we met and we clicked instantly, things were good and we finally ended up getting close (but nothing serious) after it all went down, he hasn't been returning my calls and the day he finally does, i don't have any wants to pick up--i'm sorry--i guess everyone's right telling me to kick em' to the curb and find a decent, good-lookin' ************ who will treat me good because goodness i ******' deserve that ****. it's a shame he's a player and has girls lined up and they're all after him--i can't blame him for having game like that--but for him to show interest in me but fake it just for me to be another girl on his side? that's extremely foul! so, if there's a genius out there, pleaseeeee tell me why do you guys act like that after we do something good to you? it's almost as if you guys compete to see who gets the most girls and you suck because there's already one who's good for you, if you'd just open your eyes--i would have treated you so good and you're blind to realize that JERK!
2006-11-06 16:55:03 · 12 answers · asked by santa maria de lopez 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
mane f**k that dude!!!!!! let em drop! lol
2006-11-06 16:58:50 · answer #1 · answered by Kimi 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not a guy, but I've been dissed like that by more than a few of them. It's okay when he's up front and tells you he's not into being your BF, but just wants to play, because then, at least, you have the option of telling him to get lost, and it's all on the up and up. I have a special thing I save just for the players who lie to get some: I spread it around that I think he's really cute, isn't it sad about his tiny little willie? If only he had a single redeeming feature, like intelligence or even a talented tongue... He'll have a very hard time getting a date for a long, long time after that. And it serves him right for being a lying cheat. After it's all said and done, be sure to see a doc and get checked for diseases. Players are infamous for spreading herpes and genital warts, gonorrhea, syphilis and HIV. If you must go slumming, use a condom. You need to have the attitude of "If you want to take a shower in this bathtub, you *better* be wearing your raincoat!" You sound like a nice, if misguided gal. Be a shame if you got a rep for spreading *DOG GERMS*, which is what you get as a souvenir from players. Best wishes for developing better judgment in the future.
2016-05-22 06:29:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am so sorry you are having to go thru this. Its a shame that
some men will do anything to get into a women's pants and
then move on to another one. I know you are hurting cause
you had some feelings for this guy, but i promise you this will
pass. What you need to do is stay away from him, if he
happens to call you just be as nice as can be, don't let him know
that you are hurt, tell him you are busy and you have to go. Then
you stand tall and walk with pride. Act as if you got what you
wanted from him and move on.
I know you can do this, after all us women just have it going
on like that.
Good Luck To Ya
2006-11-06 17:28:34 · answer #3 · answered by lavada 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are a lot of different reasons, actually, though it certainly is true that a lot of guys are looking just for the conquest, and will be done as soon as they achieve it.
In your case, they way you talk, about him and men in general, I'm surprised you got anywhere with him, unless he really is the jerk you say he is... and if he is that bad, what were you doing with him anyway and why do you care enough even to ask about him afterward?
2006-11-06 17:03:08 · answer #4 · answered by Leo F 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It seems like once you satisfy them then it is time for them to move on to the next one.. Try not to be so willing to please. Men who do this get a high out of the number of women that they have been with and could be bad for you. They care more for quantity then quality.
2006-11-06 17:02:38 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys only think with the head between their legs.
2006-11-06 16:59:30 · answer #6 · answered by Daydreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Guys think with their penis. Once their penis is worn out from sex it can't think & so the man turns into a jerk because he is incapable of normalcy.
2006-11-06 16:57:24 · answer #7 · answered by catsup 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Feels good to vent. He obviously was just after one thing. Learn from it and move on.
2006-11-06 16:58:11 · answer #8 · answered by betty_htch 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
If "nothing serious" happened he moved on to greener pastures. Why are you surprised?
2006-11-06 16:59:56 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The reason guys act different is..... He got the puzzy that is all he wanted
2006-11-06 16:58:09 · answer #10 · answered by Donkeypunch 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Why tell us all this crap? Tell him because that's what you are trying to do anyway.
2006-11-06 16:58:45 · answer #11 · answered by nobluffzone 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋