Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

just found out 2 days ago an my mind is blown.i was so upset I've never lost my cool like I did when she told me yea,and I'm sorry.It's been so quiet around here since I found out.I feel like a BIG part of me has died.all I've been doing is crying.she won't come out of her room,to talk to me she's 17.damn I Love HER AND ALL I WANTED IS TO PROTECT HER.We've always has an open relationship,,,where did i go wrong ???????

2006-11-06 15:59:58 · 33 answers · asked by hl 2 in Singles & Dating

my husband and i have been married for 5 years hes a great guy we have 2 kids he works hard and takes care of us. but he seems just so not very sensitive to things everything is like i dont give a ****. he didnt have a great childhood, maybe that is it.? just like he has a wall up to his feelings. he is also very lazy and uninvolved when it comes to helping with kids and household chores is this normal? is there hope? maybe a way to approach him to get him to open up?

2006-11-06 15:58:44 · 17 answers · asked by entrknmom 2 in Marriage & Divorce

his kids are 20 and 18 they wont except me at all ,but they easily excepted their mothers knew husband.his ex sent word 3 yrs ago when we 1st dated that her kids would never except me and they hate me ive always been respectful to her and them and we are married now 1 yr and they have made it clear my son and i arent good enough to except.they are nasty to my son and me, i dont know what to do sometimes i want to blow up and tell them what selfesh little, spoiled rotten ,ugly brats they are.for 1 yr they wouldnt even have anything to do with there father because he was with me.any help out there....any advice is welcome,please be nice..we started dating 1 yr after his divorce.the son 20 said he wants me gone that me being dead would be good for him.

2006-11-06 15:58:08 · 10 answers · asked by susan w 2 in Family

Well here is the story a bunch of guys like me at my school but i am not allowed to date and i am not ready for that. But this one guy asked me out and i said yes because i am tired of guys asking me out. And then i said no.But then my friends told me that he was going to spread rumors about me. So then i said yes once more but i am not really ready soo... please help me handle this..

2006-11-06 15:57:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I talk to this guy. I've known him every since I've been 13. I like him and you can tell he has feelings for me. He's the type to hide his feelings in order to protect himself from being hurt. I'm kind of tired of playing this role of cat and mouse. We talk late at night all the time but i don't really express our true feelings. I'm the same way sort of but i don't want to be the first one to confess my feelings. Tell some advice

2006-11-06 15:57:11 · 13 answers · asked by Diamond 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 15:56:16 · 5 answers · asked by m 1 in Friends

how do you get a guy to like you?

i used to go to public school but now i dont.at my old school i realy liked this guy but now i dont see him,only when my friend who geos to that school invites my to the school activities.i realy realy like him but i dont know how to make him like me.


p.s. my parents know nothing about this and i hope to keep it that way.


please help

2006-11-06 15:54:40 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

my high school gf is always turned on...when i take her to my house to watch a movie it always leads up to sex...its great but we have sex everyday and i like to do other stuff than sex. how do i tell her to lessen on the sex.

2006-11-06 15:53:20 · 26 answers · asked by Gonzo 2 in Singles & Dating

whens the latest someones started dating?? im not really worried yet but im getting there!

2006-11-06 15:53:14 · 4 answers · asked by eatleavz 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 15:52:19 · 3 answers · asked by prettiemonkey11 2 in Friends

My best friend and i were planning to go on a holiday. We wanted a holiday were we could just sit on a beach or beside a pool and relax for about a week. We had been talking about it for about a year but we had both been too busy. Now i am not busy and neither is she and i asked her if she wanted to go to bali because flights were pretty cheap and ive bee nthere before and it was really nice. And anyway, she said to me "oh well this person (another friend of ours) has asked me to go to queensland on the gold coast for a week so i dont think i will be able to afford both". Now i am really angry with her and i am trying to control it and just get over it but its not like she invited me or asked me or anything like that, its just the two of them going and im angry because we had been talking about going on a holiday for ages. Do i have a right to be annoyed ?

2006-11-06 15:52:15 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I feel that my 4 yr relationship is going down the drain (for those who have read my past questions/answers know). I am having trouble walking away for many reasons, but one huge one is that the sex is so great. He knows me so well and gives it to me how I want it. I can't seem to just give that up!


Have you ever stayed with someone just for this reason? is it worth it?

Thanks so much for your kind advice :)

2006-11-06 15:51:43 · 34 answers · asked by *Amanda* 5 in Singles & Dating

When i was 20 i decided to leave my home to go away to college for a good reason to get way from my father who had molested me since i was 16.).That month I left , i got involved with a man and got pregnant. I stood by this man for 7yrs but he put me through hell the first 3yrs bcuz he smoked marijuana and did cocaine. We got along for the most part but I made the best of the whole situation. There was a few occasions of domestic abuse.
This year i had finally left him to go seek help. Im now currently in my hometown with my family. I had only been with two men in my life the father of my kids of 7yrs and an ex-boyfriend who i never forgotten and cared dearly.
I dont know why this is happening but soon after i came back home , we came across my ex and we have been seeing each other ever since. And yes the feelings are still there.
He recently confess to me that he had been molested when he was i child. I reconciled with my father and had moved on but i never told my secret.

2006-11-06 15:51:07 · 18 answers · asked by melissa 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

start the relationship with the same person starting from scratch all over again

(heh heh, Yahoo Answers tried to classify this in the "Computers -- Hardware" section)

2006-11-06 15:50:33 · 16 answers · asked by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 in Marriage & Divorce

I broke up with my gf of two years about a month and a half ago. i have tried to stay busy and meet new people. i do all the things to forget her, but i can't help but think about her. which of course makes me miss her. what is your trick for getting over your ex's?

2006-11-06 15:49:26 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Meet a guy recently...he asked questions about me and the other way around, now he mentioned he wants to go back with his girlfriend...is he dumping me for her or is he too shy to really get to know the real me!...We were even hitting it off...? is a girl to do?...

2006-11-06 15:48:59 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

this girl asked did u join this club to meet girls? she was smiling about it though i was like smiling though i was embarrased about it....but it ook it was a joke? should i have? but cmon honestly girls join school clubs to meet guys dont they? I mean I would like to meet more girls but that wasn't the only sole purpose to of joined that club i was in interest of that club it was gov't

2006-11-06 15:48:53 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

Here's the deal me and my hubby has been marry for 2 1/2 Yrs sometimes things are good sometimes things aren't so good we fight and we just can't talk nice to each other and we just don't really agree with things he see things differently and I see things different from him thats why we don't really great along I love him and sometimes I am happy to be with him, he treats me good it just the disagreeing that makes us fight, sometimes he makes me hate him so much.What I don't like about him is that he don't talk alot to my family and friends when they come visit. He makes them feel like there not welcome here just the look on his face I hate that about him I like a man that talks with my people and be friendly.he's just don't like talking or what I don't know.when we fight or were not getting along I just want to leave him but I can't pick up and leave we have 2 kids I don't want them to not have there daddy around them.please can someone hlep me with advise
We fight more then loving

2006-11-06 15:48:32 · 15 answers · asked by Smiles 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Okay they're fussing on me, most of the time for no reason. I don't know why they don't like me. It happens in three classes, Science, English, and Reading. In the other classes they don't bother me. The principal won't change those three classes and put me in another. And it happens every single day. They even fuss on me in FRONT OF THE TEACHER! But she didn't do anything. They don't want to fight, just talk trash about me. They've even turned two of my best friends against me. It's so annoying, I've told them to leave me alone but it don't work. Our school is going to have a "bullying program" but who knows if that'll help. What should I do??? Please help me!!

2006-11-06 15:48:29 · 15 answers · asked by *hedgeツ♥ i<3mlm* 5 in Friends

Has anyone tried one of those sex swings, and do they work?

2006-11-06 15:47:40 · 19 answers · asked by Kelly 2 in Marriage & Divorce

so my b/f an i have been dating for six months an we have never ran into any problems except for now b/c of things going wrong with different family issues and things and i have been so stressed out that i have been argueing lately ...i dont want it to go on further than whats its gone now...i mean i dont want to argue any more and i wanna be with him forever ...but i just feel so sad rght now i dunno what to do and i dunno how to explain to him that its actually not him at all??/....please help...i really dont want this to go bad...i love him so much

2006-11-06 15:47:22 · 4 answers · asked by sarah g 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 15:47:12 · 3 answers · asked by BrOwN eYe GiRl 3 in Singles & Dating

i have been dating my boyfriend for about a month now but unofficially for about 3 months...another story...anywho, a few days ago he and i were fooling around and he was pressing really hard on my side. hehe of course i didnt notice it at the time but afterwards it hurt but i thought it was just a cramp, ya know? the next day there was a big bruise where he was pressing. i know it was completely unintentional. his biggest fear is hurting me emotionally (breaking my heart) and physically (im fragile due to my health...another long story...). i want to tell him to be more gentle but i dont want to hurt his feelings. i know once i tell him he'll be scared to death to even hold me again...luckily we both have been busy with work so he hasnt had the chance of seeing it yet...should i tell him? or ignore it and hope it never happens? please help

2006-11-06 15:47:07 · 5 answers · asked by woodstock 1 in Singles & Dating

My friend and I have been friends for 13yrs. We work together. We basically like sisters coz she & I knows everything about us..until 1 day we were out smoking with some of our co-workers, and I don't know how did we end up talking about left handed people, and my friend all of the sudden made a comment that left handed are "losers"! I couldn't believe what I've heard (because I'm a LEFT handed) I look at her & told her that "you know that I'm a left handed?" and she said that she didn't know. I was hurt...so I walked away and didn't talk to her for the rest of the day. The next day I was waiting for her to apologize, but instead she told me that I was over reacting and don't take it seriously! Was I over reacting?..was I upset with her for commenting left handed loser?...or maybe disappointed that she didn't know that I'm a left handed?

2006-11-06 15:44:37 · 7 answers · asked by ♥chicagurl♥ 4 in Friends

well he says loves me....but i know hes shy..and he prolly wont kiss me.... i really want to do it....but i havent before! how do i make the first move?!?!?!

2006-11-06 15:43:42 · 12 answers · asked by Pinky 3 in Singles & Dating

I've been seeing my stepfathers nephew. I guess he would be my step cousin(no blood relation). He is 30 w/3 beautiful boys and devorced. I'm 23 and have no children. We have known eath other since I was 8. He recently told me he has liked me since I was 15. Everthing is just sexual, but we get along really well and if things go bad I can always call him. I just think things might get serious. (I do like him) He mentioned that he was getting a visectomy (excuse the spelling) but he said he wouldn't do it if I wanted kids and I do. I'm not sure what my family would think about that. If you were in a situation with or without children what would you do? Opions accepted also, But please don't be mean.

2006-11-06 15:43:21 · 12 answers · asked by jessi 3 in Marriage & Divorce

GUYS--how do you show a girl you are interested in her without actually telling her?

How do you flirt with her? What are the signs you give off??

Touching, teasing, smiling, etc?

2006-11-06 15:42:38 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 15:42:36 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-06 15:41:55 · 18 answers · asked by Mmmmm 1 in Singles & Dating

Im 21 and my husband is 29. He has a daughter from a previous marriage and we have one 12 month old son together. I want another baby VERY badly but he feels he is too old and wont even discuss it. what should i do?

2006-11-06 15:41:28 · 23 answers · asked by htmama 2 in Marriage & Divorce