im seeing a guy casually at the mo. im a bit worried as i dont know what his intentions are. ive just come out of a serious relationship and am unfamiliar with the signs. ive asked him if he sees me as another knotch and he said i was being ridiculous and talking nonsense. should i believe him?i have only kissed this guy and hes not pressuring me for anything more.
2006-11-06 02:48:47 · 24 answers · asked by Pretty Little Girl xxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he has been chasing me for ages and ages and still is.
2006-11-06 02:49:15 · update #1
you are lucky he wants to go out with you...chill out! if he hasn't shown you anything but the best of intentions, why make stuff up?
2006-11-06 02:51:16 · answer #1 · answered by kimandchris2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it was wrong asking him if he was seing you as another knotch. Never ask the guy his intentions, you have to read the sign i.e.the way he treats you, the conversations etc. And don't believe what he tells you. Again, read the signs. A guy or infact a girl can say anything. It's the actions that count.
2006-11-06 10:54:20 · answer #2 · answered by Marie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are seeing him casually, what do you call casual? If he has been chasing you for ages why has it taken this long to notice him?
I know more questions than answers, but you don't give your ages and that might be a factor in how people answer you.
2006-11-06 10:57:54 · answer #3 · answered by Hey Buck 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd say give him a chance.. doesn't mean you have to jump into bed with him.. sounds like he's genuinely interested in you.. Do you know his habits? Does he date and drop as soon as intimacy occurs? If so, stay away from him! Yes, I've seen men look straight into a woman's eys having heart to heart conversation, then there's intimacy and he never calls again.. Take yer time. Get to know him. And tell him that's all you're doing - getting to know him. How can you decide anything until you do?
Best 'o Luck!
2006-11-06 10:54:41 · answer #4 · answered by flowerchilde 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't assume that HE knows what his intentions are.
In fact, he might be (eek) a friend that could develop into something more if YOU do something about it.
How about dating him and not sleeping with him for awhile?
If you think there is potential, then maybe getting to know him
on a "dating" level might tell you more about how he views the
world.
2006-11-06 10:50:26 · answer #5 · answered by Elana 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Spend time getting to know him. Why rush? It sounds like you don't want to rush anyway from your comments. Get to see what he is like when around others, as well as in different situations. It seems like you're still quite fragile from last time so take care. If you then get bad vibes then is the time to part.
2006-11-06 10:53:24 · answer #6 · answered by ROLAND M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its always hard to tell with guys and 97% of the time they tell you your more than a notch when your really not. id take it really slow after you did just get out of a serious relationship and i would keep it less touchy feely and light kissing not really making out and let things just flow
2006-11-06 10:52:18 · answer #7 · answered by .......... 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well.... i see that you have already burt yourself once with men. i don't know if you should believe him or not, but if i where you, i'd always give it a benefit of the doubt, you know, better be paranoid then falling flat on your face one day...;).
what you should believe is your BRAIN and your gutt instincts i think, because those never lie to you (on purpose that is, if they do then it's only because of the trill of being in love and that you see things through purple sunglasses in the moment;):) )
2006-11-06 10:51:10 · answer #8 · answered by VeronicaB 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
just go with the flow, dont worry too much for now and see how it goes, you have only just finished a serious relationship and your not under pressure to go any further, just enjoy yourself
2006-11-06 11:03:14 · answer #9 · answered by jo m 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sleep with the guy if you're not a 100% sure. If he sticks around he might just proof to you that he really cares.
2006-11-06 10:54:25 · answer #10 · answered by Egoli 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋