i see there are a lot of this kind of question... still looking for that definitive answer
2006-11-04 14:39:15 · 16 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I have one word for you man. ....confidence. Bad boys are free and easy, always seem to be having fun. And girls like to have fun. Nice guys (and upstanding, hardworking, dependable) get to bed early, work hard, and pay their bills. Bad boys are up all night, drink beer, cuss, and burp, and they wear leather, drive Harleys, and are very aggresive with the female of the species. Incidentally, women like their bravado, are fascinated by their macho mannerisms, and sucuumb to their fun-loving moods. And the men know it. They have confidence in themselves as they slam their brew and take their turn at the billiard table at 3 AM knowing that every woman wants someone like them. But the nice guy, she only feels inwardly that he's a wimp and would not last in a fight with the bad boy, is not going to want to have fun because they're in bed already, and in an argument would be whimpering little sycophants in their presence. Women probably laugh at them.
2006-11-04 14:47:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
this is a simple question that takes years to learn for yourself. Girls like to talk about how they can't find a "nice guy" but they are all over the place. Keep in mind that the female brain works NOTHING like yours. They need to have a project so they are always looking for someone that is a little mysterious, dangerous, or scary. They like the challenge of truning a bad boy into a good boy. They don't want a ready made nice guy. No challenge and no passion.
2006-11-04 14:43:13 · answer #2 · answered by m-t-nest 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally nice guys finish first with me. I want a gentleman who is going to treat me with respect and love (which I will return of course) not some jerk who causes a lot of drama and heartache. It's funny that you ask this because I am here wondering where all these nice guys are since the all seem to be married or in a relationship already.
2006-11-04 15:28:08 · answer #3 · answered by jenny s 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Nice guys finish last with cheap women.
Quality babes go after nice guys and since they find them fulfilling they aren't constantly trolling for new boyfriends.
If you are feeling frustrated you may be looking for the wrong kind of woman yourself.
2006-11-04 14:51:19 · answer #4 · answered by Andrew 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well coming from a girl i would have to say that us woman wont eye candy to were on our arms but we don't see how they could treat us. So we stay there because they have the looks. But to me a guy is a guy. If youare looking for the right person then you need to look at what is in the indide. So the good guys end up last b/c we don't see what they have in the inside
2006-11-04 14:44:12 · answer #5 · answered by sexy23 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-09-01 07:21:03 · answer #6 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Women like 'bad boys' because they are willing to accept the fruits of a bad boy's labor...do you think that a 'good' woman has any trouble accepting gifts from a man who is a thug?
Women have no problems with nice guys as long as they have status and money.
When it comes to 'average' guys, a bad boy is more like to break the rules to get resources for a woman.....
Don't worry though...he is also more likely to break her heart, abuse her, impregnate and leave her, etc.
So there is such a thing as 'karma' in a sick sort of way.
2006-11-04 14:43:58 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Not always. Some deeper women do look for a really nice, sensitive guy in their lives. Just look for it, and don't go for a shallow bleach - blonde.
2006-11-04 14:52:14 · answer #8 · answered by M&M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We don't finish last. It's just that the jerks get more attention. We actually win in the long run.
2006-11-04 14:47:39 · answer #9 · answered by ? 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Because every girls wants a guy who is considerate and compassionat but not a complete pushover!!!
It's okay to have your own opinion ..likes and dislikes!!! often the nice guy seems to do too much to please the other person.......strength, integrity and compassion that's a winning combination right there!!!!
2006-11-04 14:47:41 · answer #10 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋