I have a serious problem. I'm only 16.
I have a boyfriend. I just met him. Its my 1st time being in love. On the 1st day we met, I'm so happy we just watched a movie and kissed each other. That's all.
The next day we started calling each other . The following day when I wake up, I can't eat and have these palpitations. I started vomiting. But as the day ends, I become okay. We keep calling with each other. The next day, as I wake up again, I can't eat and decide to sleep again to ease the pain in my heart. I go for a check up, they say I have normal heartbeat. Now, we decided to stop calling each other for a while because he feels sad too. He miss me and I miss him too.
We're okay, why I feel so sad? what's wrong with me? Until now, every morning, i can't eat... am i just shocked beacuse it was my 1st time? help me plssss.. what wil I do?
2006-11-04 16:36:22 · 8 answers · asked by junie lee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Puppy love is a strong emotional experience. Enjoy and learn from it. I remember my first, and it was good and bad experiences. Just go with it.
2006-11-04 16:38:30 · answer #1 · answered by Common Sense 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
There is nothing wrong with being in love. Its just some people cant deal with seeing other people in love. I say continue to do what you are doing. Those feelings that you are having are regular. Its like having butterflies every time he kisses you. I feel like that when i am with my guy all the time. Good luck with your relationship.
2006-11-05 00:43:56 · answer #2 · answered by fremme_venette 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. see a therapist.
2. yea being in love is not wrong, it just gets more complicated whe you are older. you base it on ideology <--- spelled wrong but i dont care. You base it on a number of other things. You start becoming more independant and thinking for yourself rather then what those idiots on MTV tell you. So that plays a big factor on who you choose to be in a relationship with. If you disagree with such things a value's and morals then chances are you wont work out.
2006-11-05 00:41:15 · answer #3 · answered by millertime06 3 · 0⤊ 2⤋
You can't be "in love". People grow to love one another, & it doesn't happen in one or two days. My "first love", as I called him was a very strong addiction in my life. Other "loves" whom I had were also addictions. I didn't meet my "first love" until I was thirty-five years of age. I had been in recovery for addictions (people, shopping, & more) when I met him. I questioned myself about past signs with other guys to watch myself with this one. I knew that I really did love him; we married. Addiction in this case can feel quite like love; don't let it fool you. Study the signs of codependence. Step away from this situation.
2006-11-05 00:45:30 · answer #4 · answered by Rae 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
its more likely psychological
jus wait
time heals all wounds
emotional and physical
if nothing changes in 3 days (give or take)
then see a doctor
and the heart beat thing, when people say (when i hear their voice, my heart skips a beat, it doesnt LITERALLY mean that)
n honestly, that doesnt sound too good ten
its good u saw a doctor atleast
just wait
time will tell
tell me if u need more help
im 16 too :D
2006-11-05 00:47:28 · answer #5 · answered by Nick723 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
hmmm...maybe you dont want to be dating since you say you are in love already.
2006-11-05 00:39:57 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
you may have some depressional or phsycological issues
2006-11-05 00:38:27 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 2⤋
It's all in your head,you'll get over it.
2006-11-05 00:39:16 · answer #8 · answered by master_der_man 6 · 0⤊ 2⤋