Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

I was just wondering if I was the only one that this happens to, but I often find myself thinking about other things while my husband and I have having sex. Wether it being bills, the kids and what I have to do for them, shopping(Christmas, grocery, ect.), you know just everday ordinary stuff. It doesnt happen everytime, I feel bad that it does happen because my husband and I dont get to have "our" time that much, if you know what I mean. So we have to get it when the goin is good. I just think that my whole attention should be givin to him while we are making love in the short times that we have to ourselves and nothing else. Please some one help me out and let me know what everyone else goes through. We have two beautiful daughters together and I wouldnt change it for the world.

2006-11-04 03:20:24 · 9 answers · asked by citygirl22_1 3 in Other - Family & Relationships

My best friend's infant died earlier this year from SIDS, she's been having a really hard time dealing with this and other things. The baby would have had his first birthday this month as a matter of fact his birthday is the same day as mine. I want to do something special for her...in memory of her son, but I dont know what. Any Ideas????

2006-11-04 03:20:11 · 5 answers · asked by Mommee 1 in Friends

LIST SOMEONE I NEED HELP BECAUSE I AM A VERY NICE GIRL AND MY BOYFRIEND IS CHEAPING ON ME WHAT DO I DO

2006-11-04 03:20:00 · 4 answers · asked by bonniefortson2004 1 in Singles & Dating

waitted for half an hour then orderd then ate then left at quarter too. The person stated that he had over slept:;-meeting for the first time! Then I called and hearing the answering machine pick up, ihung up without a message rendered.Never had I recieve a call but an e,mail afterwards. Nevertheless, hes wondering why Im not speaking with him.

2006-11-04 03:19:54 · 11 answers · asked by Sandra B 1 in Singles & Dating

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2006-11-04 03:19:48 · 16 answers · asked by See ya later aligator 4 in Other - Family & Relationships

Looking for answers from the ladies out there.

2006-11-04 03:18:54 · 19 answers · asked by Sky 2 in Singles & Dating

no joking on this subject PLS deeply in love with my husband.

2006-11-04 03:18:47 · 3 answers · asked by Jamillah G 1 in Marriage & Divorce

1. only two weeks into the relationship she immed my brother, ( then 15 ) and told him, " to watch out for my stack of porn." she was 22.
2. she complimented my brother's eyes in front of our friends saying how beatiful they were
3. she started smoking pot with my lil brother and buying him booze cause he was underage.
4. she stayed with me 4 3 months then my brother moved in too when he got into a fiight w my dad..whenever i worked they were home together and one time she smoked with my lil brother and isolated themselves from me.
5. i found a gmail she didn't erase in her account while we were together..the guy from the army wrote he loved kickin it with her and he's a grown man now..she said she wanted to try on his boots and she still had his red shirt he gave her. she was 20..he was 17.

2006-11-04 03:17:33 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

looking forONE word describes my friend. she is loyal,smart,gives ppl benefit of doubt,never speaksbadboutppl

2006-11-04 03:17:13 · 10 answers · asked by mickbrks 1 in Friends

me in exchange for my silence, but I am torn between telling him and doing her as she is smokin hot. Any advice would be greatly appreciated.

2006-11-04 03:17:11 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I am 18 years old and married now for 4 months to my husband who is 24 yrs old. We dated for 6 months and i felt so in love with him that when my parents told me to never see (white trash)him again that i married him .We met when i was sneaking into a NYC club and he was helping to promote for a record company.The first 2 months of being married were great but i am a freshmen in college now and do not work.He travels a lot to promote and is always at clubs .We live in NYC right now and it was an adjustment for me NJ girl but now he wants to move to Houston for a little while and he did not even consider my opinion.We got into a huge fight because he says he works hard to maintain the standard of living i am used too and that i contribute nothing. He says he has the opportunity to be a producer which will boost him and that i should be supporting him?Do i go with flow?

2006-11-04 03:14:19 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

is chatting dirty on the internet with another man considered to be adultery?

2006-11-04 03:14:03 · 7 answers · asked by Apricot Brandy 2 in Singles & Dating

I keep having dreams that i am dating this guy that i've recently turned down even though you liked him whooooole lot? Usually i hang around him alot, but now when he's around me somebody says something like 'you guys should date' and he walks off! Like yesterday we were outside at lunch and i was cold and he put his arms around me like to keep me warm and then this other guy say ''ya'll look good together ya'll should date" then t guy lets go and walks off! is this like some form of payback?

2006-11-04 03:13:21 · 12 answers · asked by shorti241 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 03:13:08 · 12 answers · asked by max 2 in Singles & Dating

My friends consist of:

1 very close guy friend - that's what I'm nervous about. I'm thinking an iPod.

And then I have my 'girl' friends. I'm not too worried about those.

Any suggestions?

2006-11-04 03:12:51 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

I asked a question before saying that how do you know if a man was after one thing , but say if you know someone,

and like you say no too him, how do you know if he might attack and assault the women meaning rape her,

Im really just confused because Ive heard that in most cases people get raped with they boyfriends, and I just worry about

how do you know to be safe with a man if you like him, and want to go to each other houses espeacilly his house he could do anything

so if I like someone, and we want to meet up , how do I know if hes not up to no good,

2006-11-04 03:12:17 · 17 answers · asked by chrstian jesus is god 1 in Singles & Dating

What should I do. I am thinking about buying a farm with lots of animals, but she will probably want to marry me then as she grew up on a farm and loves animals also. She has been b itching at me a lot lately and I think she likes other women so that is why I haven't told her about the money yet. I am confused but rich. Please help.

2006-11-04 03:12:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

There was a little boy whose mother was about to have a baby. One day, the little boy walked in and saw his mother naked. He asked his mother what the hair between her legs was.

She responded, "It's my wash cloth."

Weeks later, after the mother had her baby, the young boy walked in on his mother again. While she was in the hospital, the doctor had shaved her pubic hair.

The boy asked, "What happened to your wash cloth?"

The mother responded, "I lost it."

The little boy, trying to be helpful, set out to find his mother's washcloth.

A few days later, he ran to his mother yelling and screaming, "I found your washcloth."

The mother, thinking that the child was just playing, went along with the boy and asked, "Where did you find it?"

The boy answered, "The maid has it! She is washing daddy's face with it."

2006-11-04 03:11:14 · 13 answers · asked by ♥Londoners♥ 1 in Family

I've been talking to this guy on the Internet and phone for over 4 months. We talk everyday but just have'nt had the time to meet up.
He says he wants me to be his girlfriend and I feel the same way.

Anyway, he asked me to go to a movie and I was excited, then the movie we wanted to see wasn't out at the theatre so he asked me to come to his house.

I got kinda weirded out by this..I mean I trust him but, meeting his whole family on the first date - I would have liked to get to know him face-to-face on our own..like a traditional first date is usually like.

I told him this (we were online at the time) and he got REALLY angry and said ''I think of you differently now''..'' I don't ask anyone to my house'' etc,etc and signed off (MSN)

I sent him a message on Myspace and he hasn't replied or called me.

Was I wrong? What should I do? Is it over? p.s He's 20 ...I'm 19

2006-11-04 03:11:06 · 7 answers · asked by shy_dixon 1 in Singles & Dating

im moon like u

2006-11-04 03:10:11 · 19 answers · asked by moon s 1 in Singles & Dating

i have a boyfriend but when we got together months ago i thought i was already over my ex.but i guess i was wrong because, although it's been two years since we broke up,i keep thinking about my ex and sometimes i even want to give him a call.i'm stopping myself coz i don't want to hurt my bf.what do i do?i don't wanna be with my bf anymore.how do i tell him?

2006-11-04 03:09:58 · 7 answers · asked by lilac18 1 in Singles & Dating

Help!

I was supposed to go on a date with a woman I worked with. I dont have her phone number or email and she was fired from the job. What do I do? She has my contact information. But my male friends say I have to find her contact information and contact her. Is that too crazy to do or is it the assertive thing to do?

2006-11-04 03:08:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

after she stopped puking. then laughing and then called the Center for Disease control. She checked me into rehab for obvious addiction to crack w h o r e s. Got really drunk then slept a football team. then stiil left me cuz my pecker fell off thanks Slippery oh yea the question sry was my wife right to do that ?

2006-11-04 03:08:32 · 7 answers · asked by Wondering If ? 1 in Marriage & Divorce

I left my husband in February. Now I am battling him, his family, my family and many of our mutual friends from their lies, fears and assumptions brought to the court, which has resulted in me losing custody of our 4 1/2 year-old son. Why do all of these other people feel they have an interest and consequence in how my husband, myself and our son lives our lives?

2006-11-04 03:07:58 · 10 answers · asked by myristicablkbrn 1 in Marriage & Divorce

im 16 years old

2006-11-04 03:06:42 · 15 answers · asked by jake c 1 in Singles & Dating

This question doesn't apply to those people who are currently under 20 years of age.

2006-11-04 03:05:39 · 34 answers · asked by choosinghappiness 5 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-04 03:04:53 · 8 answers · asked by zigzagidiot 3 in Singles & Dating

my husband is all the time bothering me because he want to have a kid...I don't like kids does a family must to have kids?

2006-11-04 03:04:13 · 19 answers · asked by cuhemafa 2 in Marriage & Divorce

Soooo.
I like this girl.
She really likes me.
She got drunk the first night I met her and slept with my friend.
No big deal since we didn't really know each other.
Well we hit it off extremely well.
Then she got really super trashed again when I wasn't around and had sex with that guy again.
I figured she was just another 'whore', which sucked because I really did like her, I'm not one to devalue sex and so I wasn't even gonna mess with her, just be friends....
Well the other day she was signed on to her email account and I was super curious to see what her actual intentions were... so I read one to a guy that I kind of know.
She was basically saying that she was depressed because she really likes me and she just got trashed and made that 'mistake' she didn't even want to do.

Soooo, is it bad if I still like this girl? Should I stay far away?

2006-11-04 03:03:36 · 11 answers · asked by notsohated 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 03:02:25 · 1 answers · asked by amethyst 1 in Friends