I have lots of friends but they call me slow, and tell me to shut up all the time and one of them like to push me down on to the floor everyday and i have all the classes with them so they are the only people i can hang out with but i cant take this anymore it makes me sad and mad. I quit going to lunch and hang out in the library so nobody would mess with me and when i decided to not go to home coming game or the dance nobody ask me y or try to make me go but i see my best friend telling other girls that they better go. I think my friends are starting to hate me because all the guys they have a crush on likes me and they get mad about it even if i don't like the guys they have a crush on. I come home and cry sometime and i cant talk to my mom about it cuz she died of breast cancer and my dad is all the way across in a different country cuz my mom and dad got divorce when i was little. I just don't think i can keep living like this much longer......
2006-11-04 14:39:35 · 13 answers · asked by SAI 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Friends
Those are NOT your friends. Who do you live with? Why not join some clubs and sports in school so you can get to know some other people than these jerks you hang around?
2006-11-04 14:42:48 · answer #1 · answered by DumBlonD 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Oh! That is terrible! First thing is first: stop hanging around with your so called "friends" If they don't act as your buddies they aren't your buddies. I feel so horrible for you. Your mom, friends, and dad! They should all be there for you! And I do not mean that they are bad (well your friends maybe...) but i mean you deserve better. Drop your friends and find new ones. Do not become enemies with the ones you aren't going to hang out with anymore. That will just cause drama and fighting. Just stop hanging out with them. Find ones that seem lonely and need a friend too. There is always that one girl or boy in your class that always seems so quiet and then when you invite them to get pizza or something, you realize that they are really nice and outgoing.
2006-11-04 22:49:03 · answer #2 · answered by nicce 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all , they aren't very good friends. i would find other friend s to hang with. Friends don't treat friends like that. I really feel bad for you. Sorry about your mom. Maybe they could be jealous, so thats the only way they know how to treat you. If you really need to talk to someone try to get some counseling. You seem like a nice person, but please don't be someones doormat,at the price of just wanting to be friends, with these girls who don't deserve your friendship. Remember there are more people out there that could be your friends.
2006-11-04 23:07:29 · answer #3 · answered by smplylori32 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all calm down a bit.The click your in, seems to fofill some wants that you need, or that bunch you hang with, ought to have been sent by by a long time ago. If the guys like you better than the others, your the winner. If your being bullied, so the others doing it , feel better about them selves, you need new friends, if you still want to call them friends.
As for the violence directed towards to you, don't cower, turn em in.
2006-11-04 23:02:58 · answer #4 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to ur school counsler they can be very helpful. These girls really don't sound like friends to me. Don't worry about these girls because once u graduate u will probably will never see them again. Don't live ur life centered around them. Ignore them and when they ask why u don't wanna hang anymore tell them how u feel. If they are ur true friends they will feel guilty and change their act towards u. But please try talking to counsler or some adult u feel comfortable with.
2006-11-04 22:47:07 · answer #5 · answered by Alternative Chick 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If your "friends" push you around and things like that, they're not really your friends. Find different people to hang out with. Does your school have any clubs or after-school activities that interest you? Talk to a teacher or school counsellor about your problems, it'll help a lot.
2006-11-04 22:43:36 · answer #6 · answered by Blue Jean 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
girls are just jealous freaks like that.
believe me..i've been one of them =O)
i mean...when my best friend kept BRAGGING about how guys want her phone # or how guys ask her out, it gets on my nerves. and i sometimes over-react and just turn into a total snot, but that's just what girls do. maybe your friends are getting a little over the top too. but they'll let it go. maybe if you boost THEIR confidence every once in a while. like..."your hair looks good this morning. that guys totally checked you out". whatever makes them feel good.
but enough about them. now for you. don't be so hard on yourself. are they just kidding? and maybe you're just having a hard time with life and just consider EVERYTHING a punch in the stomach. look on the bright side of things. and maybe dump thes girls, if they don't treat you right. and get friendlier with the guys you know. they're easier to handle anyway. GOOD LUCKâ¥
2006-11-04 22:46:22 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try talking to a teacher or the school counselor about how you are feeling. If people are pushing you down, you need to report that. Don't let these people continue to treat you this way.
2006-11-04 22:43:12 · answer #8 · answered by ♥dream_angel♥ 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all they are not your friends if they continue to mistreat you. Secondly, it sounds like you are alot prettier then your friends are if the boys want to be with you instead of them. Last, you need to cut them off and find some real friends. Everything is going to be fine just keep your head up....
2006-11-04 22:45:49 · answer #9 · answered by Sasha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you know what,,if the are so called friends then why are they treating you like that..no friend should ever do that to another friends,,or assume you like someone..you should stop hanging around them and start making ome new friends that are real,,and that arent two faced,,,,,dont let anyone push you around or bother you or call you names,,they got no right!!!
good luck,i hope everything works out for you,,
2006-11-04 22:44:59 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋