my problem is that iv'e been trying to take my mind off this one guy by dating others now i have a really nice goodlooking boyfriend but for some reason i still like one of my guy friends so fing bad and i know he dosent like mee cause iv'e had a discusion with him once months ago about my feelings for him and he told me he only saw me as a friend but that doesnt stop me from wanting to be with him and caring about him i want to get over him soo badly because i know deep down it can't happen but i try and theres just no one better then him.....
im really trying to give this new guy a chance but its just so hard when someone else has your heart
what should i do ????
2006-11-06 16:51:36 · 7 answers · asked by crystaltears 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is natural, do what you please.
2006-11-06 16:52:54 · answer #1 · answered by jonas_tripps_79 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny, that's life. I have been married 2 yrs now, I and STILL think of my ex sometimes. At some point you need to make a contious decision. When you start thinking of him tell yourself "now Amy *whatever your name is* stop thinking about him, now, and put another thought into your mind right away. Repeat this aw many times as it takes. I am not sure why these nagging thought seem to linger after the fact, but they do. The important thing is that you take control and choose not to let them rule, or ruin the relationship you are in now.
Like I said, tell yourself to stop. It sounds stupid but it works, and I do it with any negative thought I have about anything! Contious decision - you can't help when he pops into your head, but you can help dwelling on those thoughts!
So next time you do repeat what I said and give your new boy a hug and tell him how special he is to you!
2006-11-07 01:05:28 · answer #2 · answered by Amber 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
BECAUSE YOU ARE NOT HONEST WITH HOW YOU ARE
FEELING, THE WORST MISTAKE YOU CAN MAKE IS TO
DATE ONE PERSON WHEN YOUR HEART BELONG TO
SOMEONE ELSE. THAT NOT FAIR . SO IF YOU STILL HAVE
FEELING FOR SOMEONE ELSE. THEN MAY BE YOU NEED
TO LET THE MAN YOU WITH KNOW WHAT THE DEAL IS
HE DESERVE THE TRUTH. HE DESERVE ALL OF YOU , OR
YOU NEED TO LET HIM GO TO SOMEONE THAT WILL LOVE
HIM AND ONLY HIM. YOU HAVE SOME ISSUES THAT
ONLY YOU CAN ANSWERS. BUT JUST THINK ABOUT THIS
HOW WOULD YOU FEEL IF THE TABLE WERE TURN AND
HE DID WHAT YOU ARE DOING NOW.. THEY SAY WHAT
COME AROUND GO AROUND.
YOU NEED TO CUT HIM LOSE.
2006-11-07 00:59:43 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it may take a long time, but u will have to get over it, just try to think of him as a celebrity like chris brown or something. ur gona have a die heart crush, but it will fade away when u find the right one, if he doesnt want u, trust me hes not the right one
2006-11-07 00:56:45 · answer #4 · answered by SERIOUSLY THOUGH 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Write down the reasons you want to be with this guy who doesn't want you. I'll bet you can't come up with many. Usually you're in love with a fantasy about him that's just not true in real life.
2006-11-07 00:54:42 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can not care for this new guy then break off this relationship before you break his heart. Accept that the other relationship is a dead end street then find new companionship.
2006-11-07 00:56:12 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to spend some time alone and get to know yourself again. Enjoy life. It's not fair to the new guy, your giving him the wrong impression about yourself.
2006-11-07 00:54:15 · answer #7 · answered by traceyjeda 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋