Okay they're fussing on me, most of the time for no reason. I don't know why they don't like me. It happens in three classes, Science, English, and Reading. In the other classes they don't bother me. The principal won't change those three classes and put me in another. And it happens every single day. They even fuss on me in FRONT OF THE TEACHER! But she didn't do anything. They don't want to fight, just talk trash about me. They've even turned two of my best friends against me. It's so annoying, I've told them to leave me alone but it don't work. Our school is going to have a "bullying program" but who knows if that'll help. What should I do??? Please help me!!
2006-11-06 15:48:29 · 15 answers · asked by *hedgeツ♥ i<3mlm* 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
I have 2 more classes with them, but in those classes I don't even exist to them. I've talked to the principal he just told me to write down everything they say bad to me.
2006-11-06 15:55:29 · update #1
Okay heres the deal. Regarding your principal, it sounds like he's trying to gather you a thicker skin. In other words preparing you for the real world. I like that he didn't change your classes. Believe it or not your going to come across many many many bullies. It's unfortunate but it is the nature of the beast. You will, like most other people are going to have to work around that or do something about it. Weather you stand up to them or come up with a sceme to get back at them it's your choice. I think this is a turning point in your life and how you deal with this paticular matter will help influence your desitions and better judgment for the future.
My personal experiance with "bullies" are this. They don't like when someone bigger comes along and bullies them. It always happens. Second, not concerning you but usually people are bullies because of something that happend at home or because they are afraid of something.
Your doing fine and will live after this. Best of luck to you and hope all goes well.
2006-11-06 16:05:06 · answer #1 · answered by mikeywk 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel. I have been there. It is really tough and its hard to stand up for yourself. These girls sound like they are insecure and they know you do not do or say anything. I think the best thing to do is confront them but if they seem like the violent type then its best to get this resolved and getting the parents possibly involved. You do not need to go through this. Usually people who bully another person is not happy with themselves or are not happy with their home life. Bullies are bullied themselves and do not admit it so they pick on others. Its really pitiful they are like that. They have to grow up. Whatever it is, you should talk with someone about it cause it will just keep happening.
2006-11-06 16:06:06 · answer #2 · answered by guardianangel2008 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like they are so boring they cannot entertain themselves, so they have to pick on someone to inflate their tiny little self-esteem. No-one should put up with nonsense like that! Join the bullying program. If that does not work, speak to a counsellor, or even a lawyer. I dont that that is an over-reaction, you must do what is necessary to protect youself from harrassment. Make sure they "get" that you are serious and wont take their **** anymore. As long as anything you do is nice and legal...
2006-11-06 15:54:23 · answer #3 · answered by shakespear 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey Stand up for yourself, you do not have to resort to physical violence, because that never solves anything, just one day surprise them, do not allow someone to physically or mentally and emotionally bully you, you do not deserve it, no one does,
Try being Sarcastic, this can or will let them know that whatever they say no longer has control over you, change your demeanor this just might confuse them, Also, do you have any older cousins, sisters, brothers and etc, they might also do the trick a little visit up to your school and they won't ever look your way again.
Hope this Helps!!!!!
2006-11-06 16:52:48 · answer #4 · answered by Breann 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That really sucks that no one is helping you out. I hope that you realise that their bullying has nothing to do with you. There is nothing wrong with you, everything is wrong with THEM. What crappy people they are! Aren't your parents helping you out with this? Maybe you can find a new school to start over in, or maybe you can be homeschooled? Your friends weren't good friends to abandon you because some looser jerks were picking on you...look at this in a positive way. I have had to find out that people that I thought were my friends weren't and it usually cost me alot of money to find that out. I wish you nothing but the best of luck, and I urge you to turn to faith based youth groups, they seem to have the best track records as being all inclusive. Good luck to you and remember, this is only temporary. some day you will graduate, and these loosers will be out of your life for good, okay? Hang in there and God Bless.
2006-11-06 15:58:40 · answer #5 · answered by The Nag 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Question..do you have them in other classes? If you do and they are only bothering you in those classes. Could there be a boy who likes you in that class, and it gets them jealous and they are trying to make you look bad. I would try your best to ignore them, if that don't work talk to someone. If that don't then stand up to them. Just dont let your grades slip.
2006-11-06 15:52:20 · answer #6 · answered by Kelly 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you can't figure out why they are bullying you then they're probably just jealous. Just try to ignore them. It sounds like you've tried to do everything short of moving schools. Don't let them get to you. Don't let them rule your life. They have insecurities in themselves if they have to talk trash about you to make them feel good.
2006-11-06 15:54:29 · answer #7 · answered by tina 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell your parents, teachers, principal about this couse bullieng can come to sirious problems. I have herd many stories about bullieng and how people comit suisied and stuff and its just scary! You have to let out to you parents and older people that you know who will take care of you!
2006-11-06 15:51:33 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
u should go talk to ur parents because then ur mom can go and talk to ur principle, or try to ignore them i know its hard but i have to ignore this guy all day during lunch even though i hate him and he talks about me i still have to ignore him..trust me now that guy doesnt even talk to me ..so if you ignore them there going to be like oh she's not listening to me so theyll leave u alone..i know its hard but hopefully it will help...i hope everything is gong to be ok.....
2006-11-06 16:29:50 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
What a stupid principal you have. Just walk up to them slap them and RUN!
2006-11-06 17:14:47 · answer #10 · answered by mistery person 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋