You knew him first... she can't expect to call dibs on him like she could if she had met him first. Go for it, she needs to deal.
Snogged is a funny word.
2006-11-06 02:44:43 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
I think there are unwritten rules about who you should see and who you should stay away from. I think sisters ex is a no no. Guys will come and go but your sister is for life. His morals arn't brill if he snogs anyone he likes on different nights of the week. In two months he might be back onto your sister. Can you imagine family get togethers. Keep your morals honey. NO NO NO
2006-11-06 02:46:11 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
you had you chance and you never took it and a man or woman should never come in the way of family, but in saying that you know what to do in you heart and if you feel he is worth the hassel that you will get then go for it or one day you will be sitting there in years to come and think to yourself "what if" or if you see him with someone else you will think "that could have been me" either way you have to decide what is best FOR YOU. dont want to sound like an old man here but age comes into it too, as how do you know you are in love, as love is a very strong word and only when i went through a divorce and met some else at 37 did i realise what "love" really is.
2006-11-06 03:03:11 · answer #3 · answered by azmondo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
An Aston Martin DBS (Bonds vehicle in on line casino Royale). A Knighthood. Keira Knightly. to be waiting to smoke interior the pub lower back. to circulate in to area. A Penthouse flat on the Thames. President Robert Mugabe to be faraway from place of work (he's a knob) for babies around the international to get a honest crack at life. A Rolex Seadweller.
2016-11-27 22:23:18 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well explain to your sister that your friend has discovered feelings for you. She may not understand it now, but she will in time. If you two love each other then go for it. Don't let your sister hold you back. It's good that you take into consideration how she feels about it. Talk about it with your sister. You can't help how you feel.
2006-11-06 02:44:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Who do you love more?
Who is more important to you? Some guy who would sleep with two sisters and think nothing of it or your own flesh and blood, your own sister who you should be willing to protect from pain and the miseries of this life at any cost.
If you cannot rely on your family for this protection, who the hell can you rely on?
2006-11-06 02:52:03 · answer #6 · answered by abluebobcat 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find another guy , u don't want to put a wedge between u and your sister, that's what will happen if u go for him
2006-11-06 02:45:57 · answer #7 · answered by cc 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if your in love she should understand!
my brother is married to my ex! i still loved her but lied to him about it giving him my blessing! because i did not want him to be unhappy! there is no point in you both being unhappy!
give her my email address! to chat and maybe take her mind off him!
good luck
2006-11-06 02:44:53 · answer #8 · answered by Nigi-magic 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't do it, he is a user, and it will do nothing but cause problems with in your family
2006-11-06 02:43:42 · answer #9 · answered by Eyes of Green 6 · 2⤊ 0⤋
leave your sisters ex alone.
2006-11-06 02:44:15 · answer #10 · answered by herronjennifer 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋