Well at school last Friday my friend got mad at me for some reason and she wrote a letter to my boyfriend that said that i want to kiss him.But after she wrote that letter to him than she walked up to him and gave him the letter when i was not looking.And now i am afraid of him not talking to me but me and my boyfriend are still together.I found this out when my other friend came up to me and told me that my one other friend that got mad at me gave the letter to him but my good friend tried to stop my bad friend but my boyfriend got the letter in time.Well me and my boyfriend went out for about 2 weeks and i think he is not ready to kiss me and im kinda not ready to kiss him too.But that made me so mad that she wrote that letter to my boyfriend.And now im confused on what to say or write to him that i think that i am not ready to kiss him yet.Should i go on and ignor the letter or should i try to talk to my boyfriend that i do not want to kiss him.Please try to under stand my queshtion
2006-11-06 16:59:55 · 8 answers · asked by - Allison 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please help me!
2006-11-06 17:00:17 · update #1
Yes I think you should talk to him. If he does try to kiss you then see how you feel at the time and if it feels wrong just stop him then and let him know you really like him but right now your not ready. You should also get rid of that bad friend. They are no good for you. Good luck
2006-11-06 19:28:36 · answer #1 · answered by askhow1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hi! You poor sweety. You are still young and innocent and I have repect for you that you want to make up your own decision. The first time I kissed a guy I almost threw up and I broke up with him. Spit used to gross me out! It took me until I was 16 till I actually loved making out. Your friend really did a low thing to you and it's usual for juveniles. Statistics show that most teen relationships "in love" lasts about 3 weeks before having problems. Men are always horny especially in their teens. Girls usually want romance. (dinners, holding hands, talking, walking together, small gifts etc.) If you don't kiss him he might make you feel like something is wrong with you. They are very good at making you feel stupid when they can't get what they want. Stand your ground with a man always, until you are comfortable. Men don't have much respect for a women unless she has something to respect. If he asks you anything just tell him that you've thought it through and you don't feel like kissing yet. If he isn't happy, don't talk to him for a while. Guys think all girls talk too much so quiet down. He will then find you a challenge. Guys love the hunt and then they loose interest when they get what they hunted for. When they mature, then things get better, but always keep a guy quessing. I've been married 23 years and I still keep my man with a playful hard -to -get type love. Your friend needs a good talking to. She is the type that will hurt you again, so watch her! Some women can't be trusted. When your boyfriend sees you next time wear a big smile and act like nothing is wrong. Guys hate whiny, "woe is me girls". They want fun girls. Get to know yourself better. Talk to someone older (over 30) and listen to someone with wisdom. (Your Aunt, Grandma, mom, etc.) They really can help you with make up, clothes, and ideas. Young girls really don't have enough life experience. Read books on male pyscology and you will learn lots! Men are a very interesting breed and much different from our feelings and needs. Good luck and pray all goes good. God Bless you!
2006-11-07 01:32:40 · answer #2 · answered by belladmma 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just tell your boyfriend that the letter that your bad friend gave you that you and him need to talk about that and tell him that you are not ready to take that step yet. I think he will understand you and he might feel the same way about the situtation. so just talk to him . Put everything out on the table. so it willl not be hanging over your heard. Put it behind you. so you wouldn't have to worry about it anymore.
2006-11-07 01:12:30 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Like my 360 page says,just do me! Go for it if you feel that way.Listen you only live once,got it? Good luck and be carefull.
2006-11-07 01:02:57 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your boyfriend to ignore the letter, that you didn't write it.
2006-11-07 01:02:21 · answer #5 · answered by nursesr4evr 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you and your bf have good understanding for each other then you can discuss the issue with him..
2006-11-07 01:17:44 · answer #6 · answered by CosmicLight 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you should kiss him, it might make your friend jealous
2006-11-07 01:10:26 · answer #7 · answered by Octavio 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2006-11-07 01:01:34 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋