I havent dated before and I'm 14!!!! I haven't been kissed ether!! wtf?? Am I normal.........?
2006-11-04 15:07:13 · 31 answers · asked by Cloudyheartgurl 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Yes, you shouldn't be dating yet. At least not alone, stick to group dates and outings. You have plenty of time to do what you're thinking.
I also know for a fact that by keeping yourself away from that stuff now, you'll be able to find someone you really like. Besides, you don't want to be one of those girls that constantly complains that they make out with guys that turn out to be losers!
2006-11-04 15:11:07 · answer #1 · answered by bardstale 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Hi sweetie,
You are way to young to think of stuff like that! Seriously, don't get caught up in the whole dating thing so young. You have your life to live and believe me so many mistakes can happen from just one kiss. What I mean is things can lead up to other things in which you will not be able to turn back or change. Once you are taken thats it. Remember you have a whole life to live and one mistake can ruin your future. I know I may be going over board but hey, I rather say more than I need to then see another young girl end up having a baby to young losing her sacred virginity and ruining her life. Believe me if you save yourself for the right person and when you are much older when that time does come it will be so very special and meaningful.
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2006-11-04 23:14:54 · answer #2 · answered by NikaLynn 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, you are normal. I think that kissing and dating should be saved 'til you are about 15 or 16. If you were 29 and haven't dated or kissed any guys, I would be concerned.
2006-11-04 23:09:34 · answer #3 · answered by Meme 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be in a hurry. What is "normal" anyway? Do what is right for you! There is no rush for any of that stuff. You are fine, keep your head on straight, work hard at school, and when the time is right, dating, kissing etc. will happen. No worries mate!
2006-11-04 23:10:49 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Totally normal. 14 yr olds should not be kissing or dating. Just because others do doesn't make it right.
Go out in groups. Kids your age should not be alone together.
2006-11-04 23:11:00 · answer #5 · answered by Dianne 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, that's normal. I know many girls who didn't get their actual first real kiss until they were older such as when they were in high school or even in college. Same is true of dating. Don't worry about it. When it's meant to happen, it will happen. Don't try to rush things; take them as they come and take it slow. Too many teens want to grow up too fast. You will need to start making some smart decisions from your head and not your heart when it comes to guys and dating.
2006-11-04 23:19:10 · answer #6 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes. Of course your normal. Dating can be a hard and intimidating subject. Just cause you haven't dated (may i remind you your only 14) doesn't make you weird. Dating can be stressful and you don't need that kind of crap at your age.
2006-11-04 23:11:57 · answer #7 · answered by mrs_fruity_tooty 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's okay not to be on a date or even kissed a guy before. Your time will come, just chill out and enjoy your single time.
2006-11-04 23:09:41 · answer #8 · answered by M&M 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are normal! I am 14 and never had a Boyfriend or been kissed! Truthfully, I do not want to be kissed, YET, anyways!
2006-11-04 23:09:31 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I didn't date one on one until I was 16. My first real kiss was when I was 15.
2006-11-04 23:23:22 · answer #10 · answered by Poppet 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋