why or why not?
2006-11-04 15:01:36 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Other - Family & Relationships
im asking because i loved this guy who i thought loved me back. i loved him until i realized he didnt love me. i was just wondering if i could love him then but not now.
2006-11-04 15:12:53 · update #1
Yes but I wouldn't bother with it. :)
2006-11-04 15:03:58 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh yah you can, and it hurts like hell, when you find out the same feelings back towards you are not the same.
That what ever it is , that gets our attention, about another person, is Blind to the fact ,that the other person nay not want you
and if you think about becoming the clown, to try to win her over, save it. If she wasn't interested in the beginning, she won't be now.
As much as it hurts, you gotta try and move on
2006-11-04 23:10:40 · answer #2 · answered by duster 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes you can.. We tend to give unconditional love, the good the bad and the ugly.. However we decide to walk away the other person remembers they have a heart an they do care. It hurts, its painful, I really hope you can shake this dead beat of a man off of your heart and start over.
2006-11-04 23:21:50 · answer #3 · answered by M M 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
yes you can. my girlfreind of 2 years absolutely treated me poorly. she treated onmy 5-7 times. No mater what i still loved her. i always prayed and hoped she would change and stay changed for good. Well we finally broke up. I find out she never did love me like she said b/c once we broke up she's a had 3-4 boy friends within a month. i did love her dispite that she didn't me.
2006-11-04 23:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by Daniel o 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yes, you can love someone without them loving you back. I guess because that is the way feelings work, but like my girl up there said it sucks.
2006-11-04 23:04:56 · answer #5 · answered by rayedos69 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There are many kinds of love. Maybe this one will turn out to be the love that says, I will always be there for you. The one who is meant for you is still looking for you. Don't put your heart away just yet.
2006-11-04 23:14:56 · answer #6 · answered by Julie W 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone who doesn't love you back. Of you have feelings for someone, but they don't have feelings for you, it's fine. I have this guy who I've loved for years, but he doesn't want to be more than friends, but I still love him. Does that help?
2006-11-04 23:13:51 · answer #7 · answered by Becky W 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You can love someone who doesn't love you back, but it would never work because that person wouldn't feel the same way that you felt for them.
2006-11-04 23:04:08 · answer #8 · answered by alaskasnogurl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of Course. But you have to make sure you really LOVE the person. And plus if they dont LOVE you back its all about waiting, and if they dont come around, obviously they are not the one.
2006-11-04 23:05:53 · answer #9 · answered by I love Kevin Costner 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No that's never happened to me....maybe because in my opinion part of loving someone is being loved back.
2006-11-04 23:05:17 · answer #10 · answered by daljack -a girl 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
yess you can love whoever you want.
somtimes you cant control your feelings.
if the other person doesnt love you back
then theres nothing you can do. it wont
feel soo great but eventually youll move on.
and realize it wasnt ment to be.
2006-11-04 23:05:05 · answer #11 · answered by pickelsnmustard 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋