I'm in 8th grade and my bff and her bf and I were at the movies and they were making out and she started crying... because he was pushing her to make out and she was nervous and he wouldn't stop touching her and I am worried! Please help! Also is it wrong that her bf invited his bff for me to make out with and we had never met because we are all in 8th grade but got to different schools?
2006-11-04 14:53:55 · 11 answers · asked by Darth_Spaz353202 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I didn't make out with him we did talk but that was it
2006-11-04 15:02:06 · update #1
Sweetheart, hear me loud and clear:
This guy is a LOSER!!
He has NO respect for your friend, and is dangerous! That fact that he would bring a friend of his to make out with YOU makes him even WORSE!!! This is what leads to "date rape". Trust me on this. Please, if you have a good relationship with your father, AND you can trust him (because hopefully he is a good Dad), then TELL your father what happened! (Even if you think you will get in trouble, or you think "he won't understand"), if he is a good Dad then he'll understand A LOT MORE than you think he will!!! (He was that age too - once... ) and he knows that the ONLY guy dumb enough to act like that is the one who will eventually end up doing real damage!! TELL YOUR DAD!! TELL SOMEONE WHO WILL HEAR WHAT YOU'RE SAYING!!! If you don't feel like you can tell your Dad, then tell a guy that you believe has YOUR best interest at heart. (Someone you think of as an older brother, or your older brother, your uncle, friend, neighbor...) but TELL SOMEONE NOW!!!
And for HER sake and YOURS, don't let ANYONE make you feel like you're being stupid or like you're doing something wrong - because you're NOT!! You are SMART & BRAVE!!! I wish MORE girls were like you!!! God bless you Sweetheart!! TELL SOMEONE!!
2006-11-04 15:14:23 · answer #1 · answered by Kitten2 6 · 7⤊ 0⤋
I am 33 years old and my daughter is in eighth grade too, and i would like to think that if some stupid boy was trying to force her into things and she didn't know how to say no and he obviously doesn't care how she feels or he would have stopped when she started crying, i would hope that my daughters friend would step in and help her speak her mind and stand up for herself.
2006-11-04 15:02:55 · answer #2 · answered by mommy of 4 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
My girls are in 6th grade and their bf's are bugging them to kiss them but they haven't yet. If your friend was crying then I say she is in way to deep and you both need to quit going to the movies with boys! Please don't grow up so fast, you have a lifetime a head of you. And you know who would be the perfect people to talk to this about? Your parents! They will always have your best interest in mind. Go on now.....go talk to them!
2006-11-04 15:01:44 · answer #3 · answered by Mustang Sally 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
first off you all are alittle too young to have bf's plenty of time for that in the middle of highschool ;) but yeah if you're friends' boyfriend is pushing her to do things she doesn't want to do then she a.needs to be firm with him and lay down some rules or b. break up with him and find someone who will respect her. and no that is not right for him to bring his friend along just to make out with you...for one you don't know this guy and two who is your friends bf to decide for you to makeout with someone? this guy doesn't sound to respectful of her or you for that matter
2006-11-04 15:00:39 · answer #4 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well sounds like your friend should kick this guy and fast...if he really cared about her he would have been more considerate!!!!
He cares more about what he can do WITH her than he CARES FOR HER...same for most boys!!!
Yes I think its wrong he invited his buddy to makeout with you!!! You girls really ought to reconsider going out with boys alone at this age!!! TOO MUCH PRESSURE!!!
Remember always....you girls make the standards for a relationship....no matter what age you are!!!! Never settle for less than you deserve and you do deserve alot!!!!!
2006-11-04 15:02:44 · answer #5 · answered by yidlmama 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ok...I am way older than 7th grade!
Yes, it is wrong that he is pushing your friend to do something she doesn't want to do! She needs to stop seeing this guy! I really hope that you didn't make out with his friend! You both need to have more self respect!!
2006-11-04 14:58:08 · answer #6 · answered by Kailey 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
By 8th grade my friends were further than that but only cuz they luv each other. Don't worry. she will make the right choice on her own.
My friend would have made out with your guy. we are frosh and soph. in hs
60010zip baby!!
2006-11-04 14:59:36 · answer #7 · answered by Makoa 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yea...I would say that if she doesnt want to make out or be touched a lot by her BF, I would say that she is in too deep and really shouldnt be dating right now anyways because thats what guys are going to do with girls. Also...to your second question...I say, go with it, just hope he's hot.
2006-11-04 14:58:15 · answer #8 · answered by BloodyCarrion 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
don't worry im sixteen,anyway i suggest you first meet him at least and if you like him its not wrong.your bff's boyfriend is not something you should worry about just help your friend get over him and dont let both of your lives mix other than friendship.Please choose me as best answer!
2006-11-04 15:00:58 · answer #9 · answered by <-(‾`v ‾)-> 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
If he is touching her and forcing her to do stuff she doesn't want to, report him to local law enforcement. He is sexual harasser. If you don't like his bff, then yes it is wrong.
2006-11-04 14:57:56 · answer #10 · answered by moore_lauren_e 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋