I am planning on making changes in my personal life. If you read tarot, or have a better sixth sense than I have, please help and give me your advice in these matters. I have fear that needs to be overcome in order to move forward. Are there any dates I should avoid ? Do you see anything bad happening to me? Serious answers only, please. I like to joke too, but right now, I'm serious.
2006-11-06 02:33:45 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Recommend you see a professional marital counselor first, and a divorce lawyer, and "get your ducks in a row".
I would recommend you do that as soon as you possibly can because your situation at home is not something a woman should be involved in.
As a nuetral third party observer I assume I'm one of many who have told you leave your abusive husband.
I'm not familiar with the psychology of what you are going through and I understand from the few articles I have read you might be undergoing some sort of dependence or whatever. There are halfway houses or whatever, there are enough mechanisms society has put in place for these types of situations.
2006-11-06 02:53:57 · answer #1 · answered by Jim_Darwin 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ignore the cards and take a serious look at your life. Think about the hoped for outcome of these changes. Consider who you really are and make plans based on honest introspection. Do some research and set realistic goals. Accept small setbacks and unexpected changes as part of the process of self improvement.
How serious are you about making these changes? How will those who love you be affected by them? Will that be a good thing for everyone involved? Will you be able to get support in your desired changes? Do you have the resources required to be successful in your goals?
Anyone can (and often should) make personal changes. Remember that it does not happen over night. Some changes can be quick (as quick as a few weeks) while others may take a yr or more to achieve the desired outcome. If your intended change is a habit - that will take at least a month of consistent effort.
My best wishes are with you in your endeavor!
2006-11-06 02:51:22 · answer #2 · answered by thisbattymom 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No i can't see anything bad happening to you, but you must remain calm!! I feel you have been all at sea lately and very restless. Take life as it comes and don't let ANYONE stand in your way. Also just remember that not everyone is the same and there are good people out there as well as bad. By the way i am a physic and practicing medium
2006-11-06 02:40:39 · answer #3 · answered by Helen L 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you just seem a little paranoid. You shouldnt be avoiding anything because you are scared. You will never move forward, if you are afraid of what will happen to you. Imagine 30 yrs down the line and you are on your death bed and someone asks you what was your favorite life memory. You wont have anything to say because you have been avoiding life. Live life to the fullest because you never know...you might not wake up tomorrow.
Never be afraid of life. It doesnt make you happy.
I used to be afraid of a whole lot of things, regarding boys and life period. My bf told me to just go with the flow of things and relax because you will never be happy still thinking about the past. I am now very happy and not afraid of anything regarding relationships and life.
2006-11-06 02:40:30 · answer #4 · answered by yagurlbubblez 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i am not in any way an avocate of the paranormal, nor do i admonish those who are...but for some reason i think that Silvia Brown has something goin on worth checking out...she may just know your path, who knows?. besides, there's no harm in browsing. Other than that...u could always fall back on forrest gumps credo....truer words were never spoken. good luck, my friend. P.S. do we really want to know what happens next?
2006-11-06 02:47:24 · answer #5 · answered by sqziggy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ou'll need to have alot of family around you through out you life keep family close esp through these coming holidays Bad things happen to people all the time Live with no regrets and always have a saftey net for your children
2006-11-06 02:45:21 · answer #6 · answered by shellbell 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Changes are better after the first of the year.
Their is a struggle with these changes but the end result is good.
2006-11-06 02:36:54 · answer #7 · answered by dayakaur 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 10:47:02 · answer #8 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Self-belief is what you need to restore -- not tarots -- not soothsayers' prophecies.
Get down to real work without thinking of the result and consequences. Even God helps those who help themselves.
2006-11-06 02:39:15 · answer #9 · answered by keyman_o 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Change is always good, but dont change just for the sake of it, Change for the better and things will always be good
2006-11-06 02:38:01 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋