Well here is the story a bunch of guys like me at my school but i am not allowed to date and i am not ready for that. But this one guy asked me out and i said yes because i am tired of guys asking me out. And then i said no.But then my friends told me that he was going to spread rumors about me. So then i said yes once more but i am not really ready soo... please help me handle this..
2006-11-06 15:57:33 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Go out with him and be dull and geeky and boring. KEEP TALKING ABOUT BORING THINGS incessantly, he'll hate that.
I think you are trapped into going out with him to avoid even more gossip about yourself since you said yes and then no and then yes. So bite the bullet and go out for an evening and annoy him.
Unless you secretly really like him. If so, don't talk nonstop, ask questions non-stop and keep HIM talking. He'll ask you out again and be quiet about what he says about you to the rest of the group.
2006-11-06 16:03:02 · answer #1 · answered by urbancoyote 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't really matter if some1 spreads out a rumor
make a rumor bout him
unless u want 2 go out wit him but ur not really ready 2 go out wit him then do somethin simple like goin 2 the movies or go 2 an amusement park or picnic at a park or if thats not simple 2 u or to shy 2 do it do a double date
or pretend ur 2 sick 2 go out
or bring a lucky charm 2 get u through
2006-11-07 00:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
just tell him you are not allowed to date and please don't let people threaten you with any of that waste of time rumors are going to come and go through this stage in your life the less you pay any attention to them the less effective they are sounds like you are better off not dating if creeps like that are asking you out good luck dear do well in school and come back a success at your reunion and blow them out a the watter you probably wont even talk to but a small group of them in a few years any way only the real ones that didn't believe the junk passing around good luck dear
2006-11-07 00:04:18 · answer #3 · answered by dancfan 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how you would be able to sit through a date with such a jerk! If i were you i wouldn't go because clearly the rumours he spreads will not take because like you said, u don't date! You are obviously a good girl and people know that! forget him girl!
2006-11-07 00:02:34 · answer #4 · answered by sweet_p_pandora 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if this jerk spreads rumors then he is just that a jerk. a boy who really likes you for you will want to be your friend and understand that you are not ready to date yet. take your time and dont let them get you down.
2006-11-07 00:00:18 · answer #5 · answered by brookesingsalways 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Be honest with him. If he likes you he shouldn't spread rumors. If he does then ignore them. Your true friends will know the truth
2006-11-07 00:00:06 · answer #6 · answered by xxxxxxx456 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
darling . if you arent ready for a boyfriend . its a big mistake to have one . you need to be completely ready . who cares if he spreads rumors ? boys can be stupid and what does it matter what people think . you know the truth . so screw him . tell him you arent ready for a boyfriend . andd . if he has a problem with that . you frankly dont care . and that his words . dont bother you . =] girl power!
2006-11-07 00:01:53 · answer #7 · answered by MLPT 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it doesn't mater if he's goning 2 spead rumors if i was u i would tell him straight up that i don't like u and i only said yes because other boys wouldn't stop asking so like could u back off
2006-11-07 00:01:42 · answer #8 · answered by beautiful1493 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are so stupid that you again say yes to him . Say no to him once again and also told him that you are not afraid of his rumors.
2006-11-07 00:10:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont go out with him if u dont want to, if he spreads rumors, spread some of your own... sadly this is how our advanced human race deals with things these days... but dont let him get away with it
2006-11-06 23:59:37 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋