start the relationship with the same person starting from scratch all over again
(heh heh, Yahoo Answers tried to classify this in the "Computers -- Hardware" section)
2006-11-06 15:50:33 · 16 answers · asked by ♪ ♫ ☮ NYbron ☮ ♪ ♫ 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Marriage & Divorce
Hello,
I wouldn't want to reset or reboot any relationship I've been in, or the one I am currently in.
However sometimes I wish I could rewind a little bit. Like when you get in a stupid fight over nothing, and it all could have been prevented by not being in a bad attitude when you are going out.
If you reboot or reset a relationship you miss all of the really great times. The first kisses, the nervous feelings, the "I Love You's", the date nights, etc. Granted if you rebooted the relationship you'd get to experience that all over again, but you never know if it would work out the same.
When you reboot a computer you can lose documents, you can end up in a different place than you wanted to. If you were to reboot a relationship how can you be sure you wouldn't lose your boyfriend/girlfriend?
2006-11-06 16:03:04 · answer #1 · answered by Jeanne 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Everything that goes up must come down except your age. I think the reset button won't work in my case. Moreover after every relationship, I delete the program and files from the hard disk to make space for other installations. ha-ha
2006-11-07 00:20:48 · answer #2 · answered by good-for-all 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To make all the same mistakes all over again? No, I wouldn't want that - I would rather have a time machine to go back knowing what I know now. Without that knowledge everything would still be as doomed as it ended up being. I would want to do many things differently - mainly by making sure my ex understood his wedding vows more clearly.
2006-11-07 01:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by greyrider 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I've been married for almost 27 years and I would go back to say....23 years...lol. After empty nest we really don't have as much in common now. (I think I should get the points I bet I have been married the longest;)
2006-11-07 01:47:41 · answer #4 · answered by Jan G 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I would not reset/reboot on any of my relationships good, bad and ugly because those experiences are what make me who I am today. And I like me.
2006-11-07 00:52:22 · answer #5 · answered by j05gemini 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hell no! I'm so comfortable and happy with my husband and it get's better everyday,I like not worrying about what he's thinking,if he's happy ,if it will last,I know what he's thinking I know what his reactions will be ,I'll know where he is , I know he's trustworthy,I know when he get's home we'll laugh about something,We have a five year record of no fights,I wouldn't trade him and I wouldn't reset,We fit together like two spoons and I wouldn't change a thing.
2006-11-07 00:00:50 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi Matthew!
After 25 years I think I would leave it like itis. It would be nice to replay, but I would not change a thing.
2006-11-06 23:53:23 · answer #7 · answered by -------- 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You better believe I would. Reliving those lustful and compassionate love feelings would be the greatest thing in the world.
2006-11-06 23:56:00 · answer #8 · answered by Greg S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it really was possible, in a heartbeat!!!!
With the same person with the gambling addiction program removed.
2006-11-07 01:23:15 · answer #9 · answered by meggamom6 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'd hit the off button and run away. Going through divorce is not fun.
2006-11-06 23:53:05 · answer #10 · answered by ManOfTheHour 5 · 2⤊ 1⤋