when a guy comes over and you two are getting intimate and he pulls out a condom, what does that mean.
i know he wants to have sex obviously but does it mean he knew he was going to come over and have sex with me so thats y he had a condom ready? does he think im easy or something?
2006-11-04 14:59:10 · 13 answers · asked by onedivinekiss 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
It is a thing that most young guys do because they are in hope of having sex. Not that they expect you to be the one, but if not you, he will try with someone else until he finds the girl who will. The best thing to do if he comes prepared, is to put the brakes on and send him packing. He usually tells all his friends and before you know it you have a reputation following you around. Find a guy who respects you, and doesn't carry condoms, because he is willing to wait until he marries you. If a guy is willing to wait, he is worth having.If he isn't willing to wait, you are only going to be a notch on his belt.
2006-11-04 15:04:53 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
No it doesn't mean your easy. He just wants to be prepared just in case. He didn't mean it in bad way. What if you two were getting intimate and you asked him if he had a condom. And what if he said, Baby we dont need a condom. All I could say is that at least hes prepared. Do you want to get pregnant? Just dont get to defensive about it.
2006-11-04 23:04:08 · answer #2 · answered by Anthony 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
is this guy your bf? it doesn't really mean he thinks youre easy...most guys just want sex...and most guys that i know carry a condom in the wallet/pockets just incase.so it might mean he planned on having sex with you before he came over or he just knew if you guys were fooling around he better bring a condom just incase something might happen...either way the choice is yours if you want to have sex or not..so dont let him rush you ;)
2006-11-04 23:05:12 · answer #3 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Coming over and talking with you is friendly.
Having a condom at the ready is premeditation for a sexual act.
He thinks of you for sex and not for a friend.
He had sex on his mind before he got to your house.
2006-11-04 23:07:11 · answer #4 · answered by Mark 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, it just means he knows that sex was a possibility, and he wanted to be prepared.....don't worry, most of us always have condoms with us.
2006-11-04 23:01:26 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It does mean he thought that the two of you might become intimate. However, it doesn't mean he thinks your easy. Maybe you could talk to him about it?
2006-11-04 23:01:37 · answer #6 · answered by Kaity 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No,it means he though enough and cares about you to bring some protection,and I'M sure he was hoping it would come to this,but no he was not thinking your easy.
2006-11-04 23:04:01 · answer #7 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yep.... why would he have it all ready to go? He obviously had a condom just in case you were going to have sex with him... I hope you didnt
2006-11-04 23:01:37 · answer #8 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I wouldn't think that. Maybe he carries them at all times just to be prepared.It also may be that he was hoping you would say yes and wanted to be ready.
2006-11-04 23:03:20 · answer #9 · answered by Silva 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hes safe ,but he new he was gettin sum dat nite or maybe he jus carries it round everywhere he goes jus in case he gets lucky(he mite be desprate)
2006-11-04 23:04:09 · answer #10 · answered by Redd 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋