hey yall thanx allot but i need more advice my best friend is such a pere pressure peep she only like things when her friends do. Like one time we were listinin to my Fave music she said she hated it! but the next day, she was all OMG its my fave song too!! shes my only true friend but i hate it when she does it i really need advice if u can halp HELP!!!!!
thanx and god bless
XOXO alex:)
2006-11-04 14:52:59 · 12 answers · asked by Alexandra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
How could you call this a true friend when she's a blatent hypocrite??? She likes this song because her sorority sister do, yet before she couldn't stand it?
I've got to worry about you, in a sense... She may like you now, but how long before she dislikes you because of those so-called friends of hers? Just like the song... How many other instances has this type of attitude happen. If this friend of yours really has any brains whatsoever, she shouldn't be associating with these other twits, because the fact that she's being a social follower with them, but a leader with you, she going to hurt you and, not only that, she'll be hurting herself... Others will dislike her because of her friends and, soon enough, her "friends" may turn away too... Who knows... But, for the time being, YOU've got to look out for number one, that is if she tends to show two faces as she has already.
2006-11-04 15:01:56 · answer #1 · answered by Middlehitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds like she is playing two different roles. You need to ask her what is more important impressing other people or being your best friend. If she don't get the answer right then you need to get a new BFF
2006-11-04 22:57:45 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your friend is a follower. That doesn't make her bad, dumb, or weird....it's just that she wants so much to fit in that she'll change her life style to do so. If she starts wearing the same clothes as you and putting her hair the same way...trying to imitate you...then RUN!! Really tho, I think it's a matter of her wanting to fit in soooo much. She is kinda using you for a security blanket. just don't let her smother you.
2006-11-04 23:00:31 · answer #3 · answered by unclewill67 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your friend about this. You will be really surprised what a little bit of conversation between friends can accomplish. Good Luck too.
2006-11-04 22:57:19 · answer #4 · answered by angels 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It would be best to talk to her and tell her you like her for who she is. If she denies it then you might have to call her out on specifics. She probably has some acceptance problems.
2006-11-04 22:56:32 · answer #5 · answered by Kaity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just keep casually mentioning that it doesn't matter what people like or dislike, it makes no difference with friends. She should slowly realize that she can like what she wants.
2006-11-04 22:56:36 · answer #6 · answered by Sentinel 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't sound like a very good friend. What if her peers told her to quit being your friend?
2006-11-04 23:00:26 · answer #7 · answered by BluLizard 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her she needs to have her own opinion and quit following others in their opinion
2006-11-04 22:55:33 · answer #8 · answered by alaskasnogurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Then be a real friend and tell her how you feel and ask her to stop.Don't ignore it any longer.
2006-11-04 22:56:23 · answer #9 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get some new friends..you don't need a friend who uses your likes to her advantage and doesn't even give you credit for it.
2006-11-04 22:54:37 · answer #10 · answered by Christina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋