Family & Relationships - 6 November 2006

Well at school last Friday my friend got mad at me for some reason and she wrote a letter to my boyfriend that said that i want to kiss him.But after she wrote that letter to him than she walked up to him and gave him the letter when i was not looking.And now i am afraid of him not talking to me but me and my boyfriend are still together.I found this out when my other friend came up to me and told me that my one other friend that got mad at me gave the letter to him but my good friend tried to stop my bad friend but my boyfriend got the letter in time.Well me and my boyfriend went out for about 2 weeks and i think he is not ready to kiss me and im kinda not ready to kiss him too.But that made me so mad that she wrote that letter to my boyfriend.And now im confused on what to say or write to him that i think that i am not ready to kiss him yet.Should i go on and ignor the letter or should i try to talk to my boyfriend that i do not want to kiss him.Please try to under stand my queshtion

2006-11-06 16:59:55 · 8 answers · asked by - Allison 6 in Singles & Dating

Sticky situation here. I am in the process of a divorce. I ran into my former ex bf from 5 years ago and we hooked up. Here is where it gets sticky. His house burned down shortly after we fought about nothing. He moved in with his ex wife and it's been purely like roommates. His ex and I are like friends. So, we've been seeing each other for a while now. We made a mistake and went too far, from which I could be pregnant. He called me later on that day and said that he will do whatever I want, including moving in together. I think he's already started that, becuase he phoned me saying that his ex turned out to be jealous and that she had given him three weeks to move out. He wants this to go as smoothly as possible, so he asked me not to call for a couple of weeks to avoid any more trouble. I know for a fact they are not doing anything from knowing his ex so well and having gotten close. The three weeks thing, is he really working no getting out or is he running?

2006-11-06 16:59:34 · 4 answers · asked by Ding Dong 1 in Marriage & Divorce

ewe met and we clicked instantly, things were good and we finally ended up getting close (but nothing serious) after it all went down, he won't call me back & when he finally does, i don't have any wants to pick up--i guess everyone's right telling me to kick em' to the curb and find a GREATER MAN who will treat me good because goodness i ******' deserve that ****. it's a shame he's a player and has girls lined up and they're all after him--i can't blame him for having game like that--but for him to show interest in me but fake it just for me to be another girl on his side? that's extremely foul! so, if there's a genius out there, pleaseeeee tell me why do you guys act like that after we do something good to you? it's almost as if you guys compete to see who gets the most girls and you suck because there's already one who's good for you, if you'd just open your eyes--i would have treated you so good and you're blind to realize that JERK! WHAT'S A GIRL TO DO ABOUT ALL OF THIS? HELP!

2006-11-06 16:58:56 · 6 answers · asked by santa maria de lopez 1 in Friends

ok heres the deal all of my moms expensive jewelry is being taken and my mom and every one else thinks its her bf's the only thing is we cant catch him if u have any ideas please help

2006-11-06 16:58:44 · 10 answers · asked by sc2linkfan2k5 1 in Family

my relationship is serious- 2 years now... but i have some secrets that im really ashamed of... my shrink says its in my past and he has nothing to do with him... but aren't couples supposed to tell each other EVERYTHING? or am i safe with my secret

2006-11-06 16:58:36 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have lost touch with all my Primary school mates from Redhill Primary School and I would like to meet them up again. If you are reading this question, and you are one of them, send me an email: jchia69@yahoo.com.

2006-11-06 16:58:01 · 2 answers · asked by jchia69 1 in Friends

I have known this guy for about 9 months now.. Obviously, I like him. I know no one knows for sure if this guy likes me, but before I ask him I want to get some second opinions to make sure my friends aren't just being nice.

Ok, so this guy, he always talks to me, asks me questions about myself, when he talks to me he looks me straight in the eye, but not in an agressive way. Sometimes the tone of his voice gets softer, and he playfully hits me and makes excuses to touch me. Alot of times he'll tease me. As far as I know he doesn't treat other girls like this, and he only has a few friends that are girls, and I am one. (of about three.) I know everyone is different, but do you think he likes me? Hopefully I won't be considered stupid.. = P

Oh and it would also be appreciated if you told me anything else he might do if he likes me??

Oh I feel so lame right now...

Thanks!

2006-11-06 16:55:22 · 14 answers · asked by ababy42693 1 in Singles & Dating

I just moved to a new high school as a junior. I've spent three days so far. What gets to me is lunch period. I spend lunch hour eating alone on the floor in front of everyone. I kinda feel them staring at me and it's kinda awkward when some familiar people ask me, "Hey dude, do you spend your time here everyday?" I don't want to admit it because I'm afraid of embarassment. I've finished all my assignments for today so I have nothing to do. I just sit there... and stare at people.

Don't get me wrong. I'm not anti-social but, however, I'm mildly introverted. I talk alot when I'm in class, just that I spend lunch alone. I want things to change, you know? Anyone, please leave some advice or comments and feedback or whatever.

Thanks to everyone (if anyone) who spends some of their time to share thoughts.

2006-11-06 16:55:21 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

2006-11-06 16:55:19 · 7 answers · asked by ashley 2 in Singles & Dating

we met and we clicked instantly, things were good and we finally ended up getting close (but nothing serious) after it all went down, he hasn't been returning my calls and the day he finally does, i don't have any wants to pick up--i'm sorry--i guess everyone's right telling me to kick em' to the curb and find a decent, good-lookin' ************ who will treat me good because goodness i ******' deserve that ****. it's a shame he's a player and has girls lined up and they're all after him--i can't blame him for having game like that--but for him to show interest in me but fake it just for me to be another girl on his side? that's extremely foul! so, if there's a genius out there, pleaseeeee tell me why do you guys act like that after we do something good to you? it's almost as if you guys compete to see who gets the most girls and you suck because there's already one who's good for you, if you'd just open your eyes--i would have treated you so good and you're blind to realize that JERK!

2006-11-06 16:55:03 · 12 answers · asked by santa maria de lopez 1 in Singles & Dating

I really want to,
But I could save money by staying home.
Should I?

2006-11-06 16:53:49 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

you have realized, you know it is wrong, but you can't stop, what would you do?

2006-11-06 16:52:44 · 8 answers · asked by sha_la_la 3 in Friends

I am professional woman who is absolutely smitten with a guy that I just met. We've only gone on one date, but he is totallly terrific. I can't stop thinking about him, but I am also very conversative and don't believe in chasing a man. I did ask him out on our first date though. The date went well, and I don't want to ask him again. My office colleagues have basically said "get with the times woman!"
After the date I emailed him and thanked him for a great time. It's been two days and I haven't received anything back from him. Any advice would be great.

2006-11-06 16:52:27 · 9 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

honestly girls u do call boys that u find attractive (friend). if u already have a boyfriend
dont you?

alot of girls i knw call me friend, for some reason, but they do flirt with me, and they do have boyfriends......

2006-11-06 16:52:14 · 8 answers · asked by SERIOUSLY THOUGH 1 in Singles & Dating

You see, me and her have known each other since we were 7 or 8 years old. Since this summer, i've been havin feelings for her. I really don't know what to do since i don't want to ruin our friendship. But than again, she has dropped several hints that she also has feelings for me and so have I. I havent done anything about that b/c im not so sure she likes me in that way. I need to figure out a way to tell her i have feelings for her, but not ruin our friendship. Do you think i should sit down w/ her and telling her how i feel or just try to forget her even though i really love her? Could you help me by telling me how i could approach her and tell her that. I would really appreciate your help. Thanks

2006-11-06 16:52:13 · 4 answers · asked by audivox8610 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 16:51:56 · 2 answers · asked by raj a 1 in Singles & Dating

my problem is that iv'e been trying to take my mind off this one guy by dating others now i have a really nice goodlooking boyfriend but for some reason i still like one of my guy friends so fing bad and i know he dosent like mee cause iv'e had a discusion with him once months ago about my feelings for him and he told me he only saw me as a friend but that doesnt stop me from wanting to be with him and caring about him i want to get over him soo badly because i know deep down it can't happen but i try and theres just no one better then him.....
im really trying to give this new guy a chance but its just so hard when someone else has your heart
what should i do ????

2006-11-06 16:51:36 · 7 answers · asked by crystaltears 1 in Singles & Dating

I'm 18 years old and i've had sex before. I know my mom will be disappointed if i tell her but i know i have to. How can I tell her in the best way possible?

2006-11-06 16:51:20 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

plz replay soon

2006-11-06 16:51:19 · 17 answers · asked by pavan p 1 in Friends

2006-11-06 16:51:07 · 3 answers · asked by tinkerbell20 1 in Singles & Dating

when starting a relationship do more of us fall in love with how the person looks or do we fall for how they treat us?

2006-11-06 16:50:22 · 12 answers · asked by alease74 1 in Singles & Dating

Searching for an old freind Dave Abernathy,lost contact 16 yrs ago.

2006-11-06 16:46:59 · 6 answers · asked by mtsc13 1 in Friends

You hear the word combination everywhere (Media, Conversations) and the attitude towards it has changed from negative to humorous. Is it now changing into positive? God or Bad: What do you think?

2006-11-06 16:46:38 · 25 answers · asked by Alexandra M 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 16:46:27 · 33 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Im in love with this girl and we broke up...we had to many problems and rumors lead to arguments, and we just got done talkin and setting a plan of how we dont wanna fight anymore, she says she still thinks about me and stays up real late doing so, its been 2 weeks since we broke up btw, I think she still loves me she tried going out with a guy to get over me but she dumped him cuz she diddnt love him and stuff but ya we have arguments still till recently we decided to stride to stop but I Still love her but she says we cant go out now cuz its just not the right time we have to prove are problems are gone and she has other stuff to focus on as do I but I still love her and I know she still loves me, should I move on or keep waiting for her and trying to get her back

2006-11-06 16:46:27 · 6 answers · asked by Justin_plays_guitar 1 in Singles & Dating

ok found out today that my sisterinlaws new boyfriend has hit her little girl (7)across the face BUT the sisterinlaw told myself & husband to stay out of her life.we are great mates with her first husband(father of the children) who is away truck driving all the time.We tried to warn her about this guy but we were told to @#$%^&** wat should i do???????????????????????

2006-11-06 16:46:21 · 10 answers · asked by Jo-anne 1 in Family

I'm a 23 year fairly attractive bisexual black male who's from Northern California. I've been searching for a compatiable person for a long while now and its been very fustrating to me and plus I have been going through some personal issues lately.

I have had only two very short relationships with two men, but haven't found any luck yet as of since then. And thats when I was only 16 years of age. I have had some people I liked before, but they always tell me that I'm not there type, not interested or either that I'm too young.

I even met people I really didn't like and told them that I wasn't interested as well because I haven't found Mr. Right. It seems like for other people its easy to find some one right for them and attractive, likes its no big problem, but for me its hard, ver hard and I'm getting upset.

I've seen people I liked,but didnt have the ability to approach them and ask them, so thats my bad.

Don't no what to do next besides wait for him to appear.

Help?

2006-11-06 16:44:19 · 13 answers · asked by Shaun M 1 in Singles & Dating

if a girl is happy in her new relationship . . would she still be calling her ex that she dumped for this new guy every couple weeks? . . .even though he hasnt answered or sent her something back in 4 months? and she still tries to contact him . . also . . can girls act completely happy on the outside and really be torn up on the inside? is there any way to tell if a girl is feeling like that? . . and if she wanted her ex back why would she still be with me and acting fine? why wouldnt she go back to him? maybe because she dumped him and doesnt know if he will take her back? they did go out for 2 1/2 years so i dunno . .. whats goin on?
and she hasnt told me that shes been calling him . . . and we have been dating since april and have been in an actual relationship for like 2 months . . . how long would she use me as a rebound if thats what i am? wouldnt it be over by now? it been about a month since she called him now since she was calling him. . . so maybe she will stop . . .
then just today she sent an email to him . . . it was this

hey! i just wanted to tell you that i hope you had a good birthday. i was going to call but i figured you wouldnt answer like usual or stop by and give you a card but you would have probably acted like you werent home lol. so i hope you had a good one. it would really mean a lot if you just sent something back lettin me know how ya were doin and stuff...i'de really appreciate it (name)! kayyy bye. . .

so if he hasnt responded to her since june why is she still trying to get ahold of him . . . when he hasnt responded since june?

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and then she just sent this message to him today


"look i know that you are getting my messages...i really just dont understand why you cant even say hi or something?? can you honestly please just give me a reason, like if it still upsets you or something, i mean thats fine. i just figured you could atleast do that for me...so please?"

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i should also add that she has been calling/texting him since the begginning of july . . . he tried to get her back for 2 months after she broke up with him. . . they broke up for no reason . .. she just told him she wanted to date around .. . . and she texted him on what would have been there two year anniversary and reminded him of it

2006-11-06 16:43:28 · 7 answers · asked by lbsb2904 1 in Singles & Dating

ok . . . my gf broke up with me back in march and said she wanted to date around and see whats out there and all that good stuff after a 2 year relationship. . she starts dating this kid i went to high school with 2 weeks later . . . i hate the kid so its obviously a bad situation for me . . . so i try to get her back for about 2 months and in the middle of june i went NC . . on our 2 year anniversery at the beginning of july she send me a text that says . . "today was two year" just to remind me of it i guess . . . and ever since that text she has been calling/texting/leaving voicemail/or emailing me once atleast ever 2-3 weeks . . . a few times in was 2-3 times in a week . . . i have not responded to her or anything . . . so its been 5 months and its still going on .. .she is still with this same guy so she obviously knows we cant be friends be cause of the situation.. . . . . .so why does she keep trying to contact me?. .

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when they first started dating she even admitted part of the reason was because he was there and she hates being alone

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her messages have said . . she doesnt understand why we cant be friends. . even though she does know why and just stupid little things to try to get me to respond . . . like u said u would be there for me and stuff like that

2006-11-06 16:42:39 · 17 answers · asked by lbsb2904 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-06 16:41:38 · 10 answers · asked by Mikey W 2 in Singles & Dating