OMG my best friend kristianne was just at my house and we were talking and she asked me if i liked her i thought she ment it in a friends way but i guess not cuz i said yes an she kissed me on my lips OMG im so not gay i didnt think she way gay either cuz we both have boyfriends but i feel so descussted(spelling?)right now i looked at her weird an and she walked outside and i guess called her mom and went home but ewww it was so gross i dont like her in that kinda way i dont even wanna talk to her now cuz eww i think shes bi an eww she stayed the night at my house and i was wearing lil boxers thats totally gross i still want to be best friends with her bt i kinda dont even wanna talk to her now
what should i do??
2006-11-04 14:52:40 · 17 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Okay, a lot of girls experience a stage where they start wanting to experiment. That doesn't mean that she is gay and it doesn't mean you will have lost your friendship. Take a little while for yourself and then let her know that you don't swing that way. Try to reconnect as friends. It may not work but it might and if your friend does turn out to be a full on full homosexual, doesn't mean you still can't be friends. I have friends that are gay and it is understood that he is and I have a wife. Just talk it out and try to make the friendship work.
2006-11-04 15:00:13 · answer #1 · answered by Blue Abyss 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You need to talk to her right away. Let her know how you feel and find out what the kiss meant to her. She might just be a little curious or she may be bi but you can never know until you ask. If she is truly your best friend you owe it to yourself and her to try and save the friendship. Just remeber, just because she might be bi doesn't nessisarily cause her to be any diffrent then she was last week.
2006-11-04 22:59:18 · answer #2 · answered by Ronnie 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't avoid the subject. Contact her ASAP. Simply ask her what she meant by the kiss. Gently tell her that while you like her as a friend, a homosexual kind of relationship is not for you.
Could it have been a joke?
And haudexole - it isn't homophobic to not want to engage in a homosexual relationship. It simply means one is heterosexual.
Now, if she hated all people that were gay or thought they were less than human - that is homophobic
2006-11-04 22:55:20 · answer #3 · answered by chris 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
First of all - relax. Ok, now you need to decide how you want to deal with this situation. Do you want this kept private or tell everyone you know? I think you should just let her know that you are not interested in her that way but you will still be friends. You respect her choice but its not for you. Let it go.
2006-11-04 22:56:32 · answer #4 · answered by Zena 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her u r not that way and would still like to be friends if that is possible. If she is a real friend she will understand where u r coming from
2006-11-04 22:55:57 · answer #5 · answered by RONDA B 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have no reason not to still be her friend. Just tell her that your not bi and that the 2 of you can remain friends as long as she knows your boundries.
2006-11-05 00:09:52 · answer #6 · answered by christal l 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you guys were apparently BEST FRIENDS before all of this happened, so this is just a little road bump. if you liked who she was before all of this happened, this shouldn't have any affect on your friendship. yes..i know. i'd be mortified too. but just ask her if she's bi. yes. i know. obvious question. but when she says yes..tell her that you're not, but you still want to be friends. it'll be akward. but call her now. =O) goodluck.
2006-11-04 22:58:24 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
first of alll she shouldnt have just kissed you like that no one should but if you want to be her friend then you should tell her that she is not to try that with you again but that you will still be her friend even if she is bi or even les... if your friends you should love her with all her flaws... and stand by her choices
2006-11-04 22:57:00 · answer #8 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to talk to her you guys are best friends...just let her know not to worry about waht happened that night, but that you want to continue to be friends. ... if she says ok then you know you can stay friends but if she acts like that is not how she wants it then stay away...
2006-11-04 23:16:14 · answer #9 · answered by divine1xoxo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
wow, well that's gross! if i were you i would call her and discuss the entire thing. then tell her you would just rather be friends. if she's okay with that then great, if not well find a new bff.
2006-11-04 23:44:50 · answer #10 · answered by Krista S 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋