I keep having dreams that i am dating this guy that i've recently turned down even though you liked him whooooole lot? Usually i hang around him alot, but now when he's around me somebody says something like 'you guys should date' and he walks off! Like yesterday we were outside at lunch and i was cold and he put his arms around me like to keep me warm and then this other guy say ''ya'll look good together ya'll should date" then t guy lets go and walks off! is this like some form of payback?
2006-11-04 03:13:21 · 12 answers · asked by shorti241 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No its not payback, He's upset!! You turned him down when he thought you liked him! You needed to explain to him that you do like him you are just not ready to have a boyfriend!! Of is it that you like someone else?? Anyway I think its because his feeling are hurt from the "turn down"! He obviously likes you still, if he waits you should at least give him a chance later! Especially if you like him!!
2006-11-04 03:19:19 · answer #1 · answered by panda 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
What is your typical reaction/response when someone else makes the comments about dating? Think about whether or not you might be continuing to make him feel rejected.
From the information you have provided, I would venture to guess that he still likes you very much, but is having to deal with your rejection of him repeatedly, which probably rubs salt into an already painful wound.
Try being honest with him. That'll bring you to the bottom of things right quick. You'll relieve the mystery for both of you and stop the assumptions, which will only lead to more hurt feelings and loss of time better spent living and loving yourself and others.
2006-11-04 11:23:33 · answer #2 · answered by myristicablkbrn 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
sweetie you turned him down right ,so we are clear on how he feels about you . the thing is he wants to get so close to you but its like he is reminded by those people that you let him down and he probably thinks he ain't good enough for you . that's when he lets go cause he then realizes that no matter how much he tries you wont love him. how much do you want to hurt this guy ?he loves you so what are you waiting for ?i know you feel a little something for him cause you cant let a guy put hes arms around you when there isn't a little chemistry there. trust me you are not hurting g now, how would you then feel when he gives up on you and finds another ?you will regret so this is how you should do it !when you guys are chillin ,just kiss him and see what will happen ,love baby will just blossom from there . good luck
2006-11-04 11:26:57 · answer #3 · answered by bubbles 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Yes....with out a doubt. If you turned him down for a date he may feel like is chances are zero. Not many women turn men down for a date if they like him.
But his actions speak louder than words. He likes you but he was hurt by your rejection and this is way to show you.
2006-11-04 11:20:30 · answer #4 · answered by John B 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
probably the guy just wants be a good friend without any commitment of dating. or he likes sombody else to go out with. He is not doing any thing wrong towards you
2006-11-04 11:21:36 · answer #5 · answered by Jinha 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
No he probaly feels like he is putting pressure on you because of what other people are saying and he knows that you dont want to date him so he dont want to make you feel uncomfortable.
2006-11-04 11:18:44 · answer #6 · answered by wblueyesinvt35 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you might have hurt his feelings and now he doesnt want to hear it anymore , or he doesnt want to make you feel uncomfortable cuz you turned him down when he liked you, so be the bigger girl and ask him out if thats what you want !!!!!!!
2006-11-04 11:16:17 · answer #7 · answered by kmcglidden 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
pay back is revenge or getting back at some one for doing something to you.
i dont understand your additional details
2006-11-04 11:19:47 · answer #8 · answered by Cynthia S 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i don't know if i have your story right but i think he's embarressed that you rejected him....not that you shouldn't have if you didn't like him like that but if he just walks away i think he feels weird about that situation you should talk to him about it
2006-11-04 11:17:13 · answer #9 · answered by Katherine 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
wwell it sounds like he is teasing but it does sound like payback
2006-11-04 11:15:11 · answer #10 · answered by erika 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋