Should I tell a good friend that I have feelings for her?

Question

You see, me and her have known each other since we were 7 or 8 years old. Since this summer, i've been havin feelings for her. I really don't know what to do since i don't want to ruin our friendship. But than again, she has dropped several hints that she also has feelings for me and so have I. I havent done anything about that b/c im not so sure she likes me in that way. I need to figure out a way to tell her i have feelings for her, but not ruin our friendship. Do you think i should sit down w/ her and telling her how i feel or just try to forget her even though i really love her? Could you help me by telling me how i could approach her and tell her that. I would really appreciate your help. Thanks

Answer 1

I think you should tell her, bring it up when you're doing the things you normally do with her to make it less awkward. Don't drop everything on her at once (meaning the L bomb,) but make your feelings known otherwise, hold her hand etc. Don't go all the way until you get a signal from her either loving what you're doing or running away.

Answer 2

If you've got been peers for that lengthy then you definitely have got to have a sexy deep friendship, person who would possibly not be ruined via sharing emotions. I recognise from beyond enjoy that it is a disgrace to not inform a well pal the way you believe. If you do not inform her you could remorse it ceaselessly!

Answer 3

Go someplace where you both are comfortable. Makes it less tense. Talk to each other. You both have feelings for each other, so go for it. You never know what might happen.

Answer 4

Just ask her out. Sometimes love involves taking risks.