i have a cousin who went out the other night.?

Question

i have a cousin who went out the other night and she wanted me to go with her. i decided to stay home. she called me the next day, and told me what happened. she said she met a guy at the club and he took her home. and they did you know what. well me personally knows she is not that kind of person. she hasnt been in a relationship for a long time. she doesnt even go out that much. well. i think she feel bad about what happened but at the same time she was telling me she was tired of not having a man. well i dont know what to tell her. i understand that it gets lonely sometimes. i really love my cousin. she isnt a easy girl. i just think she was tired of being alone. what do you think?

Answer 1

some times when we get lonely its hard to resist not having some one to hold you and just feel there touch ...........its natural to want to have sex and when you haven't had any in a while it makes you almost become desperate even if your the nicest most respectful girl in the world it happens ...i would just make sure to tell her not to make it a habit cuz thing then can get nasty .....we all make mistakes in the heat of the moment but whats done is done .......just remember to tell her not to make it a habit and to try to look for a man that wants a relationship ...and she will no longer feel lonely .........good luck

Answer 2

Well she made a dangerous decision to go home with someone she met at a bar or where ever and she needs to know that picking up a guy and going to his house and having sex on the first night is not going to get her a boyfriend..it may get her an STD, *** whopping, labled or killed but not a boyfriend. We have all been lonely at some point but she should NEVER jeopardize her health just to be with someone. Some self esteem is definetly needed as well. Its cool she was able to speak to you about what she did, she just needs to chill and go about "getting with someone" in a different, safer, smarter way.

Answer 3

With all the tragedies reported and hopefully your cousin is atleast practicing safe sex means, you have to ask yourself if being "lonely" at night is worth making the headline news in the morning by having to be identified in the morgue. Times have changed and without your friend committing herself to a rigid moral code or atleast a artinerary where someone would atleast know where shes at, she could have seriously hooked up with a real psycho and made the morning news, or ended up in the hospital. I would suggest a plan, to meet someone, get to know them and work very hard at building a relationship. If Sexual loneliness is all she feels,......masturbation would atleast keep her alive and aids free.

Answer 4

I think that you should try asking her if she does not feel as if it is time that she tried finding someone to settle down with. There are many guys who will just go after your cousin for what she can temporarily offer them. In other words I think that she should try and find someone that will be after her for love and not lust. Being alone will not be solved by just getting lust from somewhere/someone. She should try and find something more long term.

Good luck!

Answer 5

tell her as much as she is tired of not having a man she shouldnt go off and just sleep with anyone specially some guy from a club...tell her if she wants you 2 can go out or see if u know any friends who might have single guy friends that she can meet!

Answer 6

Sounds like she was tired of being alone but she is only setting herself up to get hurt. I would talk to her.

Answer 7

I think your right, she is possibly tired of being alone

Answer 8

I think it happens to every girl a time or two in her life. (well, most of us girls)

Answer 9

i think that she is a big girl. offer your opinion and that's about it. the rest is up to her she has to make her decisions and live with them too

Answer 10

Who cares?