Family & Relationships - 4 November 2006

I'm a 16 year old straight girl and I think I'm falling for one of my closest friends who is definitely gay. He hugs, kisses me (on the cheek), and also tells me he loves me just about everyday so it's that much harder to get over my feelings for him. I know he'll never love me back the same way...so what should i do?

2006-11-04 16:48:06 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

I have a gf, but im also still attracted to other girls. We have a serious relationship but i know i cant take it to the next step until i deal with this issue. I love her but i cant be with her and only her for the rest of my life....what should i do?

2006-11-04 16:46:30 · 29 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Its Our first anniversary. wheres a good place to go to. A reasonable cost vacation will be fine. Thanks and 10 ptz for best answer...

2006-11-04 16:45:31 · 7 answers · asked by Sr 2 in Other - Family & Relationships

I think I have fouond the love of my life , but the timing was off. since then i have gotten with a guy for the past 4 yrs and all we really have in common is sex, the sex is great but I want more from life.the first guy wants me back and there are a few complications but I can see the love in his eyes and feel it in his touch. The 2nd guy has been in jail for the past 7 month and it is not the first time since we have been together. Should I dump the jail bird and go with the man I know I love. I love both but in completely diffrent ways. The first one I will always love because he makes me smile, he is funny and charming and he is so sweet to me and makes me whole. The 2nd one says he is trying to change to be the man I want him to be and to not get into anymore trouble. I love the 2nd one but I know I will never love him like I do the first. Long store short 2 days ago I slept with my x and I am not sorry about it. What should I do Am i wrong? I need sopme advice please help!

2006-11-04 16:44:40 · 3 answers · asked by southernchick340 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 16:44:38 · 20 answers · asked by ? 6 in Marriage & Divorce

theres a guy at school i'm to scared to ask him out and i have no clue how to flirt so some one help me !!!!

2006-11-04 16:44:15 · 14 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

My boyfriend and I live together. I moved over an hour away from my family and hometown to live with him. So basically I know no one here except him and a few people i work with (like 2).

Tonight, I got done w/work and I called him on my way home. He said "I'm at Jon's house, I will be home in about 20 minutes. Can't wait to see you!"

He got home, 10 minutes later... "I'm going over to Andy's to rollerblade"

Is it wrong for me to expect him to stay home w/me and spend time with me, especially when earlier today he said that he would after I got done w/work. Beacause he knew i was kinda weird about it, and he didn't understand why I was quiet after he told me that.

Serious answers only please! best answer = 10 points.

Thanks in advance!

2006-11-04 16:44:13 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

What problems could a legal separation cause?

2006-11-04 16:42:58 · 5 answers · asked by galbee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

All daddy does lately is smoke pot. Every day! When I got pregnant he quit to finish college and get a good job. Well he goes to work and that's about it. He barely spends any sober time with us at all. We have terrible communication and he's seriously addicted to fantisy sports online and watching sports on TV. I'm a very busy person and love being on the go. He never wants to go to the park or anything with us and refuses to seek counceling. He also knows I can't stand pot smokers! What should I do? Marry him? Ultimatum? We already have a bunch of money saved up for a house and have many plans for the future??? I don't want to make a big mistake but I also feel like leaving the father of my child would be a big mistake as well. He does have a lot of good qualities. HelP!!!

2006-11-04 16:41:05 · 28 answers · asked by lalala 1 in Marriage & Divorce

i recently caught my bf (we've been together for a year and a half) having sexual conversations with some girl on yahoo IM. this happened one time two weeks ago. we were arguing, and hadn't seen each other in a few days, although we talked everday. he said that its not a big deal, b/c we were fighting and i wasn't there. i read the IM and i can only imagine what she was doing on her web cam while my boyfriend jerked off. i may be wrong, but i feel like he cheated on me. i read more IMs all of them were the same thing, he was trying to jerk-off to sluts with web cams. i was soo horrified when i read these. i never knew my boyfriend would do something like that. i have found porn that he downloaded on his computer before, and i told him how that hurt me. but this is just so beyond wrong if u ask me. i would rather he watched porn, then actually tell these sluts how beautiful they are and what he wanted to do to them, and how hard he was watching them. i feel so violated. am i wrong?

2006-11-04 16:39:27 · 13 answers · asked by so confused 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 16:39:22 · 3 answers · asked by chubby 1 in Friends

I met him online. He and me are from different countries.Finally we met outside our home country and fall in love each other. Before we met at outside, we already fall in love. I am with him about 2 years. However, his dream and my dream is different. I want to study up to degree. But he wants me stay by his side. And some other reasons. So i wish to break up with him. But i reali reali love him alot. So does he. He love me like crazy.I've tried several ways to break up. I told him I got another guy. but he doesn't believe me at all. However u told me that,if I got other guy, just simply introduce with him....How could i do that to him???? But i must break up with him. ...I love him..thus why i want to break up with him and i dun want him to hope me as his life partner.

2006-11-04 16:39:01 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

Please help me on this...well it is kind of hard for me to think about this over n over again...i just know that my ex bf had a car crash..n i would like to convey my sympathy for him n his family..but when i think of it back again shud i convey my sympathy by texting him or not since i have promised to myself that i dont want to know about him till the day i die cos he's the one that dump me ...but when my silly friend told me bout this deep in my heart suddenly i felt sorry for him...i guess im kind of egoist

2006-11-04 16:38:54 · 14 answers · asked by tinkerbellpebbles 2 in Friends

2006-11-04 16:38:13 · 14 answers · asked by galbee 3 in Marriage & Divorce

so yeah i told my mother that i had a choice 2 make working at the mall or the daycare center ao i had pick the mall so that i can make enough money 4 me 2 move out and move in with my man so that we can get a eariler start so that when june of 2007 comes around the corner we can be ready and i can be make some over time money.

2006-11-04 16:37:55 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Other - Family & Relationships

My dad said that a man should never get married. He said there is no security in marriage for a man. He said if I cheat on my wife she gets half my stuff. If my wife cheats on me, she still gets half my stuff. He also said that being married is no different than being single because after you get married, your wife quits having sex anyways. Only difference between being single and being married is when your married, your stuck with a nagging pain in the ***. Are men as doomed as my dad claims??????

2006-11-04 16:37:27 · 19 answers · asked by xdfsddfgdfgdfg d 1 in Marriage & Divorce

2006-11-04 16:36:47 · 10 answers · asked by happy to be me 2 in Singles & Dating

I have a serious problem. I'm only 16.
I have a boyfriend. I just met him. Its my 1st time being in love. On the 1st day we met, I'm so happy we just watched a movie and kissed each other. That's all.



The next day we started calling each other . The following day when I wake up, I can't eat and have these palpitations. I started vomiting. But as the day ends, I become okay. We keep calling with each other. The next day, as I wake up again, I can't eat and decide to sleep again to ease the pain in my heart. I go for a check up, they say I have normal heartbeat. Now, we decided to stop calling each other for a while because he feels sad too. He miss me and I miss him too.

We're okay, why I feel so sad? what's wrong with me? Until now, every morning, i can't eat... am i just shocked beacuse it was my 1st time? help me plssss.. what wil I do?

2006-11-04 16:36:22 · 8 answers · asked by junie lee 1 in Singles & Dating

I had a "bestest friend" named "Tia" Jackson. I know a sister's name & her dad's name. The family was quite distant. I know most of her given name. May I state the family members' names on Answers? Maybe someone knows one of them, or maybe a family member will read this. Tia lived in Portland, Oregon.

2006-11-04 16:36:11 · 3 answers · asked by Rae 2 in Family

i am going out with this guy and i dont no if he really likes me

2006-11-04 16:35:44 · 1 answers · asked by gib is so sexy 1 in Singles & Dating

Its a true love story.we love each other truly and live globally apart. We both are married. In short we saw each other in family gathering when i visited my country. we didnt had any conversation but we knew we fell in lov. after i came back we connected each other through net. next time i visited after a year and we talked and talked and we found each other so similar. our first kiss, we knew next day we will be miles apart. Its been 5 yrs. and we have met 3 times total we have not spent even a day fully.
Everyday we miss each other but we cannot communicate openly.
Deep Inside we truly lov each other a lot. We dont know when we will see each other again. we dont want to hurt or disturb our family. Is anybody in my situation where you dont know when you will see your true love again. There is no easy way for us to see each other. Strict country rules , and cultural issues. Love Life and Live Thanks.

2006-11-04 16:34:28 · 7 answers · asked by babli 1 in Friends

2006-11-04 16:34:25 · 15 answers · asked by det_snowbear 2 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 16:33:45 · 12 answers · asked by mctorn 2 in Singles & Dating

Long story short...had a female friend, 8 years...I was always interested in her for more but she was always with someone so I just ignored those feelings and did what I had to as a friend. Well she left her husband and decided that was the time to tell me that she always knew how I felt about her after, for the first time in our relationship, I had any hope more could happen. She decided to do it on a day of the funeral of a family member of mine to boot. After a few weeks of deliberating, I decided I was done with her for good. Her attitude was not applogetic whatsoever, she figured nothing had changed as far as she was concerned. I did tell her I would be cool but the sum of the whole deal just made it so I couldnt be around her. I also told her to just kill the fantasy but she wouldnt even tell me she never seen me as boyfriend material. Well weeks pass, we arent talking,etc, and she contacts me, now unfortunate is turning to ugly. She feels I think I am too good to be her friend.

2006-11-04 16:32:38 · 5 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family

OK I DONT KNO ID THIS BOY LIKES ME OR NOT!!! HE TOLD MY FRIEND HE LIKES ME AS A FRIEND BUT HE ALWAYZ STARES AT ME AND MESSES WIT ME! WHAT DOES THAT MEAN ?? HE USED GIV ME HUGS AND STUFF NOW WE AVOID EACH OTHER!! IM SO CONFUSED HE TOLD HIS FRIEND HE TRIES 2 TALK 2 ME BU TI HAVE AN ATTITUDE BU TI REALLY DONT!! WHAT AM I 2 DO I LIKE HIM BUT I DON TKNO HOW HE FEELS CAN SUMBODY HELP ME??

2006-11-04 16:31:03 · 3 answers · asked by Anonymous in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 16:30:43 · 6 answers · asked by Chris 1 in Marriage & Divorce

Do you think A person has a better chance of longer lasting relationship than someone who meets the person in person?

Interesting thoughts, who knows, someone should try it to see and tell everyone else what happened.

2006-11-04 16:30:39 · 2 answers · asked by Common Sense 5 in Singles & Dating

I know the obvious answer is stop flirting but It's really hard to do. I have been married for 6 years and my wife is a great person. However, I get absolutely no physical or emotional attention anymore. We are more like best friends with a son. I definately do not want to leave her. I have been working with a young lady for a year now and for the past 3 weeks we have gotten to know each other very well. She is trying to leave her hubby because he is abusing her and I have been helping her cope at work. She reminds me of my wife alot, we enjoy the same things to a "t". We began a sort of mild flirting last week and I am so confused. My wife and I have talked about getting more intimate but nothing ever changes. I just need some advice from anyone who has been in this situation before. I feel like a highschool kid again when I am with my co-worker, I get the whole butterflies in the stomach feeling. THats a feeling I havent had in years.

2006-11-04 16:29:53 · 26 answers · asked by Anonymous in Marriage & Divorce

Is 5'1 and 82lbs fat?? All my friend except my teamates say this as does my coach. I am a gymnast looking for a guy to help me find my way. i am in hs. I have brown hair and eyes.I am kind, loving and accepting. I know you need time with friends as do I. I have very white perfec teeth. Would you date/help me??or would you rape me like some other guy I know?? Would you say i am fat?? I don't get my period for oct. to mar cuz i train hardest then. What would you do to help me stay outta the hospital?? Would you stick up for me or rag on me to every1??
I am a vegetarian so don't go saying you would give me meat!
I am not perfect, I was raped/molested but I finally trust men again. It's been a year. Would you date me?? What would you do to help me fix my weight problem(yes i admit i have 1)? Would you ever rape me?? What can I do to help get better?? Would you be loyal??Please be honest!!

2006-11-04 16:29:53 · 7 answers · asked by vinny 1 in Singles & Dating

2006-11-04 16:29:26 · 6 answers · asked by wylie g 1 in Singles & Dating