I've been talking to this guy on the Internet and phone for over 4 months. We talk everyday but just have'nt had the time to meet up.
He says he wants me to be his girlfriend and I feel the same way.
Anyway, he asked me to go to a movie and I was excited, then the movie we wanted to see wasn't out at the theatre so he asked me to come to his house.
I got kinda weirded out by this..I mean I trust him but, meeting his whole family on the first date - I would have liked to get to know him face-to-face on our own..like a traditional first date is usually like.
I told him this (we were online at the time) and he got REALLY angry and said ''I think of you differently now''..'' I don't ask anyone to my house'' etc,etc and signed off (MSN)
I sent him a message on Myspace and he hasn't replied or called me.
Was I wrong? What should I do? Is it over? p.s He's 20 ...I'm 19
2006-11-04 03:11:06 · 7 answers · asked by shy_dixon 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
- He wants to meet in a public place but from there go to his house to hang out.
2006-11-04 05:23:50 · update #1
1st of all you didn't do anything wrong although you are still getting to know him no one wants to meet the whole family on the very 1st date that is strange and he is being immature and stupid taking offense to that and if he really liked you as he told you he would respect your feelings and not make you feel pressure on a 1st date just move on to someone else this guy does not respectful towards you or your feelings.
2006-11-04 03:14:28 · answer #1 · answered by AngelVirgo9206 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Smart move by not going to his house on the first date, you don't know this guy. On-line dating survival rule #1 meet in a public place the first couple of times. If he gets angry that easy then it would not be a great idea to pursue this any further.......I made that mistake and ended up in the emergency room with broken ribs, busted lip, black eye, and internal bleeding. Guys who get angry that easy are bad news, take it from some one who made that mistake, just move on.
2006-11-04 11:36:01 · answer #2 · answered by Lady Leo 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of all-he says he's 20 you cannot confirm that. Second of all- you should NEVER meet someone on line alone-think about it, this guy you never seen before wants you to come to his house alone!!! You are literally walking into a trap, and besides that not many ppl get angry when you say you feel uncomfortable-that's a hint. He probably is mad that you are ruining his plans-which could range from a regular date to murder-I suggest when you meet him-do it in board day light where's there a lot of people.
2006-11-04 11:49:54 · answer #3 · answered by Annie 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You haven't even met him face to face and he's inviting you to his house? I can't blame you for being suspicious. I would be too...
I would personally let it go.... If you haven't started dating and you've never met, there's not much to lose, so just let it go and try and find someone to be with in person.
2006-11-04 11:16:04 · answer #4 · answered by StarlightRedemption 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Lucky you haven't invested much.
Are you sure this guy is who he says he is and isn't a predator?
2006-11-04 11:14:08 · answer #5 · answered by WJ 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he can't carry on a conversation, he isn't right for you. Obviously, he's got issues.
2006-11-04 11:19:11 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you did the wrong thing.But he need time to think it over. So give him and yourself some time to think it over.
2006-11-04 11:21:28 · answer #7 · answered by girlicious♥ 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋