Soooo.
I like this girl.
She really likes me.
She got drunk the first night I met her and slept with my friend.
No big deal since we didn't really know each other.
Well we hit it off extremely well.
Then she got really super trashed again when I wasn't around and had sex with that guy again.
I figured she was just another 'whore', which sucked because I really did like her, I'm not one to devalue sex and so I wasn't even gonna mess with her, just be friends....
Well the other day she was signed on to her email account and I was super curious to see what her actual intentions were... so I read one to a guy that I kind of know.
She was basically saying that she was depressed because she really likes me and she just got trashed and made that 'mistake' she didn't even want to do.
Soooo, is it bad if I still like this girl? Should I stay far away?
2006-11-04 03:03:36 · 11 answers · asked by notsohated 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Sounds like she has a drinking problem. Go ahead and like her, but be prepared for this same behavior to happen again and again. You can probably do better. And what about your friend? If he knew that you were interested, why did he do it. My advice-- Forget about both of them. They belong together.
2006-11-04 04:15:49 · answer #1 · answered by Hallon 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Let me guess (probably wrong) but anyway; you are the sweet, attractive, great boyfriend and all round nice guy, the guy she keeps getting with when she is trashed is one of those arseholes that sleep with as many girls as possible, which is alot because girls love this abusive kind of male - don't ask me why because they make you feel bad (if you really want to know why I can research my psych books for you). Maybe I'm wrong about all of this and am avoiding the question - 1)from what I have gathered from your query told me this girl gets trashed a fair bit?? if so it is clear that she has a low self esteem and will probably go out of her way to self destruct. 2) thus she is pushing away what is good for her (you - a nice guy) for an ******** that she knows she will wake up and regret such activities with in the morning. Does she see a shrink? how old? parents divorced - just going by experience sorry if I am no help. BUT if you really like this girl than you are going to have to go through a fair bit. Approach her as a friend, earn her trust, perhaps play the little games we humans seem to enjoy by acting indifferent towards a relationship - find the cause of the problem and help her through it, you may need to visit counsellors or just contact me on my blog or email knardi20@yahoo.com.au. If you cant handle her emotional instability back away or yu will hurt her more, it is not bad if you still like this girl. I may not be gd enough at mathematics to get through stats but I have life experience that may be able to help her, You know 18007383773. Well try +g1jj11mj1 ??? hope you get it
2006-11-04 03:37:23 · answer #2 · answered by ym 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why can't you just tell her that you like her, and end the problem...honesty is always the best policy, even if it sounds old fahioned. I like to be open about how I feel, more vulnerable, but I don't give a damn any more. Fed up with playing games and waste time.
2006-11-04 03:09:28 · answer #3 · answered by sissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would talk to her and ask her why she is getting trashed for when you drink you do stupid things ( I know I used to do the same crap) so ask her and tell her that you are interested in her however she needs to stop the drinking and start communication her real feelings towards you
2006-11-04 03:06:16 · answer #4 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would run away from her as fast I could. If she is this way now, think about how she will be in a relationship. She needs to get help and you can't cure her.
2006-11-04 03:07:35 · answer #5 · answered by anvilsandinkstudios 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-10-15 09:09:51 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you don't like this girl, you just want to have sex with her.if she has to get trashed to give it up, it's because she's not really enjoying sex.she is sadly messed up in the head.
2006-11-04 03:08:38 · answer #7 · answered by lady Ironhair 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Geez - if you do still like her, why stay away? She is obviously feeling bad about what happened. We all do stoopid things whilst drunk.
Bet you have.
Give her a chance.
2006-11-04 03:08:02 · answer #8 · answered by ShoCh 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think it would be fine but make sure you don't go dating a drunkee. sorry I had no other word. I would just keep an eye on her.
2006-11-04 03:05:54 · answer #9 · answered by Juice 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well if she says shes sorry and that it was a mistake you have to help her quit drinking or forget her cause then she'll keep doin it
2006-11-04 03:06:31 · answer #10 · answered by erika 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋