Is 5'1 and 82lbs fat?? All my friend except my teamates say this as does my coach. I am a gymnast looking for a guy to help me find my way. i am in hs. I have brown hair and eyes.I am kind, loving and accepting. I know you need time with friends as do I. I have very white perfec teeth. Would you date/help me??or would you rape me like some other guy I know?? Would you say i am fat?? I don't get my period for oct. to mar cuz i train hardest then. What would you do to help me stay outta the hospital?? Would you stick up for me or rag on me to every1??
I am a vegetarian so don't go saying you would give me meat!
I am not perfect, I was raped/molested but I finally trust men again. It's been a year. Would you date me?? What would you do to help me fix my weight problem(yes i admit i have 1)? Would you ever rape me?? What can I do to help get better?? Would you be loyal??Please be honest!!
2006-11-04 16:29:53 · 7 answers · asked by vinny 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I was molested by a friend ofmy bf and went through a phase where i hated the human touch. He was kind though. I broke up with him cuz i knew he needed more than i felt like giving at the time so...but now i love being hugged and kissed.
2006-11-04 16:33:19 · update #1
Would you ever try to take a girl further than she wanted to go??
2006-11-04 16:34:35 · update #2
I look normal. I can eat tons but never gain weight. All of us are like that for season cuz we train harder.
2006-11-04 16:36:15 · update #3
60010 anybody?? I am filthy rich so I am looking to make some poor guys life better!!
2006-11-04 16:38:49 · update #4
I am like all muscle.
2006-11-04 16:39:31 · update #5
girlfriend go get some help not only with your wt problem or lack of but for your other issues as well because you clearly have them.... where in the hell are your parents??? and y are they not making you go to a dr? or your coach?
2006-11-04 16:33:47 · answer #1 · answered by crazyme 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i wouldnt date you coz lol im a girl but i want to help...1st off you are NOT FAT! how dare your teammates and coaches say that to you! do you know you should be in the 120-130s for your height? you dont have to eat meat to be healthy there are things to replace meat like tofu and you can make healthy good meals with things like that.....but 82lbs is not healthy at all! i hope you reported this guy who raped you...if you didnt you can still do it....don't let him get away with raping you coz he probably has or will do it to some other girl. i know what it's liked to be raped too only i was super young when it happend to me so i know what you're going thru there...if you know you have a weight problem then you should talk to your parents and doctor to get help,otherwise you are going to get really sick...and you also should see your docotor about not having your period that's not healthy at all. if you want i can be an online buddy and help you with your problems and find a guy im on plenty of dating sites im sure i could help you find a good decent guy who will treat you right and help...but yeah i hope this helped you out and you get the help you need and find that guy if you want i'll pray for you...*hugs*
2006-11-05 00:42:20 · answer #2 · answered by Cassie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
you need to find yourself a hobby man, try bowling, its cheap, simple and fun.
however in the event that this story is true, which is unliekly but nothing in life is impossible, you need to find someone you can talk to, a close friend. dont go to a shrink, thats a waste of time and money, adn they never offer you solutions. you obviously suffered mental trauma, so dont worry aobut dating, worry about getting help. and you sound waaaay too skinny.
2006-11-05 00:36:58 · answer #3 · answered by irishthunda 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i dont want you to die
ive had friends w/ the same things you mentioned they got thourgh it and are still alive
i wish you the best of luck in gymnastics and in your life
oh and if you dont eat meat you might want to get protien some how cuz that builds mascle and you need that to do good in sports
*well ya*
<3
2006-11-05 00:36:50 · answer #4 · answered by ballet_tigger 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Look, you know you aren't fat. In fact, you should probably GAIN weight.
2006-11-05 00:33:41 · answer #5 · answered by Kathe H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Honey, you need professional help, not us amateurs on here!
Talk to your doctor and get referrals. FAST!!!
2006-11-05 00:34:19 · answer #6 · answered by bc_is_the_place_to_be 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i swear... i answered this already check your other umm blog, i agree w/ the girl above, i'll pray for u too =)
2006-11-05 01:38:42 · answer #7 · answered by endless dreamer 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋