so my b/f an i have been dating for six months an we have never ran into any problems except for now b/c of things going wrong with different family issues and things and i have been so stressed out that i have been argueing lately ...i dont want it to go on further than whats its gone now...i mean i dont want to argue any more and i wanna be with him forever ...but i just feel so sad rght now i dunno what to do and i dunno how to explain to him that its actually not him at all??/....please help...i really dont want this to go bad...i love him so much
2006-11-06 15:47:22 · 4 answers · asked by sarah g 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
WITH ANY RELATIONSHIP THERE WILL BE UP AND DOWN.
AND SINCE THIS IS SOMEONE NEW ONE JUST TALK TO
EACH OTHER ABOUT WHAT REALLY IS GOING ON, OTHER
WISE THE PROBLEM WILL CONTINUE TO MOUNT,
2006-11-06 15:51:59 · answer #1 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell him the truth, look I'm sad, and it not your fault, it is life, I do love you and I appreaciate you standing by my side. I'll tell you things and all I want you to do is listen and share your thoughts with me. You don't have to solve my problems, and I'm not asking you to. i just want you to know that despite all the mess going on in my life right now I cherish "our" like and I am happy and lucky to have you, so please be the strong guy for me that I know you are and stand by me while i go threw this just like I will do for you some day.
2006-11-06 23:52:54 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
All realationships have thier rough spots, just tell him that it isnt him, if he is actually worth your time he will sit and listen to how you feel and realize you need some one to lean on and help deal with the stress. Just tell him that it isnt him its stress.
2006-11-06 23:55:40 · answer #3 · answered by hermiasdeath 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
say EXACTLY that.
Tell him that you love him and that you're really glad he's there for you..because you're having a tough time with family. Hopefully he will understand and will stand by you in your time of need...and things will get better from there.
2006-11-06 23:50:53 · answer #4 · answered by MDP 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋