What should I do. I am thinking about buying a farm with lots of animals, but she will probably want to marry me then as she grew up on a farm and loves animals also. She has been b itching at me a lot lately and I think she likes other women so that is why I haven't told her about the money yet. I am confused but rich. Please help.
2006-11-04 03:12:07 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I don't believe you... But it's worth answering: dump her. You have your whole life ahead of you. Don't waste your time with someone you don't like.
2006-11-04 03:16:14 · answer #1 · answered by WJ 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Do not tell her nothing.If she likes other women,she will never will be a good wife for you.Find a new woman,who will love you indeed.About the money,spent it in good way.If you want to buy a house,or farm,do it.Do not spent the money in bad way.Buying a house or farm is a great idea.The rest of money,you can put at the bank account.She must love you (if she love you),exactly how you are,never about if you are now a rich man.Good luck.
2006-11-04 11:20:28 · answer #2 · answered by cobrasnake 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
4 Million is quite a tidy sum for farm animals
Dump her .. come out to the Caribbean .. buy a nice condo on the beach .. relax .. mind the animals ... make money renting part of the condo out.
How long have you had this GF?
Has she been there for you when no one else was?
Would be fair to dump her now that you have 4M extra?
What if you did not had that extra 4M - would you still want to dump her?
Don't dump her because of the money!
DUmp her because she deserves to be dumped.
She may be bitchy - so are all WOMEN.
Unless you intend to end up with a gay - i'm told they are ok.
If she likes other women - then that is definitely in YOUR favour - she can get you other women for free - both of you can have them!!!
I won't dump her because she likes other women - I'll get closer to her!
The more -- the merrier!!!!
2006-11-04 11:18:52 · answer #3 · answered by Mr. Nice Guy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is your prerogative if you dont want to tell her that you won the lottery. listen to your guts. what does it tell you? it tells you that you cannot trust this woman, right? then you are more likely correct in your assumption. No need to be confused. dont tell her you won the lottery. dump her because she likes girls. but think about that farm. i dont recommend you buy one. its very hard manual laborious work. but if it's really what you wanna do then make a business plan first before purchasing anything. why dont you invest your money in a portfolio of stocks, bonds, t-bills, houses that you can have rented out. this way you have investments and you can make your money work for you. good luck and I hope you'll have a sweet life. your young, energetic and someone with good morals, I'm sure you will someday settle into a good, warm relationship with a woman who would take care of you and your family.
2006-11-04 11:28:58 · answer #4 · answered by janice 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Clarify the issue about the other women with her and if this doesn't satisfy you, then explain to her that you cannot see her anymore without mentioning the money. I think you probably have to clear up to yourself why you don't want to be with her and then take the right decision for yourself. You don't have to stay with her just because your money can buy her dream. Obviously if you're asking the question you already have the doubt that now that you have more money, you can do something bigger and better for yourself.
Good luck and be happy!
2006-11-04 11:22:44 · answer #5 · answered by MH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Alright. Here it goes: First thing you do is hire good accountant. That brand money you won will bring on add problems and bring you "new lost , eager to get a piece of that action friends" If you are not happy with this girl then don't lie to yourself. I say break it off. Start clean. Make your dreams come true with this money and be wise all around. I wouldn't tell her anything or anyone else about the money.
2006-11-04 11:19:29 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Rich is a state of mind, not wallet. You don't sound rich to me, you sound lost but with some bucks. If you loved her before, then love her now, the people who will "love" you now are going to be blood suckers, trust me, I know. At 23 you don't need to decide the rest of your life, take it slow. Enjoy the great thing that you have won....travel, buy stuff, help other peeps, jeese, relax. good luck.
2006-11-04 11:19:39 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she was with you before you won than she isn't there for the money. Try to find a different woman once word gets out and you'll never no if its real. Being rich sucks in a way when it comes to that.
2006-11-04 11:15:45 · answer #8 · answered by Sandy 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
ok your just an ***. what your really trying to say is she was good enough for you when you were poor . you need an excuse to dump her now that you are rich and can buy expencive pu**y. and you want to justify what you are doing by aqusing her of lesbienisum.
2006-11-04 11:17:11 · answer #9 · answered by phrani c 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
dump her and buy a nice car and house then a farm
2006-11-04 11:16:31 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋