Help!
I was supposed to go on a date with a woman I worked with. I dont have her phone number or email and she was fired from the job. What do I do? She has my contact information. But my male friends say I have to find her contact information and contact her. Is that too crazy to do or is it the assertive thing to do?
2006-11-04 03:08:54 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
When was this date supposed to happen? Was it more of a casual "let's go out sometime" kind of date or did you have firm plans set?
Why was she fired? Maybe she's irresponsible, lazy, difficult -- in other words, perhaps you "dodged a bullet" now that she's not so easy to contact.
Think about how much you really want to pursue this, irrespective of your friends' advice. If you think that you do still really want to go out with her, it's certainly not crazy to try and get her contact info, as long as you do it legally and don't be some stalker.
Keep in mind, though, she's probably got more on her mind right now -- like finding another job -- to be thinking about dating.
2006-11-04 03:20:03 · answer #1 · answered by punstress 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She would have called you by now or given you her contact information the day she was fired. Forget her.
2006-11-04 11:11:44 · answer #2 · answered by Debra D 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If she gave you the number then getting her contact info is ok, if she never gave you her number then looking for her's and calling her is called Stalking!
2006-11-04 11:11:16 · answer #3 · answered by natmys333 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have a set date I say try to contact her to confirm time and such.
2006-11-04 11:11:12 · answer #4 · answered by Nani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
depends on how you feel. if you contact her then you're supposed to if not then i guess not. people put way too much emphasis on dating and what to do. dont worry if its meant to be it will be or you'll make it be.~Dave
2006-11-04 11:11:44 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look for her if YOU really wanted to. Is she the only one? If you feel that way, go find her.
2006-11-04 11:11:42 · answer #6 · answered by sissy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
she has your info, good start, but why did you not get hers? maybe a clue to your answer. in the today, is o.k. for the woman to call, remember.
2006-11-04 11:14:35 · answer #7 · answered by blueJean 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you really want to go out with her then go ahead and do all the research you need to do to get her contact information.and then ask her out...if you really want to, that is...
2006-11-04 11:14:59 · answer #8 · answered by lilac18 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Depends on how bad you want to see her.
2006-11-04 11:10:52 · answer #9 · answered by Zooya 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
contact her...she may think that you will contact her and if you don't then she will think something is wrong
2006-11-04 11:11:02 · answer #10 · answered by lwaite74 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋