How long do you think a girl should wait be4 sex if she doesnt want to be considered fast or easy or even a whore....
2006-11-06 02:19:26 · 21 answers · asked by KaKes 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Wait until it feels right for you.
One major thing that all women must remember is this:
Initially in a relationship, women give sex to get love.... Men give love to get sex.
If this person is right for you, he will understand if you say you want to wait. The last girl I dated for 2 months before we had sex. It meant something then. Not just a physical attraction.
2006-11-06 02:22:49 · answer #1 · answered by Dog Lover 7 · 0⤊ 2⤋
For many girls, they wait till the 3rd date or whatever. But most dudes want sex anyway on the first date. It is all up to you. If you want to wait till the 3rd date for the sole reason of not looking easy then you are easy. Now if you want to wait till the 3rd date because of morales and you really want to get to know him better before you get down and dirty, then you are not easy or a whore. Most guys just want sex anyway, if this girl doesn't have sex with him the first time they meet the next girl will.
2006-11-06 10:26:35 · answer #2 · answered by unglory2006 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
All depends on you. Why worry about that . If you are really into someone then go for it. There is such a thing as safe sex. Practice it. You don't have to be in love to enjoy sex with a man. The men I have held or who has held me was of no regret.You will come across some not compatible with you but is ok if you do. It happens. If you cant be satisfied with a man in that way then you need to move on. Sex begins in the mind first. Have fun!
2006-11-06 10:31:22 · answer #3 · answered by bountyhunter101 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is a tough question. Not all guys are alike. If I were you I would try to see what kind of man he is. For example, say something like " I am worried today. One of my friends is having too much breast pain, she is worried cause she started on the pill at 15 and it increases risks of breast problems".
Then sees what he says. If he says "Oh I hope it is nothing serious". Some guys wont resist to say something 'chauvinist' such as "15!! what a this or that" From things like that you will get to know him better. Coment things with him and see his reactions. When a man is sexually aroused he will say ANYTHING. He will say he thinks EVERYTHING is normal and that he will always see you as a saint (mainly if you do what he wants), but it is at small details that you see who the person really is.
2006-11-06 10:31:41 · answer #4 · answered by Graça 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wait until you know the person that you are going to have sex with. Be sure to get some good personal Info on them. If you just want to go at it... wait until at least the third date and use protection.
If the lady does not want to be called anything space out the guys that she is with a little and play hard to get.
2006-11-06 10:27:22 · answer #5 · answered by wmjlytle 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
not less than 3 months to play it sAFE. Also you have to take into consideration how long you known the guy. I mean if you have been friends for 3 years and decided to date then a month would be good. Personaly i think if you don't want to be called easy, you should wait at least a month, or 10 dates
2006-11-06 10:22:16 · answer #6 · answered by I think of you I touch Myself 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
You'll be called it regardless, especially if you're in high school. If you do it, make sure to keep quiet and make sure you can trust the guy. I would recommend waiting until marriage, but I didn't so I can't say too much. If you do wait, when you're older, you will be happy about your decision. You will then have the respect from guys that you deserve.
2006-11-06 10:23:41 · answer #7 · answered by hisbebe821 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you will know when the time is right, for some it could be that night, for some it could be months. this preception of being"easy" is just a guy's saying. if a man has sex on the first night he is a stud but a lady is a whore, sorry but times are changing. and am a guy !!
you will know when it is right, when your heart tells you hopefully and not your CAT !!!
2006-11-06 10:23:31 · answer #8 · answered by azmondo 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is entirely up to you.
Answer the question, why do you want to have sex?
To be popular?
Doesn't work, you're easy.
To make friends?
Nope, you're easy.
Wait until it means something.
A very special guy that you know well, have a very good relationship with, and a very special friendship with.
Sex is your body, don't give it away, save it for someone special.
2006-11-06 10:37:35 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only have 1 partner, then you won't be called any of those. If you go from guy to guy and sleep around a lot, then be prepared for the name calling!
2006-11-06 10:23:05 · answer #10 · answered by Yo LO! 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋