I was just wondering if I was the only one that this happens to, but I often find myself thinking about other things while my husband and I have having sex. Wether it being bills, the kids and what I have to do for them, shopping(Christmas, grocery, ect.), you know just everday ordinary stuff. It doesnt happen everytime, I feel bad that it does happen because my husband and I dont get to have "our" time that much, if you know what I mean. So we have to get it when the goin is good. I just think that my whole attention should be givin to him while we are making love in the short times that we have to ourselves and nothing else. Please some one help me out and let me know what everyone else goes through. We have two beautiful daughters together and I wouldnt change it for the world.
2006-11-04 03:20:24 · 9 answers · asked by citygirl22_1 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
Of course, it happens to all of us with a busy family life. Just plan ahead a little, and set the scene. Kids at Grandma's, candles, a plate of cheese and fruit. pretty lingerie, and maybe brand new sheets. Your attention will be only on your hubby.
2006-11-04 03:27:13 · answer #1 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I hope you can get things clear. Coz you're married, you can't expect things to stay the same when you're single. You've your responsibilities and commitments to handle now, so you can't expect you can have most of the time to spend with your husband. I believe you're really a blessed mum to have such wonderful and beautiful daughters, thus I hope you feel much better. Actually, you can still spend quality time with your husband by going out for movies or nice dinners sometimes or maybe have sex the whole day while your kids are out. All you need is a careful planning and you can get what you wish for.
2006-11-04 11:28:36 · answer #2 · answered by PoshBerries 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
your right you should not be thinking of other things. When this happens it is because as you put it (you do it when the going is good). Without proper foreplay it is hard for a woman to get from point A to point C you may just have to put it off until there is time for both of you to enjoy the love making, we know a man is almost always ready and can get to point C with out much of anything. leaving us unsatisfied
2006-11-04 11:30:21 · answer #3 · answered by Nani 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It happens to everybody. Don't worry about it.
Change up your sex routine with your husband so it's not always the same, maybe that will keep your mind on the activity at hand rather than thinking of other things....
2006-11-04 11:40:05 · answer #4 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
ever hear the joke
Beige... I think I'll paint the ceiling beige...
that is what we all think from time to time.. because the sex is just not always stimulating to the mind as well as the body... don't sweat it... I made my lists twice this week already...lol
2006-11-04 11:23:28 · answer #5 · answered by lady_available_4luv 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is normal and its because women are used to multi- tasking all the time...for me its ADD...
2006-11-04 11:24:51 · answer #6 · answered by IT'S JUST ME ! 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I KNow your question said "Women only", but i can't help to say that that happens to me most of teh time! : /
2006-11-04 11:23:21 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
you need more foreplay to leave the day to day stuff behind and relax more,
2006-11-04 11:23:37 · answer #8 · answered by rchlbsxy2 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yeah, 'there's a crack in the ceiling.....', 'there's enough in the laundry basket to put a washing on, etc, etc!! lol
2006-11-04 11:37:15 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋