My friend and I have been friends for 13yrs. We work together. We basically like sisters coz she & I knows everything about us..until 1 day we were out smoking with some of our co-workers, and I don't know how did we end up talking about left handed people, and my friend all of the sudden made a comment that left handed are "losers"! I couldn't believe what I've heard (because I'm a LEFT handed) I look at her & told her that "you know that I'm a left handed?" and she said that she didn't know. I was hurt...so I walked away and didn't talk to her for the rest of the day. The next day I was waiting for her to apologize, but instead she told me that I was over reacting and don't take it seriously! Was I over reacting?..was I upset with her for commenting left handed loser?...or maybe disappointed that she didn't know that I'm a left handed?
2006-11-06 15:44:37 · 7 answers · asked by ♥chicagurl♥ 4 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
my friend and I are OK now...she even gave me a belated b-day gift and said on the tag "Happy B-day to my "lefty" friend".
2006-11-06 18:36:17 · update #1
No, you are not over react! How possibily she have been your friend for 13 years, yet don't know you are left handed? She is just biased against left handed. I am a left handed too. My friends always said left handed people are generally smarter. Which I think is quite true. During my school time, I never study after school, but yet I got 5 distinctions during my GCE "O" Level. Don't matter she know or don't know you are a left handed, sad to say, she is a loser.
2006-11-06 16:55:56 · answer #1 · answered by Tan D 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, I would say you are overreacting. Some people dont really pay attention to details like that. I forget that my BEST friend is left handed sometimes. So you're definitely overreacting.
The whole situation is a little bit immature on both of your parts. Just tell her that you're sorry for overreacting and go on with your life.
2006-11-06 23:47:27 · answer #2 · answered by xoxo_butterfly_kisses_oxox 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are over reacting. My daughter is left handed and I just noticed the other day and she is 5!
2006-11-06 23:47:51 · answer #3 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How can a good fren of '13' years dunno that you are left handed. Sorry, but I cannot accept this fact, u are not over reacting, just too disappointed how a lousy fren she is.
This is not like you have a mole hidden somewhere that cannot be seen, for 13 years, sure she writes, dine, do sports etc with you ! That only show how much she cares abt you.
For me I cannot accept that.
2006-11-07 02:00:18 · answer #4 · answered by Rootbeer 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think that you just over reacted a little. i would be a little hurt if i were to know a person for 13 yrs. and if they didn't know simply if i was right or left handed. but yeah you just over reacted.
2006-11-06 23:49:55 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u were way over-reacting, people back then said the world was flat but it wasnt tru!- noone cares now! she madea remark she didnt know about- big deal, get ovr it.
2006-11-06 23:59:32 · answer #6 · answered by !♥~FaY9512~♥! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Cutie,,,
I am ambidextrious,,,, use both hands.... lets get together,, and i will show you....
good luck
2006-11-06 23:51:42 · answer #7 · answered by eejonesaux 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋