my bf and his mate have known eachother since they was little. ive been with my bf for five years but hes been best mates with this lad since they were tiny. ive nevr came between them. but in the last year his best friend has been coming on to me cfeventhough he knows im with his friend. nothings happened but im sick of it. they both joined the royal navy together and both serve on the hms liverpool. when they come home and we all go out at every oppurtunity he tries to rub up against me and told me countless times he loves me. when we were at the navy ball i was with my bf and his best mate got drunk and tried to kiss me . i pushed him away but he started grabbing me. i was soo upset i told my bf everything he had said and done. my bf went absolutely crazy and they both had a fight. when they are both serving on the ship my bf cant help himself and has found himself in trouble several times for figting with his ex best friend. i feel disgraced with myself for splitting them up
2006-11-06 02:36:41 · 8 answers · asked by dianeleech06 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like you did the right thing.
2006-11-06 02:38:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you did the right thing. Maybe this is not the first time this has happened, and it's about time that your bf knew just what kind of so called friend he has. Your bf is very lucky to have such a thoughtful, considerate, faithful gf like you. Just leave them be now. Let them sort through this situation by themselves. Just be supportive of your bf and don't interfere further. I'm sure he cherishes you, or he would not be fighting over you.
2006-11-06 02:45:54 · answer #2 · answered by Optimistic 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You didn't split them up dear. His "best friend" did that all by himself. He was disrespectful to you and to his own "best friend". I know that it is upsetting and in a better situation (had he not been drunk and grabby that night), you could have had a private conversation with him and told him to back off. He didn't give you that option. It's not your fault.
2006-11-06 02:42:25 · answer #3 · answered by butrcupps 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You did the right thing! Stop feeling guilty for something his mate did. He is only getting what he deserves.
2006-11-06 02:39:03 · answer #4 · answered by Lt 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you done the right thing.... first of all if he was truly a bestfriend he would never cross that line... second of all if you didn't say anything then what kind of woman would you be.... don't feel bad... trust me your boyfriend respects you more knowing you are trustworthy..... i wouldn't let it bother me.... a good friend would never betray another.... think about that....
2006-11-06 02:41:45 · answer #5 · answered by slimchuckie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No worries mate!!! Have a Foster's beer and go on walk-about till things cool down. "That's not a knife....."
2006-11-06 02:38:56 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't you did the right thing...
2006-11-06 02:39:17 · answer #7 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You're probably going to hell
2006-11-06 02:39:01 · answer #8 · answered by Abu 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋