because alot of guys your age are immature and sex crazy? I'm 21 and guys ages 18-23 seems very immature. I dated those my age and all they wanted was sex. So is it ok to wait a few more years?
Suggestions on how long? What maturity age for guys where sex isn't the first priority on their minds?
2006-11-06 02:37:45 · 9 answers · asked by Out of the Blue 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Levels of maturity aren't really measured in age. I've met some guys that are actually very mature to be in their late teens or early twenties. it all depends on the experiences that they've had, and they morals that their parents instill in them. My advice is that you not hold off on dating. You never know when a great guy will come along- of any age. If the age thing really puts you off however, I would suggest maybe dating guys that are a little older. I'm not talking 40's or 50's, but there are lots of great guys out there that might surprise you. Good luck! and Happy Hunting!!!
2006-11-06 02:42:29 · answer #1 · answered by p_lo25 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is a tough one to answer because its case sensitive to you. But I have strong morals and feelings on this. Being a guy that waited until I was 20 to have physical relations, I am well aware of the fact that you are judged as better the sooner you have sex.
I would say in personal experience guys are of course less mature then girls. I do think there are a few that are responsible and not just sex-crazed in their twenties but its not till nearly 30 in my opinion that they wean down a little and arent crazed.
Im not real crazy about people dating people considerably older then themselves either. I guess a handful is the max that I would consider. So if you have no desire to jump into a physical relationship, keep trying to make friends and worry about your life first, relationships second.
I do however think that if something comes along, it may be out of your hands anyways. Good luck anyways, I hope your able to make the right choice for you!
2006-11-06 02:42:35 · answer #2 · answered by ☺ PeeJ ☺ 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is not impossible to find a guy in that age group that is mature but maybe your looking in the rong places try church functions and voulentere programs maybe you'll find someone there you could try older men but as far as wiating I dont think there is a to long just wait for that someone special
2006-11-06 02:52:02 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes it is OK to wait. Spend time on yourself learning who you are.
You can date with out having sex. Find a church you like and they have singles program for people in your age group this is where you find sincere people that are looking for a quality relationship
2006-11-06 02:42:20 · answer #4 · answered by mmmkay_us 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You still need to date because you need to know what you do and don’t like in a man. Just tale the guys you date that you want/have to want until you’re married to have sex. Then have sex with your true love that you marry….. im a virgin and I want to date you …because that’s how I feel about sex
2006-11-06 02:49:45 · answer #5 · answered by Hore M 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You could wait till you find a mature man, you being the judge of maturity.
2006-11-06 02:40:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
from age 12 - 87 this means u never date
2006-11-06 02:40:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You'll find someone or they you when you least expect it. As for waiting there is nothing wrong with this and is very wise as opposed to getting into another relationship on the rebound.
2006-11-06 02:40:03 · answer #8 · answered by crazylegs 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, it is okay to wait. Just go out and have fun with your friends.
2006-11-06 02:41:20 · answer #9 · answered by harpersr10 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋