I have "friends",but they are not the kind of friends anyone would like.Even among them they are hipocrit.They always whisper and say secrets among them and never share them with me.When we are together at partys or reunions they leave me alone and they just walk away .I mean why do they call themselves friends if they dont act like freinds.I am such a nice friend to them.I alway listen to them when they have problems and I give them advice.Sometimes they decide to go out and they dont even invite me or give me a call. When we are tothether they talk to each other and they just leave me out of the picture.I just cant stand it. I dont know what to do about them.Help please.
2006-11-04 14:55:26 · 7 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Why not talk to them or confront them about your feelings.
2006-11-04 15:01:43 · answer #1 · answered by ? 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what,I have the same problem so I'm basically answering my problem too.You stated in your question, "Why do they call themselves friends?".Well they aren't friends.Just walk away from them.Apparently,they do not accept people the way they should.Don't be a follower if they are going to leave you out.Its easy to make friends and its easy to keep friendships strong.I don't understand why you go along with them.Theres always at least one person willing to be a true friend to you and loyal 24 hours of the day.Don't go with the people who seem 'cool' but are very obnoxious it only decreases their popularity.Its going to be hard but you'll be surprised at your results.
2006-11-04 23:01:54 · answer #2 · answered by peacejump 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should find new friends. It sounds like the current friends you have aren't really friends at all. If they're continually leaving you out, they don't sound very interested in your company and it's not very fair to keep you hanging like that.
It might sound difficult, but find a new group of friends that wants to spend time with you and includes you in their conversations, jokes, outings, etc. You'll feel so much better once you find friends that appreciate you and return your friendship.
2006-11-04 23:04:17 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well first off..
this happens to like everyone at least once.
by what your saying you are doing everything
you should to and need to. keep being there
friend you know just dont go out of your wayy or
nothing. sooner or later theyll realize who the better
friend is. basically its a stage all friends go threw.
have you tried letting these friends know how you
feel? maybe you should cuz maybe they just dont
realize it................................................................
i know its hard to not let it get to you but you just
gotta ignore it. dont let it ruin your dayy. keep teating
them how you would want to be treated. maybe theyll
realize maybe they wont. but i say get out there and find
some other people to hang out with all the time that will
treat you like you want. but still lthings wont aways go your
wayy but if i were you id deff try to han gout with some diff.
people.
Well good luck! = ]
2006-11-04 23:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by pickelsnmustard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
that's not being a hypocrite darling.
that's just being snubby, and girls get that way sometimes when they want to impress someone, or when they try to suck up to someone. which probably isn't even your situation, but just act like it doesn't bother you. just smile, and quickly turn the other way. they'll either chase after you, or dump you. and if the second one comes true, dump them. =O)
2006-11-04 23:01:35 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe they don't want to be your friend. It kind of sounds like that is the case. Why would you want to be friends with people who don't want to be friends with you?
2006-11-04 22:57:31 · answer #6 · answered by Kaity 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
thewy are not true friends
2006-11-04 22:57:30 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋