Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

I have "friends",but they are not the kind of friends anyone would like.Even among them they are hipocrit.They always whisper and say secrets among them and never share them with me.When we are together at partys or reunions they leave me alone and they just walk away .I mean why do they call themselves friends if they dont act like freinds.I am such a nice friend to them.I alway listen to them when they have problems and I give them advice.Sometimes they decide to go out and they dont even invite me or give me a call. When we are tothether they talk to each other and they just leave me out of the picture.I just cant stand it. I dont know what to do about them.Help please.

2006-11-04 14:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

There's a girl at school who I've seen around for a LONG time. But all of sudden she started smiling at me and making it obvious she had a little crush on me. So, one day I smiled back, and waved at her. But she pretended to see me even though she looked my direction. I wondered why, and I saw a guy next to her who could pass for her brother. Now, she looks away from me each time I walk by her in school. Why such a change?

2006-11-04 14:54:44 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Engagement Ring=Down payment for the sex

Date=An interview to see if the man can afford the sex

Good Job= Proof that he can pay for the sex

Investment sex= When a woman have sex with a broke man who has the potential of making lots of money in the future. She's planning on making him pay for every single _uck in the future

sex with no money involved= women who have sex for men in exchange for body guard work

House wife=A prostitute/housewife with only one client

Free sex= if a man helps a woman out financially but doesn't have sex with her. The sex has been paid for and some other man will get what another man paid for

NOTE: THESE CONDITIONS MAY NOT APPLY FOR UGLY FAT WOMEN OR WOMEN THAT HAVE KIDS THAT HAVE GROWN UP TO BE ADULTS

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2006-11-04 14:54:28 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I'm in 8th grade and my bff and her bf and I were at the movies and they were making out and she started crying... because he was pushing her to make out and she was nervous and he wouldn't stop touching her and I am worried! Please help! Also is it wrong that her bf invited his bff for me to make out with and we had never met because we are all in 8th grade but got to different schools?

2006-11-04 14:53:55 · 11 answers · asked by Darth_Spaz353202 1 in Singles & Dating

What do I do on my first time? What about the sounds I make? What if I do something embarassing like laugh or...fart or something??? And should I shave???

2006-11-04 14:53:34 · 16 answers · asked by McKenzie 1 in Other - Family & Relationships

hey yall thanx allot but i need more advice my best friend is such a pere pressure peep she only like things when her friends do. Like one time we were listinin to my Fave music she said she hated it! but the next day, she was all OMG its my fave song too!! shes my only true friend but i hate it when she does it i really need advice if u can halp HELP!!!!!
thanx and god bless
XOXO alex:)

2006-11-04 14:52:59 · 12 answers · asked by Alexandra 1 in Singles & Dating

just with anybody in random

2006-11-04 14:52:50 · 9 answers · asked by Evan M 1 in Singles & Dating

Ok so I met this awesome girl and after a few weeks we started dating. It was great for about 3 weeks but then she started to change. She started to seem a little less excited when I was around, but I figured she was just losing the hots for me and that she was just settling into the relationship. I however was crazy about her. Whenever I was hangin out with my guy friends if she was around she was the one that got all of my attention. Now remember she'd gotten over the crazy about me part, so me always wanting to be around her wore on her and after enduring it for a few days she broke up with me, saying i was "clingy" and other things. The thing is, that I was losing the hotts for her just as she had done for me (i was beginning to settle into the relationship just as she had) but it was too late and she had stopped liking me. The fact that I was starting to stop being the way I was makes know feel that we should still be together.

2006-11-04 14:52:43 · 6 answers · asked by Brian W 1 in Singles & Dating

OMG my best friend kristianne was just at my house and we were talking and she asked me if i liked her i thought she ment it in a friends way but i guess not cuz i said yes an she kissed me on my lips OMG im so not gay i didnt think she way gay either cuz we both have boyfriends but i feel so descussted(spelling?)right now i looked at her weird an and she walked outside and i guess called her mom and went home but ewww it was so gross i dont like her in that kinda way i dont even wanna talk to her now cuz eww i think shes bi an eww she stayed the night at my house and i was wearing lil boxers thats totally gross i still want to be best friends with her bt i kinda dont even wanna talk to her now
what should i do??

2006-11-04 14:52:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Friends

My sister wants her belly button pierced like mine and she is 15. I think that it would be ok but my parents are having a fit over it and telling her no. They will not sign for her to get it done. Should I try to help my sister her way or just go with it and talk her out of it. I still may be able to convience my parents.

2006-11-04 14:49:13 · 15 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

How do I get my daughter to break the cycle of abusive boyfriends?
Since she was a teen she's chosen much older men who are junkies (ex?). She swears she's not a drug user but just likes a guy who's a little "rough around the edges" They get worse with each passing loser. They abuse drugs, drink, beat her, cheat on her and yet she stays. When the abuse gets so bad that her life is truly threatened, she'll call me and beg me to help her. I always do (sometimes putting my own life in danger). But then she either goes back to the scumbag or on to someone worse.
Her father was abusive to me & we divorced when she was 9. I tried to show her that women can be strong and don't have to put up w/abuse. SHe's ADHD and borderline manic depressive & not taking her meds. I've tried everything I can think of letting her come home (w/counseling), offering to pay for college, etc. Now I'm thinking tough love, no contact until she's done being a punching bag, but I'm afraid she'll end up dead

2006-11-04 14:48:22 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

Okay the guy I like has a girlfriend waaay prettier than me. BUT he said he would break up with her...and he told my friend that if it werent for her he'd go out with me!! Was my friend lying?? Also he said right in front of me "Yah, totally" when my friend asked if he liked me back. Does it just mean he likes me as a friend?? Or am I being super-negitive?

2006-11-04 14:47:49 · 11 answers · asked by Cloudyheartgurl 3 in Singles & Dating

wat do i do there is this guy that i really hate he is mean to me at times he acts like he is smarter than me and always competes with me at things and he has to know wat grade u got on your tests and he thinks he is fifty times btter than me plus he is sorta popular wat do i do to act better than him and tell him that do not care what do i do!!!!!!!!!!

2006-11-04 14:47:29 · 16 answers · asked by Ambie 1 in Friends

This is just one example. Two different times she asked me what I wanted for Christmas.The 1st time I said a welding machine to which she replied I could use my step dads.The second time I told her a guitar and she said "Youre not getting a damn guitar" I guess she don't know I can take my own money and buy it any time I wanted to.

2006-11-04 14:45:05 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Hi

I have only stronge feeling and True loylety
is that enough for make good realationship

I am not handsome
I dont how to dance
I have no money
I dont know to makes jokes

I only have one Heart

is it enough to make love

2006-11-04 14:44:54 · 10 answers · asked by james Smith 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 14:44:21 · 2 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

ok so lik im walkin down the highway and i see someone wearing a fish costume. so i go up to him and i buy an mp3 player so my phone will have a kitchen. the pepperoni peple go up to me and ask for a hamburgur but i tell them no because my octopuse has to go to the bathroom. so overall what should i name my calender??

2006-11-04 14:43:39 · 21 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Im 15. My boyfriend is 16. He is lookin 4 an appartment. His parents r willing to sign 4 it. His best friend is movin in w/ him....he is 15 too. They want me to move in as well. I've explained to him, im to young, i dont have enough money, is friend isnt planning on payin for anythng, my bf dont have enough money, * we're movin to fast. He doesnt think we're moving to fast b/c he thinks we're gonna get married, he say zhe ca support me & his bff, he thinks im ready & shood b/c i dont get along w/ my parents. wat do I do?

2006-11-04 14:43:17 · 14 answers · asked by itsallgravy_360 1 in Singles & Dating

Please Help me!?!?!?
okay well i used to like this guy big time.,.... but now peolpe are trying to set me up with him and i think he likes me back ... but i completely find him unattractive now! i really really dont like him at all. he is a year older than me .... and since he may ask me out im gonna have to turn down a person almost 2 years older! i dont think i can do that to a person becuase it would be so embarrassing. what should i do?

2006-11-04 14:42:40 · 21 answers · asked by hollister_babiii 1 in Singles & Dating

It's just been over 2 years of marriage now and I feel like I made a terrible mistake. We had dated, broken up, dated, broken up, then dated again for a few years. There were never fireworks, never a connecting of souls, just time spent together and pressure from her and our families to tie the knot. I loved her as a friend, but I was never IN love with her. Our wedding day felt like some kind of play I was acting in. I always hoped that over the years she would evolve into the person I would be proud to call my wife, but it never happened. I totally accept and appreciate her as a friend, but we're nowhere close on a spiritual, intellectual, or social level and nothing I've tried has changed that a bit. I have been in love before, but the other person didn't feel the exact same for me. I'm just sorry that I'm on the other side of the fence this time and that I went ahead with a marriage I really didn't want. What do I do?

2006-11-04 14:40:50 · 16 answers · asked by Rustoleum_James 2 in Marriage & Divorce

My brother was riding his bus and sitting next to this kid who he was joking around with. My little brother who is just 5ft and 58lbs, playfully punched this 8th grader in the arm. The 8th grader then proceded to stand up and kick my brother to the floor where he recieved: a large bump on his head from hitting the floor, several cuts on his face where he was kicked, and a broken wrist. I want to hurt this kid, but I dont want to go to jail. I would press charges but because it happened on the bus, its in the school district's authority. Unfortunatly I live in an area with a Zero Tolerance policy, thus because my brother jokingly hit this kid in the shoulder who he was playing around with he would be subject to the same punishment as this sadist who would hurt someone two years his junior so badly. I want to know, should I take the punishment of the law and teach this kid a lesson, should I go to court, or should I just let the whole issue drop. Keep in mind that I am 16 and a minor.

2006-11-04 14:40:41 · 27 answers · asked by Andrew 2 in Family

When I drink with a guy, no matter the relationship, I always wind up getting trashed and taking off my clothes as soon as we get in private. This is not only embarrassing, but dangerous since I usually wind up having sex with them and I almost never realize it until we have been at it for awhile. I can't consider it rape, since, drunk as I am, I usually want it and insist on it. The fact is, I have had 6 partners this past year (10 total), all of them either casual, or just guy friends of mine who I happened to be drunk with. Don't know if I should be concerned with this, or okay with it...

2006-11-04 14:39:54 · 23 answers · asked by nycgirl2003 2 in Singles & Dating

I have lots of friends but they call me slow, and tell me to shut up all the time and one of them like to push me down on to the floor everyday and i have all the classes with them so they are the only people i can hang out with but i cant take this anymore it makes me sad and mad. I quit going to lunch and hang out in the library so nobody would mess with me and when i decided to not go to home coming game or the dance nobody ask me y or try to make me go but i see my best friend telling other girls that they better go. I think my friends are starting to hate me because all the guys they have a crush on likes me and they get mad about it even if i don't like the guys they have a crush on. I come home and cry sometime and i cant talk to my mom about it cuz she died of breast cancer and my dad is all the way across in a different country cuz my mom and dad got divorce when i was little. I just don't think i can keep living like this much longer......

2006-11-04 14:39:35 · 13 answers · asked by SAI 1 in Friends

i see there are a lot of this kind of question... still looking for that definitive answer

2006-11-04 14:39:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I actually dated my wife 10 yrs ago and while she is more open and more communicative in the bedroom than before, she doens't have much of an imagination. Before I met my wife, I was very much into BDSM and role-playing. While the vanilla sex is very good, sometimes I'd like to spice it up a bit. Espeically if she'd take control. Are there any sites I could direct her to in the internet?

2006-11-04 14:38:36 · 17 answers · asked by bills47374 2 in Marriage & Divorce

fighting with eachother and neverending insults? Ok since offense is easily taken, how about...what do you think about that way of love expression amongst families?

2006-11-04 14:38:13 · 8 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

is it important for a guy to give a girl
her first kiss???

2006-11-04 14:38:09 · 12 answers · asked by *Unknown* 3 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 14:37:51 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-04 14:36:13 · 24 answers · asked by Simply Me 5 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 14:35:55 · 10 answers · asked by Sean M 1 in Singles & Dating