My husband and I have been together for 13 years. I am 39, he is 48. He has a 19 year old daughter from his previous marriage.
We do not have any children together but I helped raise his daughter and love her.
Despite us not having any kids, I still love him. These past 13 years have been very passionate and nothing seemed wrong. I was still very much in love until I caught him having sex with an 18 year old girl.
Even though It's painful, I can get over the fact that he cheated, i know all men are animals and maybe he deserves a second chance, but what I can't get over is how young she is. She is younger than his daughter! That is really disgusting. A 48 year old man should not be with someone so young. It's just wrong. In my eyes, he is now a pedophile. I know that 18 is "legal", but just because the law says it's ok doesn't mean it's right! I mean, what if the law were that 15 is the age of consent, if he's willing to go as low as 18, it makes me think he'd go even lower.
Help!
2006-11-04
15:10:26
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azirah b
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